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is that really true there's something called vampire facer birth control of birth control polycystic ovaries of birth control right birth control birth control lot of money involved in fertility treatment planning for children later because of this drinks and people don't want unnecessary responsibility and feel they want to have sex only for a baby it's a normal Think sex should not be only for children virginity testing patient the boy side of the family come but there's one thing there's nothing called as virginity tested out performance is that okay to use it what advertisements are you watching whatites are you watching podcast Dr pria she is infertility specialist and gynecologist let's brush myths about sex sexual wellness and fertility problems stay tuned thank you hello Dr hello all good we are doing good thank you so welcome to Vidywani podcast by Akumar thank you so topics like sexual health thanks for accepting our invitation thank you i'll do my best thank you thank you dental clinics fertility centers even cosmetology centers there's lot of money involved in fertility treatment second chami planning for children because of this dinks and people don't want unnecessary responsibility and feel you know one month they're running to fertility centers and they're like I don't want to go through so many things first we'll Tell them IVF ivf is almost the top last resort i don't want to go through this all i directly want to go to IVF okay social stigma is a lady woman they feel having a child um I'm not talking about the highly educated sector or the rich sector there is one sector of uh clients that even I have I won't call them patients because problem who want to have children just to stay they're worried husbands They're worried maybe they'll think that who want to have children fear and that is a huge percentage of people and some businesses I'm not saying doctors doctors also maybe I don't know can some businesses are cashing in on that fear so infertility center So I think somewhere number of really good fertility doctors because all the time you want to be at you have to be at work because there was one time Maybe because single doctors just one doctor used to put up clinics and start doing surgeries nursing homes maybe they're cashing in on something and doing it and also oneility specialists and embryologists who play a key role in infertility are really there out there like like Anu test tube center and all they do such ethical work because of certain people who are cashing in I feel sometimes like you said they're cropping upility because they were all at home yes why is it that in Kerala the fertility rate is so high because they don't have much to do after a certain time nothing so their recreation is something else maybe all the patients precoid for fertility treatment and counseling post during so many of them became pregnant naturally okay so I think somewhere fertility has lot to do with stresses of pregnancy are more but of course I hope I've answered a little bit of what you asked yeah so men have no issues with uh producing sperms lifelong okay they can produce till they are alive issues it can affect the test okay okay later on in life when it's not corrected childhood and all that drinking smoking and illicit drugs okay andale when you are born when you are actually made as a woman embryo the number of eggs are made ovaries the number of eggs I'm born with made when I am in my mother's stomach only as a fetus okayong Okay once I get first if you get if it fertilizes pregnancyal okay sometimes we see twins and all sometimes sometimes so some not healthy eggs the day the eggs finish you start your menopause phase okay so mostly 50 to 55 years menopause okay yeah by then eggs will be over okay okay and recent freezing of eggs of eggs of eggs infertility specialist freezing eggs we want many eggs okay maybe I'm focused on something else it can be anything h at 50 I realize I'm financially stable as a woman and I would like to have a child without a husband even without a husband with a husband with a partner I don't care whatever as a person I want to have a child of my own my DNA infertility center younger age when you have a good egg count okay they take it out with a special procedure a certain stage freeze is that safe to to safe that's how actually speaking that's how even IVF is done okay sperms then they make sure the sperm goes into the freezing whatever is surviving they take it and put it in the mother's This is similar whenever you want 10 years later but now I think science is progressing so much okay whenever you're ready you can take a sperm your partner's sperm or somebody you think is qualified or enough for you to have a child with their DNA or sperm donor okay okay 50 you can use agate because maybe I don't know maybe my knowledge is a little limited going forward if your uterus is I won't be able to tell but you can go for a surrogate mother okay infertility most common I think stress Married couples especially they want to have sex only for a baby I think stress and second I I want to tell I want to use this one way of telling patients that don't have sex for having a child have sex to save or to Keep yourself and your partner also happy in a lot of ways sex should not be only for children alan I'm not saying have sex with multiple sexual partners it can cause STDs but I'm saying save sex and but you in a marriage uh sex should be um uh a way of getting more intimate also pregnancy if there is no major genetic abnormalities in both men and women say pregnancy but most common cause is obesity infertility obesity polycystic ovaries polycystic ovaries toxins 90% younger generation polycystic ovaries one of the leading causes PCOS yeah PCOS okay leading causes for infertility infertility yeah sedentary lifestyle so you know um young age to start drinking okay Young age of not exercising in young age not my age group somewhere I think a sedentary lifestyle is there any ideal age to get pregnant I don't believe there is an ideal age to get pregnant till you have menop Because you are capable any lady's capable of getting pregnant only thing is age pregnancy issues percentage of having that issue 21 BP sugar of getting BP sugar is only 2% 40y old in your case BP sugar that is the only difference abnormal babies Down syndrome 40 year olds percentage is almost becoming equal so Alan in my view lot of people will will be against this Ghani in my view I don't think there's an age to get pregnant you are you should plan a child if you are uh capable of having a child and if your body is okay having a child you can have till you get menopause sexual health or sexual wellness entity okay sexual health it's the same words okay basic sexually you have to be uh like I said be very careful your STD levels multiple sexual partners make sure uh that you're very careful and uh generally you know you can't just go like an animal just go have sex all over the city nothing wrong in that also each person's but be careful if you're sex make Sure you are safe or they are also safe and sex women pregnancy chances are there okay okay you have to practice safe sex contraception is must because times herpes sometimes we've seen patients young girls um when they come forward you know after their uh you know marriage or something pre-marriage whatever they have and post they come for planning a child we've seen infertility rates because their body is so good it can handle it later on scars form uterus are we are we can't do anything about it so this is what we say when we say sexual health also sexual healthy words okay and all that sexual health be careful whatever you're doing take precautions and starting stage you have to meet your doctors okay either men go to urologist or women go to gynecologist whoever even a general physician to an extent they can help okay specialy courses practicing safe sex uh making sure you're keeping your private parts very healthy and interaction you have with the person you're going to be intimate with Adi me partner au whoever you know like what they say friends with benefits whatever words they give you know coin words whatever you do you have to make sure you're safe and also whatever you do it should not cause mental trauma okay saying no if you want to say you should not let it mentally trauma that basically according to me is sexual health and and you're active it is a couple's choice how they are comfortable okay virginity testing virginity testing and that the boy side of the family come and ask normally the girls uh but there's one thing there's nothing called as virginity test and mostly we coun them okay first counseling first time sexed and then we explain to them you know some people use tampons we try to explain to them last see I've been working over 20 years last 10 years no one comes and asks okay maybe out of 100 patients one one mother-in-law want to be mother-in-law or father-in-law the girls but we do have lot of young girls coming and saying ma'am I was sexually active now I'm getting married would you like would you vaginal plasty tight chest vagina I want it to be tighter for my partner uh we do it it's a procedure it's a surgery where we do and beautifification of vagina dark skin pigmentation so we we do it and also after normal deliveries two three normal deliveries they come back and say my partner is not very happy sexually I would like to tighten performance enhancement and penis size so is that okay to use it what advertisements are you watching yeah what websites are you watching okay uh see there's something medically there's some uh tablet called also known as Viagra okay and Viagra okay you have to go to a doctor while BP especially BP medication certain you can die by taking it patient can die on the spot okay so we should be very careful with uh sen viagra tablets and all that uh penis enlargement it is a lie according to me it's just like saying Viagra is meant to keep your penis erect okay for a longer and faster alcohol or if they are not really attracted to the person but they want to have sexual activity erection okay and if they're healthy such type of in those situations they take Viagra okay and Viagra it stays for a little longer it's also to pleasure your partner in a lot of ways men when they want to pleasure their partner for a longer time they take Viagra and Mali Viagra should be taken only after talking to a doctor okay you can't just go to the shop buy it off and take it so don't buy from those ads you might just lose your life and oral sex no not at all that's a lie oral sex cancers even for example say HPV virus human papilloma virus this is the virus which causes cancer cervix cancer starting stages of uh penile cancer okay uh it doesn't survive in the other person's mouth and if STDs you're touching that with your mouth chances of spread of herpes STD sexually transmitted herpes or some fungal infections say for example the person who's giving oral sex okay they might not even know cancer when somebody performs oral sex cancer is not transmissible yes it's a mutation in a gene okay genetic mutant a gene and exposure cancer okay okay and breast examination okay breast always two breast single breast post cancer surgeries breast assessment breast four quadrants divide okay and hand should be put up and you should examine each quadrant divide it into four quadrants 1 2 3 four and then you should examine the four quadrants with slight pressure e part of the hand you have to rub and see okay any time you feel a lump% change and nipple you have to see if there are any painful lumps okay and underarm is the most common area that people miss breast tail you should check that also and underarms could you should press with slight pressure you should press and check okay and black is really no at all no brazers your undergarments have nothing to do with cancer skin cancer skin cancer not cancer skin infection breast cancers zero we nothing nothing like that brazers we have to remove when we are sleeping okay you have to you can't have 24 hours under garments brazers or panties should be removed they have to be removed Okay yeah and uh braces any types push-up bras regular t-shirt bras or shimies nothing will cause cancers okay that's a lie that's a myth okay yeah infertility so exercise like you can eat healthy diet and all exercise 100% make sure they don't you should not gain weight ladies especially ladies hormone imbalance sperm spermacher slow process Okay and all that and polycystic ovaries okay so exercise is a must we expect exercise like walking yoga but fast for some time is called cardio exercises that is when the body starts burning fat fat okay okay or it will burn muscle so one of them we tend to burn muscle because you won't see a healthy body toned body the muscle will keep on working so it will take from the fat cells so normally pregnancy plan uh we tell the couple both the partners to try to stop drinking alcohol uh don't smoke smoking alcohol and also no drugs illicit drugs if you're doing they have to stop it immediately and weight loss if you're on the chubier side and all that BMI will be normal Okay just be healthy exercises certain hormones pregnancy so exercise but food has nothing to do but there's no proven studies I don't want to take a risk okay but proven because they're coming pregnant we don't want to take a risk yes as doctors we don't want the patient to lose the child fertility rate none of them are proven there no proven studies that chances of pregnancy general health will improve okay and female infoyroid see uterus cervix vagina tubes and ovaries this is the female organs and blood hormones which are released from these ovaries and all that pregnancy hormones ovaries physically tubes chances of egg and sperm meeting are zero mostly polycystic ovaries are born with poor reserves okay okay and tubes block already we discussed about it every month severe pain and all so we open it up if we can do a surgery we do a surgery and most very uncommon but not condition where sperms vaginal enter the female's body identifies it as outside or outside okay there's no condition to treat it the only treatment for it is IUI male sperms we cross the vagina very thin tube syringe attached plastic very not tube we take that and insert it into the cervix okay so that a vagina crosses like it's like an army of luccoytes which don't which will kill the luccoytes WBC cells white blood cells one of those they will kill the sperms condition so that's very rare we think that is the cause okay polycystic ovaries thyroid weight gain most commonly seen physical uh um uterus problems are picked up very early in life okay after two children or something or after one child they want to have or ectopic in lifethreatening conditions we have no choice ivf is the only treatment IVF IUI difference okay iui intrauterine insemination we don't take out the eggs we give them some tablets hormones injection egg releasing scans a particular day we think okay we call the partner we say please give you a sample semen sample a sample you wash we try to take the most uh the best effective sperms okay tone we go through this is not and it's a much cheaper procedure IUI just it's a painless procedure we just surpasses and we expect the sperms to do its job IVF we take the sperms we take the eggs also Okay embryo stage we put it in the uterus okay so here we are doing all the work tube because the baby is formed in the testube but I not doing anything just taking the sperm and crossing the vagina maybe the sperms are not able to reach the egg for some reason but the sperm and the egg have to do their own work uh pass through the vagina if the body is thinking that it's sperms or pinpoint cervix where the cervix is so tight that the sperm is unable to go through it or the push of the sperms is not enough okay so we take those kind of sperms and we put it near the egg so that it's easy to fertilize success rates are quite high in IUI also okay male female baby it will wait in the tube okay and the sperm will go from the vagina cervix uterus it will it will meet for they move and come into the uterus tube for they'll move and come into the uterus weeks uterus sometimes sometimes that is ectopic pregnancy lifeening condition okay then it is one cell two cells already male cell female not male cell female cell sperms male female cells ladies egglo only female cells so sperm X chromosome Y chromosome fertiliz that decides the sex of the baby so basically sperm decides whether it's a boy or girl okay that is because her partner sperms has only female chromosome okay only the man the male decides whether it is an female or a male the sperm will decide not even the man sperm female chromosome male chromosome fertilized chest that is what the sex of the baby will be mother will not have a male chromosome in her egg at all it'll have only X chromosome which is female chromosome then multiply just like a tree plant cell two cells two cells four cells four cells eight cells multiply each cell will have a memory e cells eyes e cells nose e cells ears it will form that's why we see sometimes certain cells environment of the uterus if the mother is a smoker or passive smoking or she's alcohol addict or some drug abuse or she's a highly diabetic lady not controlling sugar genetic defects form hypothemed in 90% of the case 10% genetic abnormalities a sperm lo chromosome or chromosome already problem because all sperms are not uh and all eggs are not disorders i should not take those names but disorders chromosomes pain and pleasure go hand in hand so pain uh one thing I have to mention this to all ladies or men you should not have pain when you're having sexual activity when when you're not really comfortable with your partner generally of course it's changing now which I'm very happy sex is a bad thing psychologically there's a condition called vaginismas okay where psychologically their muscles become tight vaginal muscles and very difficult to have penetration and intercourse time it's a real condition these young girls it's a normal thing normal act i wish I'm sure a lot of parents are doing this now where you tell your kids that sex is not a wrong thing but there is an age to do it yes you wait for the age and practice safe sex whenever you're having it you know maybe because parents are also very friendly and it put at least I feel parents and kids should talk it out where parents should tell the children you know it's not supposed to you know you're not supposed to do it till a certain age hold on it's good for you and I hope we all understand that sex is not supposed to be painful it is pleasure And the pain pleasure go hand in hand is a different type of mentality type of sexual pleasure some people have it because there are different types of pleasures what can work for somebody may not work for somebody so one thing pain is not supposed to be there mentally prepare we are going to do this and don't do it because you want to keep that person happy do it because you want to keep yourself happy okay that is the first moto which I tell all my young clients have sex practice safe sex and sex is not supposed to hurt if you're well lubricated and you're not scared anxiousness the first time they do it man and woman anxiousness but if it is hurting a lot you have to meet the doctor to find out why this is happening and like similar like tattoos that's a different mentality so it's a two-edged sword but sex is not supposed to be painful painful yeah so self-pleasure question they are having their own uh thing like masturbating so is that really safe to do so masturbation is not at all a problem masturbation is quite safe only thing masturbation you get so used to because you know your pleasure points in that whole idea of whether he's going to get to know my pleasure points or I'm going to get to know his pleasure points uh like you know you're so used to getting this but uh like I said lot of people socially are on social media are only meeting people so some physical contact that we are seeing a lot there's another se sector of people who are meeting only for sexual activity there's one sector of people who are only masturbating both are absolutely fine masturbation sexual problems as long as it is safe masturbation as long as you're using clean in like you know certain like whatever instruments you're using or whatever products you're using and sometimes we see sexual toys and all that are good as long as you're keeping them clean and you are very hygienically using them there's no harm in having masturbating how muchever your body wants you do it okay and so again was a protective cover for the vagina or anything okay hair will give you that sensation a movement of the hair so and having hair is a again two-edged sword because naturally it was like a protective mechanism it's better to trim the hair but if you're waxing laser all are safe but waxing irritate sorry follicles hair follicles okay because we should use disposable razors Okay so no harm in removing the hair keeping the hair certain precautions follow like make sure waxing is done by a professional okay and shaving is done properly with hygiene wash in the direction of hair growth opposite direction whatever suits your skin allergic reactions hair removing creams are also safe what's your view on vaginal health see vaginal health is very important one if vagina is healthy yeast infections fungal infections you have to wash ladies have to wash lot of people say warm water so you have to wash with intimate wash or soap bar soap but don't use body wash because body wash contains alcohol in it alcohol in dry so you have to use intimate wash and or a soap at least twice a day this is most important and keep that area as dry as possible you should try to air that area so that the growth of fungal infection is less okay and second you have to visit your doctor don't wait for it to become so bad that we take a lot of uh treatment and second people won't have any smell infection come and complain of burning sensation i'm not able to have sex for more than 2 three minutes it starts burning it starts hurting don't think that as pleasure or pain okay that is some amount of infection also okay then most common mistake what people do young girls or elderly sex you have to pass urine the ladies have to pass urine minimal infection urine urinary tract urine infection it'll come out immediately at least this is minimal and wash yourself okay wash and wipe it dry infection Okay okay two different openings okay okay so okay so vaginal opening is totally different urine opening is different urine opening infection infections pass urine immediately after sex and sex release ejaculate sperms as you get up everything will flow out it is normal for 90% of the ladies it will flow out whatever is if you're planning a pregnancy whatever is outside clean it up if you're not planning a pregnancy clean up what is inside your vagina okay and unwanted pregnancy most concerning factor so unwanted pregnancy unwanted pregnancies first of all I just had sex i became pregnant you terminate it's not right we don't do it as doctors certain reasons if they've used some medication they've tried certain methods to avoid pregnancy condom rupture pull out method try but it did not work or OCPS over the counter contracept they say ma'am this is not they come and say ma'am we used all this in that case they are legally allowed to have a termination so then we ask them okay these these these conditions but take the pills pills Okay certain uh if the growth of the uterus is not more than 7 to 8 weeks we can clear it with pills there will be one sector of people and certain growth we not supposed to use pills okay okay so so below 8 weeks only we do the termination with pills and that they're legally fine to do the termination first of all it's not the right thing to do please understand they are also not doctors okay and heavy bleeding we have seen women uh come to me in dire emergency conditions literally on the verge of collapsing bleeding don't worry none of us are going to judge you just come we'll give you the right medication the right way take it only from a doctor these pills ligong infertility scar the uterus so badly second they might even die we have seen patients come literally with almost hemoglobin to by the time we start blood day we've lost them and I'm not saying RMPS are wrong or anything so sometimes that also happens so when come to a proper doctor because these are conditions where life-threatening infection we have to make sure that you have a pregnancy again yes yeah hormone imbalance they end up with polycystic ovaries sometimes they end up with depression hormones correct dose correct depression that is something we see postpartum depression this is also like that they slip into depression and they never come out of it each patient andies are not supposed to sell these MTPs without a prescription they're not supposed to give give it andale nonp proven but yes sex of the child like I said part of the chromosome gender for So pregnant maybe now everyone wants girls so we won't know so No I don't think please don't eat nonsense i don't allow my patients to go for hair straightening bleaching okay one generally hormone and nothing wrong and going for healthy pregnancy skinny people healthy very fit people towards the end of pregnancy because of the pressure whatever baby body certain blood vessels arteries veins pooling of blood pooling of water retention within 48 hours it will go off wait turn to the left side and sleep so that there's no pressure on the main arteries and veins okay infections yeah in that happy situation instruments it's happened once to us then by the time I'm like you know please move away sometimes they hit us with the cameras we've seen usually but they want to document it there's nothing wrong so I'll tell one incident I told this we understand whether the husbands can handle a blood and all that question there was one couple where I kept saying listen you can't handle it no I said "Are you sure?" He came so this I don't come if you're not queasy if you're tell patients not to patients husbands not to come but we allow anybody wants to come and see situations where we are expecting it to be a high-risk delivery we don't allow them okay i tell them no you'll be more of a pain for me in the you won't be of any help and uh we draw a line we say you can stand only beyond that line okay you cannot cross the line okay and recent years I think this has been happening I worked in maternity hospital it's just that because of social media so many and literally we used to beg them Don't dump the baby give somebody will adopt we used to see but it is very sad it is not the right uh I really blame some amount of upbringing also i wish and hope that see a 16year-old girl to even understand what it is to like to have a child what response at 30 40 itself we don't know how to handle children so you know maturity levely girl to avoid getting scolded by the family true true she did something like that on a very larger scale you know situation she didn't know better alahani I'm not saying what she did is right i'm just saying she's 16 years she's not even a major to understand what is having a child upbringing what I'm saying older to talk to i wish she came to us she came to me or you know I keep thinking we would have counseledled her we would have counseledled the partner we would have counseledled the uh family mostly because that is where they need maximum support instead of We would be more than happy to counsel them and there are so many people we are tied up with where they come they take care of young girls like this counsel them talk to their family teams which do all this work so I wish uh somebody gave her the right kind of information it's very saddening i wish they honoring so high in pregnant let us kill you you know we've seen honor killing honor get rid of them that this and all i wish all that comes down and I wish he had somebody to talk to so it's very trending now uh period is that really true see don't get confused with see there's something called vampire facial where they take your blood PRP components of the blood is good for the skin semen sorry the only thing if you put sperm or anything on your face the only thing you'll attract is people who are interested in sperm nothing else you'll attract okay so thanks a lot for answering all the questions i hope I was helpful thank you thank you yeah
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