"Actually what happens is this. You begin to realize you are not your thoughts, you are not your body, you are not a person, you are not your mind, you are not the anger, you don’t have a mother, you don’t have a father, you don’t have a family, you are not your life partner, you are not the pain, there are no others, you are not the hurt, you are not the world, you're not even liberated. You are nothing. As you begin to think this way, whatever has to happen in your evolution will transpire without your doing anything. If you are meant to be with a teacher, you will be with a teacher. If you are meant to be by yourself, you will be by yourself. Yet, you have absolutely nothing to do with these things. Remain in the no thought state. Leave the world alone. Leave people alone. Do not come to any conclusion. Do not judge anyone. Everything will take care of itself." 

~Nisargadatta Maharaj