Sex to Samadhi: The Truth About Desire & Guilt | Secrets of Love

Sex to Samadhi: The Truth About Desire & Guilt | Secrets of Love

Author Name:Yogiraj SatGurunath Siddhanath

Youtube Channel Url:https://www.youtube.com/@YogirajSatGurunathSiddhanath

Youtube Video URL:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLvTMi3PALE



Transcript:
(00:00) They, um, human being cannot understand it. To create creation without a purpose. That's why God is God. God can create creation without desire. The purpose here means a desire. Because without desire there can be no purpose. So, it's a desireless state of creation. But in that desireless state of creation that which is created is of the nature of desire.
(00:46) The divine mother is created and she is of the nature of desire. And then there is a child from a child from a child from a child from a child. Maybe what is the first child that she creates? What is the first child? Gravity. Then from gravity I think the second child will be thermodynamics. And their child will be electromagnetism.
(01:25) Their child will be centripetal and centrifugal force. Then there will be huge These are the laws of nature. And then come the gods. And they have children and ultimately their children are you and me. Just imagine. We are the children of thermodynamics and electromagnetism. Doesn't make sense. Can't connect it.
(01:49) But through billions and billions of permutation combinations it forms the human being called us. And we have the potential to get back to our source. By the Omkar Kriya. By the Shiva Shakti Kriya techniques to get back to your original goddess. Your goddessence. Since the ladies objected I have stopped saying God. I say goddessence.
(02:15) How was goddessence spelled? G O D E S S goddess E S S E N C. So, when the essence of man and woman are combined together, they form a pure essence which is beyond the sex, beyond gender. And it is just a pure awareness. But let me tell you one thing. I will ask a question on your behalf. But Gurunath you are talking high philosophy and high purity.
(02:48) And here we are struggling with our own sex problem. And we still find sex is God because it gives us so much pleasure. Gurunath if God is in everything in every Is he not in sex? Definitely in sex. And he is experienced in the sweetest form in sex. Right? This we cannot deny. Because Gurunath when I meditate many times I go into a lovely state.
(03:24) I'm fully concentrated. I can see Lord Shiva and nothing else and all the forms. Then I get a still mind. Then I get the joy. And suddenly a strong desire of sex comes in me and I feel like having a certain woman or a certain man. It comes stronger in man because he has more of the Rajasic uh, this thing. And more of testosterone and the woman is more of a passive a receiver.
(03:51) But let me tell you we should not attach guilt to sex. Sex is one of the purest and most essential facts of life and livingness. It runs through the human fiber of creation. And no matter how much you may meditate, in ancient times you will see Rishis did meditate, but they had their wives, they had their children.
(04:23) Yet they were going into samadhi. This means the modern church has given you a false sense of guilt to make their own money and to keep you suppressed under them. Anyone who is a natural man who has sex through marriage through love or through staying together if it's consensual, if it is agreed on both sides, it is an act of God.
(04:50) Let me tell you this. And from the act of sex you can go to the highest states of samadhi. So, let it not worry you. It is running in your movement and it will keep to you till you are in Sabikalp Samadhi. It will It will be to the last thing you will be in samadhi. And then suddenly you'll come out of samadhi and then you'll get that feeling.
(05:19) Your husband will come there and you'll suddenly give him an embrace and you'll have a wonderful sex. So, samadhi at this end and sex at this end and life is going on. But you say, "No, no. All my What I will think? All my samadhi and my purity is gone to waste because I had sex." Wrong. It has lifted you to a more natural human being.
(05:47) >> [applause] >> Now, the question is is there a state beyond sex where the feeling of sex can be conquered? Yes, there is a state. The name of that state is Nirvikalp Samadhi where there is no thought, no words, no form. That means you are entering from the final state Sabikalp Samadhi. Samadhi with thought and form is the purest state your Fierstant can achieve. Now, after
(06:34) you become a Paramahamsa, a Siddha and say you are an Avadhut. Very high state. Like Jesus of Francis of Assisi or the the nun of Avila Avila or Teresa Neumann. And you want to leave that state of the Stigmata and go into the nothingness state. Then there are two ways. Very high states these are. One state is when you reach the state of Sabikalp Samadhi
(07:18) and the state of Francis of Assisi or Apollonius of Tyana or Ramanujacharya something happens that that quality of sex dries up within you. It automatically falls away because you are so much into samadhi and so less into sex that the quality of sex along with its sexual fluid along with the sexual organs withers away. It paralyzes and dries up.
(07:59) And so you are able to go and do from the state of divine mind that is divine Fierstant to the state of divine consciousness. Divine Fierstant to divine Bewusst Geist. But Gurunath this is about very high people. We are not at that stage. We are at the state of the Hamsa or the Hamsa Sevak. How do we do it? Oh, so you want to go on the fast track before you are matured.
(08:35) Ego hearts cannot wait. So, the rapid transformation of the sexual energy into spiritual energy is by Kriya Omkar Kriya, Shiva Shakti Kriya, Maha Mudra. Maha Mudra is what transforms sexual energy into spiritual energy. Remember. Gurunath, but my question is I want to reach God, but I don't want to lose control of my sexual energy.
(09:02) I want to have my sexual energy and progress also at this stage and I want to leave leave it at another. So, the answer is even if you do 10 to 20 Maha Mudras, you will not lose the the desire of your sexual energy. You will just have control over your sexual energy. Does that answer many of your questions? Does that answer an important question? >> [applause] >> Because no guy would want to leave his his manhood. You know, he's a man.
(09:30) That is the symbol of a man. You can't just be You want to have that. And yet you want to be in control. So, for that Maha Mudra gives you this control. It's very very important. The Nabhi Kriya Maha Mudra, if you do 12, you will see you are in perfect control and you have the same sexual energy. But you can say no when you want to and yes when you want to.
(09:56) Once Lahiri Mahasaya was sitting and two ladies came to him. They wanted Kriya Yoga. So, to one lady he said, he told all the ladies do Kriya, do 22 Kriyas and 110. Baba used to give a lot of amount beyond their capacity also. But to one lady he said, "Okay, you do 12 Mahamudras when you begin with." He looked at the other lady.
(10:22) He said, "You do 50 Mahamudras." So, he had known, he had seen that he was in Banaras, that other lady she was a prostitute. But she was very devotional and she wanted to do Kriya. She said, "If how can God be partial because my karma has made me a prostitute. I'm not bad. I'm doing my devotion." So, he said, "You also.
(10:47) " But 50 Mahamudras he gave her and she got over that desire. She got a job, a well finely paid job. She lost that excess desire to success and she she had a wonderful ending. She used to go into states of not the highest but into states of samadhi. But she did not totally lose her womanhood. She had a control. So, Mahamudra is very, very important.
(11:13) It gives you a control. It doesn't make you lose or gain anything. So, if you do your Mahamudra regularly, there's nothing to be worried about. There's no need to be guilty about sex. There's no no need to be fearful about. It's an act of God. Otherwise, God would not have if God is in everything, it is God who created sex, right? And the cunning priest who is the Satan, he created the guilt.
(11:49) Otherwise, >> [laughter] >> how could it be? But the guilt that is created cannot only be attributed to the wily padre or priest or the mullah or the pundit. It is also attributed to your past karma and sanskara where you've had many, many traumas, bad experiences about sex, people telling you wrong things about sex, you being disgraced because of sex.
(12:21) All these things collectively form the guilt element which is in you today. So, you should get rid of that. Pray to God. Find a good partner. Live your life free of guilt.