Life, Choices and Love - Listen to ⁨@akshhatha⁩ explaining the Yuva Approach to Dharma

 Life, Choices and Love - Listen to ⁨@akshhatha⁩ explaining the Yuva Approach to Dharma

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Asha we have seen lot of changes in last two interviews so we need to come back and tell people what we have learned in this way >> let's start little bit about your marriage >> no one in this world has the hold that he has on me >> and lot of people say you people >> you speak so much of dharma Not exactly naming it dharma but which Indian scriptures talk about that and where did you learn all those things? Yeah, I learned it in Chanaka Satastra. >> You read Chanaka? >> Yes, I did. And I created a course on it. >> You went through a lot of discomfort and I saw recently what happened during that discomfort. Why did you do this to me? God. God was like shut up and sit down. Illness. The best cure we know in part of Sanatan is Ayurveda. How did you get into Ayurveda and why? If you want to stay connected to nature and earth one way. >> People start asking are you using dharma for doing business but I am not unethical about it. I'm very ethical and I'm doing it with an intention to give it back to life, nature and society. A podcast. I think two and a half years back we did our first podcast Mahagate Dharma speaks when our YouTube channel was probably around 200 subscribers we have about 45,000 subscribers I would say 60% rate goes to you 13 episodes you are four >> yes that is me >> so you are m so specific We have seen a lot of changes in last two of years. Yes, >> you have seen it. Mah has seen it. >> Yes. >> So we need to come back and tell people what we have learned in this two years and dharma changes every day. >> Yes. >> Almost 8 million views. discussion but what changed in your life in last two and a half years did it did it have a drastic change or you learned a lot or what did you learn >> it's a drastic change I came from mom's lab to mother-in-law's lab >> excellent >> it's like I can't tell it you There's a lot of change but yeah we'll get there. >> So dharmic life in your understanding of dharma will change. >> Dharma changes every day and even today it's like my definition of dharma today is not going to match tomorrow. >> So it's fine. So it's still the same. >> It's still the same >> and you still believe in dharma. >> Yes. >> Wonderful. So nothing changed in terms of listening to dharma or understanding dharma. Excellent. I think that is what we want. Dharma will change every day. And it's like if you are ready to adapt to change >> then you'll adapt to dharma. That's what I believe. >> So what is adaptation? >> Adaptation. Okay. I'll have my work and then I'll sometimes I'll sleep late. But it used to work out and now it's like I have to get up. M >> I have to be in a discipline. I have to be in in one route. >> So how can I say this is wrong? I can't say this is wrong or I can't say that is wrong because I did both. So yesterday something I thought so it's all about as of today. >> No you should just adapt. Yeah you have to adapt. You have to do your duty. You have to do your karma. Whatever that is you should do. >> Beautiful. So you know we talked >> so dharma and karma are both interlin. Whatever works you do is karma. >> Okay. >> And whatever choices you do is dharma. >> So they both are interlin. >> Excellent. >> This is what I got to know after marriage. It's like whenever I assess myself it's like my mindset has changed. I think my mindset is my dharma. That is my lifestyle. So, >> so when I say you are daughter of Mahagati, why I say that? Because if you see our vision of Mahagat, we say create a caring and compassionate environment. Accepting the continuity of existence. >> Yes. >> What you exactly said is that you are daughter of dharma. I would say thank you. >> So, so beautiful. You told that adaptation is important and we need to change and all stuff. So before marriage, after marriage, what all changed? >> Oh, everything changed. >> Okay. >> Specify, please specify. >> So for example, um your uh entrepreneurship is still there. >> I I put it on hold because uh for me marriage is important. I want to get settled here, right? >> I want to be comfortable with everyone. Everyone want to be I want everyone to be comfortable with me. So I have to get there. I have to know their preferences. I have to know their choices and then it comes to me. Uh for me first it's my family and then it's me. So beautiful. >> I put my business aside for for a time being. >> Good. And I'm sure you'll come back. >> And I started a new company with my mother-in-law. and I'll get to you >> and we we spoke to your mother-in-law and uh and when we speak and she actually told that she wants every woman to do what they wants to do but I really appreciate both of you that you're giving space to each one of them >> and care to each one of them >> and we are still exploring each other >> you have to >> see we it's like she's very new to me I'm very new to her >> and business is where we both meet >> in a different perspective not from like mother-in-law daughter-in-law it's like she's seeing I mean in society I'm seeing her in connections. I'm like I'm fascinated how power powerful one person can be and she's f fascinated how one can work hard. So we are like there we are understanding each other. It's a continuous process. >> So when you said you changed or adapt let's say I talk about that change is there anything which uh you thought earlier was like like absolutely this way. I used to be very selfish a couple >> but coming now man I don't want to be a people pleaser but to keep everyone happy I'm I'm willing to be whatever they want >> okay >> so it's like I don't want I'm I won't be like that with everyone of course it's it's only for my family exclusive bro it's very exclusive but I think um change and adaptation is one way to go. >> Okosari, I'm not specifically talking about marriage, but in your life, we met about 3 years back roughly. >> Yes. >> I'm sure you went through a lot of discomfort and I saw recently what happened and I'm shocked that I didn't even know about it, but you went through a lot of discomfort. During that discomfort, why did you do this to me? God, honey, >> no, actually I I was never sick before or I was never sick. So I was falling sick and I didn't understand why. I thought I >> I was either running for college or I was running for my little businesses or you know I was always running and then it occurred to me God was like shut up and sit down. How cool is that? I used to be in a run. I never used to sit alone. M >> I never like sitting alone >> or sitting >> right >> in the first place. So >> stop running and sit is God's way of telling me to sit enough, take rest, heal yourself and know yourself. Illness is not u sickness. >> Wow. That's the statement. Illness is not sickness. >> Yes. >> Okay. >> Illness is where you'll get okay with time and in that journey or in that period you'll give yourself time. you'll start healing mentally, emotionally and physically. >> So illness is not sickness. >> Okay. So you're saying you need to respect the illness because it has come to teach you a lesson. >> Teach you sometimes illness is doing good. >> Good. When you when you speak about illness, right, you are actually having a product which is part of Ayurveda. >> Yes. >> And illness key the best cure we know in part of sanatan dharma is ayurveda. And when we say Va it's part of it's one of the upday but how did you get into ay and why >> we believe food is medicine right? >> Mhm. >> So after getting married I started having two dinners. I started getting weight and you know I was in a mood but I was getting healthy with food because the food is selected it it is in a it is in in a manner that is going I'll tell you ayura is not my idea it's mother-in-laws my atamas because she's coming from a constituency where people use ayura >> they use mikalu they use herbs to get well and she believes that prevention is better than cure >> perfect >> so if you are saying prevention is better than cure. You have to inculcate it in your daily lifestyle. No, you cannot just randomly do it one day, leave it and be like that. So she was like aa we are all healthy but we should also let people know that whatever they're consuming is not healthy. Now they're taking and we are eating that and it's not healthy for us and she was like aa we have to give back to society so we'll get whatever authentic we'll give it that's how we got into adiat >> beautiful >> so we are trying to get whatever is chemical free preservative free of course when it is preservative free it's like short span >> but it's very healthy for you >> daytoday if you're taking medicine in your body of course no in a long term you don't need medicine that's that's the thought process of >> and we are very happy I'll tell you why because uh when a people like you at your age talk about Ayurveda people will look up to Ayurveda >> yes >> and they will might research more about >> I think people should stop thinking as a scripture myth and actually they have to look look it as molecular medicine >> right >> so it's a miracle medicine she myma calls a shagandanda as miracle medicine because everyday morning you take two drops and you're fine you're healthy how come >> yourh energy levels are high your immunity is high and she says aa this is a mineral this comes from earth ground if you want to if you want to stay connected to nature and earth one way is ayurvea So already you told there is a new thing which you started along with your mother-in-law partnering with your mother-in-law. So people start asking are you using dharma for doing business and I want to slap them but I want you to tell them >> first thing the operations are still running >> so I didn't quit I didn't run away I'm dharmically very nicely being with you and doing all the works that you want second tribal product. I have never done anything for my own benefit. I never bought any product. I never sourced any product on a discounted price. I got them on higher than farmers. Madam Design Studio was based for weavers. Agarati was based for farmers. The third one we this is for tribals. This is for foothill peoples who are trying to sell their own crop. like a crop medicine. So I'm just we we are trying to source it ethically and give it to you and you are calling me a fake person and But I am not unethical about it. I'm very ethical and I'm very I'm doing it with an intention to give it back to life, nature and society. >> Beautiful. And I want to tell everybody that ara is part of kurat. >> Yes. >> So if you are doing it for ara, if you're running economy, you're actually building economy. So what's wrong in >> what's wrong? I'm also paying taxes, bro. >> Beautiful. >> Unlike you. So when people don't understand dharma the kama moshas this is what the confusion comes into people they think ara is bad they think mater so what is your take on it like mater world >> okay let's get back to raaya where janaka was uh in a pool and his entire palace was getting burnt he was just sitting there >> as a yogi he's because he's a yogi If he had nothing, he had nothing to eat. He will be working for money. No, he's always worried. You have to be peaceful. If you have to go to your higher self, if you have to go inside you, you have to have food to eat. >> You have to have a shelter. You have to have clothes. If you cannot have basic things which are materials, how can you go anywhere in your head? You'll be worried about money. You'll be worried about food. You'll be worried about tomorrow. Ignorance is bliss. But how long? If your tummy is hungry, how can you have ignorance about it? If your son is not eating, if your infant is hungry, how can a mom sleep? >> No, material is important. >> Wonderful. So one question I'll ask on that part. Why should one go ins inside? And what do you mean by going inside? Like to know about themselves? >> No, I'll give you one example about it. We are inside mom. But we don't know if there is life outside mom. Until we come out, we don't know. So do you think that there is no mom just because you didn't see your mom? Okay. >> Now we are here. Do you think there is no God? We are inside God. Just because you can't see him doesn't mean he's not there. So what I'm asking is he's inside you. He's in around you. He's everywhere and you cannot see him outside. At least go inside and see at least think aam brah is me god is everywhere I am the god or god is me I I always think that god is in me >> so when you said god is me a lot of people don't take care of that me when you tell people inside they are okay but most of them don't even look at their body itself nice they don't even take care of that yes >> so what do you tell to those people or what should people do >> okay so if you are not taking care of your body, if you're not putting right food, right clothes on your body, if you're damaging your own body. So with time it will decay or decompose or whatever it is. Human being they will leave the bonds will change. There is nothing that is going to be there until the last breath unless it is your body. But then you are not a body, you're a human, you're a soul. So if you can understand that, if you can separate your body and your soul, then you'll have the answer. The only thing that you have to take care of is your body and you have to put good food. You have to put uh good clothes. You know, even the clothes have vi vibrations involved. There's a frequency that goes on a cloth. So, if you wear polyester, there is high frequency. And if you wear uh >> lenin or cotton, it will help you to connect to the earth's magnetic fields. >> Okay. >> So, you know, you have to help your body to stay more connected to the earth. >> Okay. I think this is very important for people to understand, right? >> I mean, they don't even understand in one go, right? >> They have to sit and >> that is why I came to you for podcast. >> People actually should know at least they might not realize it for the first time when they see it. >> But >> so nothing is yours. >> Yeah. >> Except for your body that you're carrying. Nothing is yours. How can you define anything right >> if it is not yours? >> Okay, let's start little bit about your marriage. >> Yes. >> When I say a little bit, I want at least to make uh people understand. >> Okay. >> Few things about your marriage. First thing, is it an arranged marriage or a love marriage? >> It's a love marriage. >> How about you can just give us a brief about your husband? Introduce. He he cannot be explained you know he's he's very different every day. >> Wonderful. >> I cannot explain him. He's he's such great person. I can't and I'll tell you um no one in this world has the hold that he has on me. >> But if if at all now today if I say if I have to do something I'll let my husband decide. I mean, I'm not going to cross him. He's that important to me. He's he's great for me at least. >> So, so blessed to hear that because uh you are like a daughter to me. So when I when I see my daughter very confident in a safe and a very pious place, >> I feel the most blessed and that's what I told >> he he made me feel more feminine. >> Wow. So I when before marriage if you asked me to stop business I wouldn't stop because I was in my masculine energy. I was like I don't want to take money from anywhere. >> I want to earn it by myself. And after marriage I felt so safe because of him his family they made me so safe that okay I can halt. >> I can depend on them. I can I can take their shelter. >> I can go under their umbrella. >> So I started becoming feminine with him. So I think it's beautiful. >> Shiva Shaki that's what we call it. If someone has got shi >> and that's he he filled me with happiness >> right >> because of him I'm here if not I'll not be >> so this much of thing came out of marriage and lot of people say youth people I think marriage is a very beautiful thing to have. Yeah, because I'll tell you. So, you'll get to learn so many new things. You'll get to learn with so many people. You'll get to know you'll learn. I think that is very important for life. It's a very huge life skill that only marriage can teach you. So, >> so you're saying marriage is an institution which teaches you a lot. Only if you can adjust. If you are uh weak enough to not adjust. Changes for every person. But if you're uh weak I I say people whoever is not ready to adjust are weak. They're not strong. People who are not ready to cry are weak. They're not strong. I I feel like that. I think in marriage more than anything you should respect the partner's selfrespect. >> Okay. If you cannot respect your partner's selfrespect, the bond is not going to be very strong. Simple. It's very simple. You have to respect their selfrespect. You have to teach them how to respect yours. >> So, and my husband, he already have it. He's highly emotionally intelligent. So, I need not teach. I'm there. I I mean, he was bought up good. >> So, marriage definitely. Yes. Right. So this is exactly what sanatan dharma talks about because sanatan dharma we always speak and if somebody is following our podcast we only talk about gastasashram yes >> which is like 60% is completely gastas amounts all the four sasa might be 10 and vanaprasa might be 10 and >> I mean you can't take sasam without samsarum so >> you should not >> you should not also >> you will not appreciate the sasa if not graash and graasha is the source for all these four to run >> brahmachari can't turn and run Yes. >> Graa has. >> So when you moved from Brahmachara to Grahasta, it's a huge milestone which you crossed. >> Yes. >> Right. From a dharma perspective when you see obviously you become a wife, you became a daughter-in-law, you became a sister-in-law or somebody wife and mother obviously you will not stay with her more. It's a humongous change and most of the youth think this is also a next stage for you for the next generation right next years 80 years you want to stay with this so what should people take care of like when they come into this kind of milestone >> here I want people to realize they already know it but I want them to realize is See, you cannot move the foundation of your husband because you are getting into it, >> right? >> And you have to trust your husband. You have to trust your in-laws >> because they're also telling for your good only. So you have to trust the parents wherever they are because they'll only do good for their kids. If their kids are good, you're good. If your husband is good, you're good. And coming to this marriage institution, you have to trust. You have to trust your in-laws. You have to trust their vision. And I don't think so. It's a big change. It's not a big change if you think it is yours. If you own it up, it is you. It's a part of I don't think so it's that hard. It's not marriage is not hard if you can adjust and if you can accept and tune according to the family traditions. >> Great. I know you we've come to a very good topic of marriage and so you're talking about so many values and I always keep telling you right you speak so much of dharma not exactly naming it dharma but you actually speak dharma so how where did you get this value did you inherit did you read books >> reading booksh I used to be a very very they tamed me like that okay when I when they could but again there is one more experience I lost my dad >> so that is one experience that got me this side there was chance like whether I have to go to temples or whether I have to go to pubs and I choose temples so >> that's because if I went go went to I went to my mom I said I'll go to Baba and she took a nice belt and she's like whacked me uph >> so I went to temples >> okay >> but but do you think you became a great person because of that >> yeah yeah of course there's no doubt I wouldn't have been here if I into pubs that day and >> simple. >> Excellent. >> But then I missed that phase. So >> So a lot of people actually think that dharma gives you a lot of difficulties. So going dull or a lot of hurdles are coming. So do you think there is a lot of mis like discomfort? >> I think there's a very huge misconception there. Uh whichever is comfortable is not discomfort. So if dharma is comfortable then it's not discomfort. M >> and coming to that point you have to leave the selfishness of course I think is the most comfortable. See there is nothing right or wrong. There is less consequences and there is more consequences. So whichever you choose. >> Okay. >> Yes. >> So how do you define that? Can you can you just explain because there is no right or wrong. People don't believe it. There should be right under but you said consequences and I we both love those words. Explain that. So if you can just give me more. >> Uh I think I can wrap it up with an example. >> Okay. >> Less consequences more consequences. night this is the less consequence but >> then how much impact is it is going to be on us >> that is more consequence so if you if you can choose between less consequence and more consequence >> there is no right or wrong there is just consequence >> if you are okay with what kind of consequences that is That is right. >> If you're not able to handle the consequences that is wrong because >> and of course you cannot bring another person into your life and correct you. >> Right. >> Beautiful. >> Good. >> That's fair. >> So uh when you look at things which do not happen in in your way, what do you do? >> Most of the time I'll not define any uh route that I want to happen. I don't choose before uh knowing my options. >> Okay. But if I have choices, I'll choose one of them. But no, I'll not uh choose it myself. >> So you'll do your work and let things happen. Right. So you you do your work and you let things happen. >> That's it. I mean, no. >> Yeah. I don't ask. uh if I ask I ask very strongly but I don't ask. >> How do you manage the time of yours in terms of dividing between you, your husband, your family and probably a business which you running and a god people think it's too many things to handle. No they go in hand in hand number one and number two in our family we have one rule >> when at home when everyone are at home mu my ana everyone at her home we will not do business we'll not talk business >> we'll watch news we'll talk social politics we we'll talk we talk geopolitics and everything but >> so we divide that space between family life and business >> when they are at office we'll work of course it's at we are at home and we have time >> and coming to god it's like muru wakes up at 6:00 and we I mean starts puja at 6:00 I wake up at 6:00 so it's like no we don't we have so much of time or we we made sure that our time is segregated like that >> okay so we need to have all of them is what you're saying all five >> we already have it it's just that yeah >> recognize or realize it >> yeah we don't realize One more myth which people have is uh if it's not logical okay then it is actually um not dharmic. I need logic behind dharma. But there are certain times which you would have felt completely not logical and you suddenly realize after some time yeah it was dharma. Uh here I can say this thing. >> Do you think that earth is flat? That's why yours are going like that. Is that logic? Can you find logic behind nature? >> No. >> Don't find logic behind dharma. Dharma is nature. Nature is dharma. So don't find it. >> Okay. >> And also dharma is not uh >> dharma is not a thing. It's not an action. It is a it is a consequence. It's a choice that we make. So >> so when you say choices right I typically encounter a lot of people who are very um unstable when they take a choice one because they don't want to take the consequences they don't want to own themselves so what are the things which you do when you're taking a choice between A and a B and I'm sure many of the dharmas which we call it both A and B are good it's as simple as both A and B are good and you have to choose between A and A B what are the things which you choose to validate which one do you choose? I first ask my husband. >> Okay. >> Second I ask my mom and third I ask my mom. They will tell me what to do. I'll do it. >> But everybody's not blessed probably to have people who can listen to them. So for people like me for example a corporate definition is a big thing and you take a big decision which you know impact millions dollars and one one side I have something which I have to do where it might impact other million dollars. So for people like me what are the two three things if you can tell because you are an entrepreneur we are people who are serving people because I serve my company right we are different than you >> I don't own my company but you own a company so I want you to tell us when I say corporate people again uh few things which we can take care when we are deciding >> return of investment return of karmas >> okay >> we have to see how much bad it is going to do M >> it is any decision that we make it is going to do good but there is also going to be bad. >> So how much it is going to be bad and are we able to get it back? >> Can can we clear the bad consequence? Is it in our hands? >> Okay >> that was that is the first thing and second thing is are we ethical about it? >> Okay >> how much ethical about see not all businesses are going to be ethical. Somewhere one% even if if you are ethical maybe the middle person is not ethical. >> Right. So somewhere that is going to go wrong. So are you able to handle it and are you able to digest the fact that it's it's not going to be completely ethical. And third thing is have a strong legal team is have a good legal team. >> Okay. >> And that's all. Yeah. When it comes to entrepreneurship >> so entrepreneurship is >> and they ask too many people before taking a decision. M >> not everyone can implement your idea but they they have their two cents to give. >> So when you say entrepreneurship uh one thing people actually ask right never had anything to start with. Right? But even they do every day almost like 18 hours. But for that people who think entrepreneurship is only possible with money. Is it true first of all? >> No. I think uh see to build a brand you need 4 days and you need right tools >> right >> and you have AI right now right in front of you and first step is you have to build a brand second step is you have to sell your products or service or whatever you're doing and third thing is you have to have connects so that you can sell or you have to have a strategy >> and for the first two you don't need money >> when you have to sell only you need money >> right >> and if you have to sell you can you can make the first two options uh produce money for you. When I'm building a brand, I'll make sure that I'm telling my friends and family and they'll pull in. And second thing, when I'm putting all my um product uh strategy, ideology and everything in one place and I'm going to market it to people. When I'm marketing, of course, people are going to buy it and when they pay for it, I have my capital and then I'm going to use the capital to do my business. How much money do you need for you to sit for 4 days and do it? >> You need time. You need support. You need strategy and you have to have the brain to do it. >> Wonderful. >> And not every everything can be bought by money. >> So many of the rich people also are not doing business. >> No, many of them are not doing. >> So that actually goes the logic. Excellent. So uh this particular thing which you told about business is taught in multiple business management books and they name many of the foreign people who told this. I'll come back to you. Which Indian scriptures talk about that and where did you learn all these things? >> Yeah, I learned it in Chanaka Satastra. >> You read chanaka? >> Yes, I did and I created a course on it. That's a different thing. But uh uh Chanaka is the one where I learned about samadada. >> Uhhuh. >> So I started there from friendship to punishment. So >> I learned it there. I learned money management. See the thing is time management is one thing. Money management is second thing. If you don't respect your money, you can't do business. >> Wonderful. So Chanaka teaches you. >> Yeah. >> So Indian knowledge >> Chanaka teaches you but it is you who have to implement him. >> Okay. If you cannot implement what you're learning or what you're uh being taught, there's no value to it. >> So just learning is not enough >> enough. It's you have to >> knowing is also not enough. You need to work on >> implement. You need to implement it. >> I think this is where most of the people go wrong. >> Fail. Yeah. They fail fail there because they don't want to set. See, you can always learn. Learning is a daily process. It's a process. It's like that. It's like that. So, you need to adapt. Yeah. You have to adapt again. I really love her that core principles. Lovely. Right. So, I think uh we'll come to the uh rapid fire round. >> Yes. >> My favorite round. Let me ask you the rapid fire. Okay. One dharmic icon you would love to know more about? >> Narendra Modi. >> Wow. >> Sorry. I need to ask you how was your experience to meet Narada? >> It was divine. I didn't see anything but him. >> Wow. >> I I see my atama made it happen. I met there. I went him. I saw him and I was like my atama was talking something to him. I couldn't see anything but him. I couldn't hear anything but him. I'm like what? He's walking like that. the TV is like that. So no, there's nothing that I can I mean I took like four to five blessings like and he's like and he was like I don't know when I'll meet you but you know I want to take such great >> but it's such a great blessing actually and when I saw your photo I was so blessed I really couldn't I told you that day itself so blessed uh to see him blessing you >> I mean I met him before marriage that too you see. So I was like we went to give him a wedding card. >> Beautiful. >> It was sural. We were like we were waiting for him. There are so many people waiting for him outside uh his cabin and they were like come and boom. I like blank. I I didn't see anything but him. >> And then I came out and then I rem I was reminiscing. Okay. This happened. This happened. >> Excellent. So original. Okay. What's you what's your go-to inner compass when you're in doubt? Which book do you read or which? >> No, I go to my husband. >> So, which dharma concept has taught you the most? >> Chanaka shastra. >> Atastra. One modern idea you believe needs a dharmic correction or detailed explanation. Something which is not told to people or they're doing it wrong. You think? >> I think that um it should be a marriage constitution. Mhm. >> People are too much misinformed about it. >> Minisformed about it. >> Yes. >> Is it doing good or being right? >> There's no right and wrong. Again, less consequences and more consequences. >> One modern day dharma shastra. People don't even realize they are in it. >> Modernday dharma shastra. >> People already following it but they think uh they don't even know that it is dharma. >> Chadam. >> If you could give to one Indian concept to the world, what would it be? >> Art of thinking. Okay. >> Anchiki >> one underrated woman from Ithihas. >> I would say Mandri. >> She told so much of Dharma to Rahana. >> I mean Mandri is epidome where you have to listen to your wife. >> Rahana must have. >> You better listen to your wife or else you're dead. That is what you're saying. Good movies. Okay. Any any other movie you thought which made Dharma glow? >> No. >> Nothing. Not yet. >> Not yet. >> You're waiting for it. That's end of rapid fire. Uh I'll keep this questions aside. Let me ask you few questions of my own thing. Right. You I seen you grown from probably 2021 2022 when I met you when I was seeing my daughter in you and I talked to you for the first time >> to now you've changed a lot but it's it's the same dharmic concepts which are still there. >> Yes. >> What will you be after 50 years? >> I think I'll be same. It'll be the same. >> Yeah. I mean, you cannot uh break the core. >> So, if the core is right, you're right. Situations changed, environment changed, but I didn't change. >> I I never yelled before marriage. I never yelled after marriage. It's like it's you. What defines you is your core. >> So, the core is dharma still exist. >> Yes. >> And the dharma will always exist. >> I mean, I don't call it dharma. M >> I just think I have less consequences, more consequences. >> What do you want people to remember you as? >> I don't want them to remember me. >> I want them to be reminded always. >> Okay. You don't want to be known as a person who changed the world and all. >> Whom do you think of when you see light? >> Suru. >> And >> who who found that bulb? >> Thomas Edison. Yeah, that's what you don't have to be remembered. You will be reminded. >> Okay. >> I want to be there. I don't want to introduce myself >> at one point of my life. >> Okay. >> I want to be known. >> I'm already known. So, >> and uh I'll ask you the everlasting question. What is sanatana dharma for you? Define >> lifestyle. >> Lifestyle. >> Yeah. >> Behavior. >> Behavior. Lifestyle. Personality. >> Personality. What you choose? >> Choices. >> Choices and she loves people to come to politics especially women. >> Are you coming into politics? >> She will decide. >> I told you if I have a doubt I go to my husband, myama and my mom. >> They will decide for me. >> Okay. I would like you to go into politics for the only reason as a person who is a wellwisher of you. You can change the world a lot. So I want the world to go to Dharma and that's why we always come back to you for podcast >> because there are so many people who knew about dharma to you right if I ask if I tell you it might be like butana which we started about 80% of the people came to Mahagatana only because of you. Oh, that's sweet. Thank you. >> And today our entire whenever we go to people, they are praising us because of the dioana. So I always will say that you are the root which started and it grew into a big tree and I'm sure it'll grow into big forest. I want you to come to politics because of that because I always had respect to politics and when I speak to spoke to your atamagaru I had more admiration towards politics more admission towards politician and that is what you should create. I mean she came through so many hurdles in life. >> We cannot beat that. >> Looking forward for that one day when I will do this to you again. >> Shamata it was wonderful discussion.