Episode 2 - Yuva Approach towards Dharma

 Episode 2 - Yuva Approach towards Dharma

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so Dharma changes every day because we think different every day what is your relationship with God God easy and other thing isn't he us my mom never stopped me questioning her so it's like I continuously seek dancers from my parents so do you read any uh books puranas when you're reading mahabharatam or ramayanam see everyone has a perspective whatever a guru says should we should we be blind to it and follow it they Define that as fun do you agree with that uh definition of fun that is dopamine Rush again you think that's a good question that's a great answer do you have any advice for the Gen Z out there believe in your parents there is only one filter I have okay can I run to my mom and say this thing or am I hesitant about it what is a very delayed uh form of dopamine then for you meditation I'm very glad I'm having this conversation with you actually  so according to you what is happiness uh according to me happiness is being happy and being satisfied and being like you know understanding who are there around you and understanding their values happiness okay uh company happiness or that kind of dopamine Rush is happiness for us um happiness is very not inside it is the external factors but how much we rely on them is again another Factor okay so if if somebody is looking for happiness so they should always look at somebody else giving our happiness happens foreign peace of mind is different from happiness peace of mind is okay foreign let's say you go to a library foreign okay foreign  nice so his success definition what is definition of success according to you or what should people look up to success in today's generation there is no success without money and there is no happiness without money okay you you find happiness in luxury  they find happiness in a five-star hotel and they think that astronaut is okay and they get irritated so uh when you see someone who didn't experience everything in life and their spoon-fed Golden Spoon they want it in luxury but if you see people who has taken that beat of Life they can find uh happiness or success in being calm okay to themselves and being content and being in Clarity okay so they have the clarity conference in Clarity so so if you have Clarity you feel you are successful and content and content is important yeah okay so for you personally being content is successful yes okay uh as far as I'm confident about myself I'm fine okay the day I'm insecure I'm gone okay because my success story when I talk if I'm not confident about it um so success story has to be something coming out of confidence rectifying of the problem and solving something that is required to solved okay our position now the problem s you will be able to solve the problems and then you will see the success yeah we have to be content enough to to accept that we did something wrong okay mentality okay wonderful so it's like that so ah Clarity of thought what should one do like Nano degrees how can I get clarity suddenly like this because I just came out of it normal education  thought process this is the pattern that's happening I'll Rectify it if I have to rectify it okay so that kind of confidence comes from the patterns so we have to understand where we have to rectify Rectify ourselves and then go ahead Okay so that is again thank you Generations I know a lot of people actually say a name child introdean Martini do you believe in them or do you think because you are you learn psychology and you are actually a student of psychology do you need to stamp people like that no no okay okay that's it so simple there's no introverty there is introvert extrovert maybe that is because of insecurities or shine is that they have acquired through experiences of life okay but the thing is foreign on a outgoing social arrays it's all the insecurities that they have grow weapon like put in trouble exchange okay So based on experiences somebody will be both at a certain it will be altered good thank you so coming back to Dharma I know uh you you actually speak about Dharma without taking those words that's what exactly I saw in you when you actually spoke about recently or whatever you see I have seen you till now you speak about very very nuances of Dharma not telling it as Dharma all right so do you think dharmic life is boring it's not okay it's fun yeah okay because it is also pattern okay that needs to be understood and implemented so are you understanding the pattern that takes a lot of reading that takes a lot of observation in people okay okay so we have to eradicate that stuff but how to tell that to people okay we don't tell that okay yeah basically does it like somebody has to stand in front of a in a garden no the basic function of Puja is to sit with yourself and first of all it deals with five senses of your body you are lighting area and there is heat okay and there is light that is going into your iframe and there is certain incense from agarbati right so you are understanding different uh senses of your body it's good for health okay so uh okay it's not something a taboo okay these are all scientific facts converted into a scare stuff because  okay it's it's a scare in the money business but uh then it's again different if you know so fear is a fear good according fear is good at least to do some things no fear is actually converting scientific reasons into um Dogma yeah if you can put joy into what you do into a practice it would be very good for a Dharma yeah that's why people like partying ah there is no fear in party no there is no fear into them oh there's no fear in gambling there's no fear in party that's where they like it take it and prayers you will have some fear some fear is incorporated  um if we explain why we are following those rituals perfect perfect that used to be the scientific reason behind mukku it is if we tell them what the actual rituals were okay and why they were practiced then I think it's so you should get probably the logic behind the understanding questions let me reveal my age but yeah uh my question my generation questions we were asked not to question true do you think current generation is having a privilege to ask questions okay but uh there are certain kind of people who are like okay that is again a different story so you should ask we should ask we that is the basic nature of a human being when born so you give something to a kid they are curious about it you give something to adult they are dead inside okay you give me a talk pick I have to ask you multiple questions I have to be like into the internet but but Ma generation because we didn't question you ask question I will not be able to answer so better I stop you right no and then guide me to someone who knows the answer ah okay so yeah okay because you have your circle right yeah so guide me to them okay rather than saying okay I don't know better no uh if you can say that is that is okay that's a parent should do that to their kids okay we'll understand better you know okay I I was introduced to the topic of uh baby production in when I was three years old so I was not right though but I understood okay and then I never questioned anyone it's like I have my answers no okay okay so if parents are not able to answer the kids question they should guide them to somebody rather than cutting them off for questions or saying feeling bad that they can't answer in it yeah right not everyone knows everything no okay how do you expect your dad to know about something that's far happening in Africa you can't but you your dad surely knows someone who knows something is happening so he'll get him no so that is what a parent should do yeah very good just guide them I have zero belief in charity orphanages I uh hate the very first level of charity foreign what you do as old age Home Orphanage homes okay so you giving to them is also like encouraging kind that kind of things it's not encouraging that is the start of it so one example I'll tell you to just on the same topic Foundation key somebody came to us and said we run an orphanage is so what we felt was are you not encouraging by putting those things true right because you are telling people that you have all facilities please get your kids I I really relate to that logic what you said but if somebody comes to you and asks for a donation like uh be it any donation be it old age how do you how does one should deal with the charity of that kind if I am in a position of that where someone comes to me saying that amount you know you want something you want slabs I'll give you slabs okay I'll give you the material you want I'm not giving you cash okay it's as simple as that so give the end rather than means just not to support that beautiful you have the context to get it done okay get it done get it done if you not have fine contacts and get it done but don't give because it's going to misuse so no no ideally one should actually go and look at what is yeah what's happening and give the final result to them rather than giving the cash and it can be misused oh so it is not um giving respect to orphanages or that kind of stuff but it is giving respect for your own money wonderful this is psychology of money okay you can't cheat it okay foreign so on that note I'll ask you one very important question what is your definition of or what should one do with the money how do they should treat money uh actually um but the thing is okay so it's not about saving it but utilizing it properly is money foreign wonderful thanks a lot akshita for giving us time today yeah it was so brilliant talking to you and wish you all the best in your life