Real Psychic Reveals: Evil Energy, Soulmates, Attachment & Hidden Family Trauma

Real Psychic Reveals: Evil Energy, Soulmates, Attachment & Hidden Family Trauma

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(00:00) How long has it been that you've been into the psycho-spirituality field? >> I [music] started this when I was in school. My first death prediction was in school. My first visitation with an entity or my guides was when I was in sixth grade. >> There's no particular age for anyone to come to you and ask you for these services, right? >> Absolutely not.
(00:23) [music] My youngest client is 9 years old. This boy is struggling with abuse that he has seen. I have a client, wonderful accomplished lady all throughout her life is abuse from her in-laws. She has two sons. Now, one son has started becoming abusive towards the mother. This is again a 10-year-old boy. >> Our deaths are also written? >> Your exit [music] space is written.
(00:50) >> Can we meet someone we love after their death? >> Yes. >> How does that happen? Suryavanshi is again a 15-year-old kid and he's performing like he's been learning cricket for 100 years. So, do you think that is also maybe related to what his past life was all about? >> It is something he learned in multiple lifetimes.
(01:16) See, everyone in our life wants something from us. >> Oh my god. Something that you have personally encountered? >> There's a girl who does not have a lot of issues when it comes to men. There were literal entities placed around her. >> So, hello or namaste and welcome back to Hamare Naye episode of The Back Story Podcast.
(01:49) So, I am sorry to say that Aishwarya Singh psycho-spirituality coach and this episode may have only spirituality related, love to life to past life to related, death to related I'm going to they both sorry but I can hear good good as equal and maybe both look at but I don't know so you episode up big today. So hi Aishwarya, how are you doing? >> Very well, thank you for having me.
(02:13) >> So actually first of all I want to know like this is your third podcast if that is what you've mentioned, right? >> Yes. >> Uh this episode that we are going to shoot is going to be very relatable to a lot of people watching this episode. Okay, we want to present it in a way that a lot of people they have a lot of questions in their head but maybe end of the day they're not able to ask the same questions to their friends or family or they never tend to ask those questions to anyone. So we want to clear all of
(02:40) those doubts and we want to be with them and for them with regards to everything that they are going in life. Okay, with regards to what they are feeling, what their emotions are and a lot around love and relationships as well. >> Sounds wonderful. >> Great. So first of all I want to start with your journey Aishwarya, okay? I want to know how long has it been that you've been into the psycho-spirituality field and how that has been going so far for you.
(03:07) >> Well, if you ask just psycho-spirituality then probably 10 to 12 years. And if you ask me how long I've been doing what I do that would be upwards of 25 years. I started this when I was in school. My first death prediction was in school. My first visitation with an entity or my guides was when I was in sixth grade.
(03:31) So I've been doing it for a very very long time. >> I know what is psycho-spirituality, you know what is psycho-spirituality because you've been doing it. There are a lot of people listening to this episode they might not understand the term. So can you quickly help us with the explanation of what is psycho-spirituality and where do you come into the picture and what what are the different things you help people with? >> Sure.
(03:56) So, psychopart comes from psychology, which allows you to understand your patterns, what is going on with you, what are your wounds. Spirituality allows you to find the reason. Now, when I combine these two, it turns into energy alchemy. What is that? When you have the mental awareness of what is going on, and yet things in your life do not change.
(04:17) Just because you know why something is happening, it is not enough for you to change that aspect of your life. That is where psychospiritual comes in. You combine the psychology, and you combine the energy work that is needed to shift your reality. You know, we've all um heard of therapy. >> Yes. >> Therapy is amazing.
(04:39) It can do so much for you. And yet there are a lot of people who've been in therapy for years, and their outcomes have not changed in the way they want. That is where the spiritual aspect comes, not as religious, but the fact that there are energies at play which you do not understand. You may have a wound. You may have a trauma.
(05:00) You could talk about it forever. You could identify why it exists, where it's come from, and it is still not allowing you to live your life fully. That is where the energies exist that have kept you blocked. Why are you blocked? Because for however long you've suffered, a certain amount of negativity has accumulated there.
(05:22) Now, to remove that, you need energy alchemy. That is why psychospirituality, because human beings suffer in every dimension. We suffer mentally, we suffer emotionally, physically, karmically, spiritually. So, we can't heal only on one level. You have to heal on all these layers. That is why you need psychospiritual healing.
(05:45) >> There's no particular age for anyone to come to you and ask you for these services, right? >> Absolutely not. My youngest client is 9 years old. >> And okay, can you just quickly help us with what does this youngest client come and ask you about? >> This 9-year-old boy is struggling with abuse that he has seen.
(06:05) >> In the family? >> In the family. He saw someone be extremely abusive towards his mom. Now, you have to understand a 9-year-old does not have the mental capability to digest, absorb what has happened. So, what does psycho-spiritual counseling do for him? I explain in a language that can be digested by a 9-year-old.
(06:29) And then energetically, I cleanse the negativity, the fear, the you know, I wouldn't call it trauma yet because as an adult, you know it's trauma. But children are very resilient. Things are not as traumatic for them as they become when we grow up. So, I cleanse the energies around that kid in his mind that allow him to function normally in the family with his parents and to lead a life that does not make him afraid for forever or you know, to see men in a certain light.
(07:05) >> Mhm. >> Because obviously, it's his mother who faced that abuse. You can't expect a child to just walk away from it by simple therapy. There is energy attached to it. You see, every form of attention, positive or negative, carries an energetic charge. How is a 9-year-old going to release it from his body? See, he saw it mentally.
(07:27) >> Absolutely. >> But it has filtered down into his physical body because there are certain functions that are occurring in his body that he can't handle, that he's unaware of. Similarly, he was an outgoing, happy, loud child. Now, he's become this quiet, mousy little boy. Is this what his life is supposed to look like? No.
(07:46) He's not supposed to live this for the rest of his life. So for him to step out of that really scary reality, which is now his reality, psycho-spiritual healing comes in play. >> So you are saying it's a very common practice now, Aishwarya, and I'm telling you from my experience as well and from the experiences of how many people I've spoken to, how many close friends of mine I've spoken to, and outsiders I've spoken to.
(08:13) Everyone, as they grow, they have this kind of a trauma within them. And I'm There are definitely different kind of traumas. I'm talking about the trauma that we are discussing right now, that is the family trauma that they get into. So when we are a child and we see something happening in our own family, do you think that also builds up to the kind of human I become in the future? >> 100%.
(08:41) Let me give you a a fairly recent example. I have a client, a wonderful, accomplished lady. She's a professional, an academically intelligent woman. All she has seen all throughout her life is abuse from her in-laws. Now you have to understand, her husband is not stopping it. At the same time, he's not standing up for her.
(09:10) He will agree with her that this is wrong, but he doesn't do anything for her. Why am I telling you this? Because she has two sons. Now one son has started becoming abusive towards the mother. Okay? He thinks it is okay to fling things at her. He thinks it's okay to push her. He thinks he has the right to correct her when she's speaking.
(09:35) And mind you, this is again a 10-year-old boy. How is it okay for him to do this? Cut to the point where she comes to me for sessions, and we've barely done three sessions with her and her child. >> The child you're talking about? >> Yes. >> Okay. >> So, he's aware that something is being done for him.
(10:01) Not consciously, subconsciously, because I take permission from the soul before I do any kind of energy work. Third session, right? Three sessions and he stopped abusing the mother. He's kind to her, and he now tells her, "Mama, can we spend time alone just the two of us?" That is what happens. Your environment decides 80% of who you will be.
(10:27) Your environment decides what kind of reality you will live for the rest of your life. Nobody asked that boy, "What kind of a life do you want? What kind of a reality do you want? What do you think your mom is? What your dad is?" No. He just automatically anchors into what he feels his grandparents are saying is correct.
(10:49) If they think that the mom is useless, no one's correcting them. Which means for him, okay, that is correct. This isn't wrong. And I believe we've all seen this around us in some form or the other. >> Absolutely, absolutely, 200% because we're talking about how a man behaves when they're grown up. So, majorly, yeah, man kind of reaction to body only give out that it is all related to something that they have gone through when they were a kid.
(11:17) >> Yes, whether they've gone through it or they've seen it. >> Seen it. >> It has normalized a certain type of behavior in their brain. So, as they grow up and they see something or they react in a certain manner, it is what they've seen, what they've been what they've been told, what they've been accustomed to happening in their life.
(11:42) That is why they often behave like that when they grow up. Does this mean 100% of the times that's how they will be? No. There are obviously a lot of men who've seen this in childhood and consciously chosen not to be that as they grow into adults. But is that a huge percentage? Unfortunately, >> at all. And I think on the other hand, when we talk about women the same way, >> Mhm.
(12:04) >> ki bahut sari families mein women ko aise nurture kiya nurture kiya gaya hua hai bachpan se ki you're not supposed to speak. You're not supposed to say anything. You're not supposed to wear this. You're not supposed to do this. And jab woh bade hote hain jab woh ek maa bante hain, I think woh maa apne beti ko bhi maybe they teach the same thing ki women ko aisa nahi hona chahiye.
(12:29) Women ko aisa nahi hona chahiye. So, it is all again coming back from there. I think a lot of things also depends on how our parents are. >> 100%. See, our view of the world starts through them. So, they have already decided for you what is the role of a female and what is the role of a man. So, if they don't know better, how will you? Of course, you have the choice later on >> [snorts] >> to educate yourself, to have different experiences, to probably surround yourself with different kind of people.
(13:06) But until that happens, you will be like them. You will You don't have a choice over here. Your life begins with them. >> Mhm. >> So, the glasses you wear are the glasses they make you wear. >> Jab hum log iski baat kar rahe hain, Aishwarya, as a child, as a kid, if we you our parents doing something and which is wrong as a child as a kid should we stand for that or should we just let it go because but talk to me to you and rules for adults are different.
(13:50) It's absolutely wrong. But the child doesn't get that no. Child is loyal to the parent. So even if they're doing something wrong the child doesn't have a choice but to stand by them. So it is okay in the society I got a picture where their parents are going a little wrong here and there to stand up and tell them on their face that yes mom you're wrong here yes dad you're wrong here.
(14:15) See the child needs to do that. But the problem here is not what the child needs to do. Does the child have the freedom to do that? Absolutely. And that freedom again comes from their parents. It has to. Have the parents created a space where the child can talk back and when I say talk back I don't mean disrespectfully.
(14:36) I mean is the child allowed to have a mind of his or her own? Are they even allowed to have their own opinions? Because see if a child talks back to you if you are saying something do this and the child says no why should I? How many parents are willing to explain to the child and not just say because I've told you to do it do it like that.
(14:56) You have a lot of clients that you're working with right now. I should be there. So give us some instances where this problem has caused this kind of a problem for the kid and the mother as well. Have you seen these kind of issues coming to you very often where there's a conflict between parents and the kids. How I want to know what is that percentage of uh people coming to you every day and saying that okay, maybe my parents and my mother or father is wrong here and this is what is happening in the family and the family drama, the family issues. How
(15:33) how how much do you see this? >> 80% of the time. >> Oh my god. >> The issues we've had in our childhood, we try working it out throughout our life in different relationships, at work, at home. The child who is now an adult is still trying to get their point across. Unfortunately, they were not given tools to do that.
(15:55) Similarly, when that child grows up and is stronger now and if they stand up now, the parents feel like the child doesn't love them, that the child doesn't care for them, that the child doesn't respect them and then comes the age-old fight fight. We did so much for you and look at how you are treating us. Just because the child dared to have a different point of view.
(16:19) Because he wants to live his life a little differently than what you imagined for them. It's not easy for a child to even open their mouth in that manner in a lot of part of our society, in a large part of our society. See our metros look beautiful, okay, that we have freedom of opinion, we have freedom of choice.
(16:38) But unfortunately, that is not the reality of my work at least. >> Absolutely. >> Parents are so quick to assume that my child is going to abandon me. Why? Because they are guilty somewhere, right? That they've done something that will lead this child to leave you. What do you think they held back? That they have this fear that the child will leave me or the child will, you know, find their partner and forget about us, not care about us.
(17:09) Why? Parents are often so focused on discipline, on academic accomplishments, on making your child the best version according to society that they forget the first thing the child needs from you is love and the second is acceptance as who he or she is. >> That's a very very strong point, Aishwarya. In a relationship between mom and their son or their child, there is ego in it.
(17:38) For example, what I'm trying to ask you here is do you think when there is something going on between mom, son, and the whole thing? Do you think mom or son, who is more egoistic with regards to their decisions in life? With regards to okay, I am only right, you are not right here. I am going to stand for this or I am right.
(17:59) Do you think mom or son have egos here? >> Of course they do. As a human being, we all do. It is your predisposition of being egoistic or not. Now, if a son is surrounded by very egoistic men >> Mhm. >> in their life, the [snorts] child is likely to be egoistic. On the other hand, if a son is more close to the mother and the mother is not egoistic the son is less likely to be egoistic.
(18:28) >> I think it also depends on who are you surrounding yourself with. >> It does. It always does. See, the child always leans on one person, but he is affected by everyone. >> That's all I want to talk about this thing and I think you've explained it very beautifully. I asked you these questions around the relationship in a family because this is happening a lot these days, Aishwarya.
(18:51) And a lot of people are going through things like that because I've been getting DMs almost every day just saying that okay, maybe my mom is not allowing me to do something like that. My mom Maybe I have a toxic family or maybe I have a toxic mom, I have a toxic father. And there are [snorts] parents texting me me my my son mere ko sunta hi nahi hai, mai kya karu? What should I do in these such cases? I I conversation is going to help a lot of people out there.
(19:14) >> Can I just add to this? You said you have a parent who says he doesn't listen to his son. He doesn't How many times did you listen to your son? How old is that child today? How many years have you How many years have you not listened to your son? 90% Okay, 90% of my clients who come with this complaint that that person is not listening to me, be it a child or a partner.
(19:36) >> Absolutely. >> How many times have you ignored them? How many times have you just allowed their words to land in your ear, but not register? When someone doesn't listen to you, there's something behind. What have you made them feel that you are feeling this today? >> I think you explained it very beautifully, Aishwarya.
(19:58) The way you break down everything is amazing and it's very easy to understand. That is the reason you've been having so many clients. Okay. Okay, tell me something about your services that you provide to a lot of clients out there. What are the different kind of service? Because I'm very sure after this episode, a lot of people are going to come to you and ask you for help in any way or the other way.
(20:25) So, if you can be a little clear with what do you provide so that they can take those advantages and they come to you. >> So, for the purpose of this episode, I'm going to tell you only two services. >> Yes, please. >> One is psycho-spiritual counseling. Which is you come to me with whatever it is that is bothering you. And not only do I tell you what I see that you can't see, but I also bring you guidance from your guides.
(20:51) That's the spiritual aspect, where I tap into your energies, where if there is a problem, I [clears throat] actually identify and tell you whose reality are you living. See, you don't decide your own reality. Shanky, today you have a podcast, okay? Someone somewhere must have seen something in you and have would have probably wished for you.
(21:10) And you liked that thought. You made that thought your reality. Now, for you it's a beautiful thing that you made true for yourself. But there are so many people out there who believe the negatives that others have thought about them and it becomes their reality. They end up living a life that they never chose for themselves, but it's their life.
(21:31) So, coming out of that and wanting to create another reality and finally manifesting that in your life, that is one of the sessions I do. >> Amazing. Amazing. >> The other session is energy alchemy, something that is very close to my heart. Every individual that you and I probably know of have aspects in their life that are stuck, that are not going as per plan, or someone they love who has a lot of messes, wounds, traumas, negativity in their life.
(22:05) Energy alchemy removes that, shifts that, and infuses in its place what you actually do want from your life. So, that's where the example of that female came. She wanted a beautiful relationship with her child. There's nothing wrong with that. Energy alchemy makes it happen. It takes the negative and it transmutes it into absolute magic for your life.
(22:31) >> Amazing. So, I think for people out there, if you're watching this episode, I will also put down all the details in the captions you can go through that. But apart from that, Aishwarya, I want to understand our life, our whole complete life since the day we are born till the day we die, we are only surrounded with energies.
(22:51) >> Yes, all of them. In fact, since before you form as a human being, since you're the single tiny cell inside your mother's womb, there are already energies at play before you physically incarnate as a human being. >> Give me some tips on this because I'll be very honest, it's been what, around 20 minutes we've been speaking.
(23:11) I am able to get such a good vibe from you. I don't know what this is. Okay, I think definitely the things that you're talking about, that is the energy. Maybe the energy from you that is coming to me is very very positive. Okay. [laughter] Okay. >> You know what I feel about that word. >> I know and I'm going to ask you about that as well, okay.
(23:36) And I purposely used that used that word again. So, it I feel good. I feel comfortable here. I feel me sitting in front of you. It is not something that anyone in the world could get. I think definitely you've done some few things in your life. You practice few things in your life that makes you a person that you are today. Correct me if I'm wrong.
(23:59) >> There's a lot that I've done, that I've been through to get there because um at a very young age I realized there should be one goal in my life with what I do, whether I work or I don't, I should be a person that allows the person sitting across me to be themselves whoever they want to be. >> How do you do that? Please teach me.
(24:19) Okay, okay. Let's It's like a workshop for people out here, okay. >> [laughter] >> Give me three tips of how can you make people feel good and supportive around you? >> First and foremost, I would actually want them to ask themselves, what are you running or hiding from today? And if there was no judgement whatsoever, can you please be that for me? That itself allows anybody to relax.
(24:45) So, this is something that everyone should ask themselves every single day. What am I running from today? What am I hiding from today? Secondly, as you said, you know, what other tip can I give you? Ask yourself on a daily basis, whose reality am I living today? Is it yours? Is it what your dad wished for you? Is it what your mom wants for you? Is it what your partner wants from you? See, everyone in our life wants something from us.
(25:13) >> That's a line to think about. >> When you realize that, everybody around you, you look at them and you can actually think, okay, what do you think he wants from me or she wants from me? I'm not making you a skeptic. I'm asking you to become honest. Cuz if you can identify that, not only can you give them what they want, but you can also notice if that benefits you or harms you.
(25:39) When you notice that, you will realize the need for boundaries. The one word everyone is aware of and yet probably 3% practice enforcing boundaries. So, today if I'm sitting here and you're so comfortable with me, it's because I have consciously removed all boundaries and created a space for you to be whoever you want to be, to ask me anything under the sun, knowing you're not going to be judged, knowing you will find something from me that you can carry with yourself for the rest of your life. That is how I live every single
(26:24) day. The day I don't want to do that, I withdraw into my room and I will not interact with people. That's literally what I do. >> How to be a good person in life? >> What is good, Shanky? Come on. >> I want to know how do you become >> word. >> I'll tell you why I and people tend to judge you a lot all the time.
(26:43) Okay, and I have heard the this saying a lot of time, you cannot make everyone happy around you. Okay, so I know you're to come on me and be like, Shanky, I have to change karna hai tere ko?" >> [snorts] >> And that is exactly I want to know because I think I'm also a person who I always keep thinking about how do I be a good person.
(27:01) Am I a bad person? How do I make sure that everyone around me is happy? >> Why do you want to make everyone around you happy? >> I don't know. >> Let's quickly take a trip down memory lane. If I were to ask you to guess, first word that comes in your mind, who do you remember at the earliest wanting to make everybody around you happy? >> My nani? >> There you go. That's your inheritance.
(27:23) So, whose reality are you living, Shanky? How many people in your nani's life made her happy? >> Hardly. >> So, then are you sure that's a reality you want to live, Shanky? >> Definitely not. >> This is what happens, Shanky. You said, "How do be a How do I be a good human being?" What according to you is a good human? What is good? Come on.
(27:42) >> [laughter] >> Someone who's there for others, who helps others. >> Yeah, someone who's kind. Okay. >> No, kind and good are two very different words. >> I know, but I just I think I want to be a kind person. I want to be good to people. I want to make them feel good around me. Like, whenever someone around me, I want them to feel good around me.
(28:03) >> And when they feel good around you, what does that do for you? >> I think Am I being selfish here? >> [laughter] >> Selfish with a thought that, okay, I get that kind of a feeling that >> I did that. I created that for them. >> Absolutely. >> So, first of all, if you are selfish, what's wrong with being selfish? Number one, this is one of the most important things that most human beings tend to forget.
(28:31) There is nothing wrong with being selfish. If you are not selfish, how are you going to make yourself happy? How are you going to find peace in your life? How are you going to get love in your life? If you aren't selfish, will you actually chase something that you love? >> Not at all. >> Will you actually do something that you're passionate about? >> Not at all.
(28:45) >> If you are a giving person, you can't choose your own desires, can you? And if you want to be good, first ask yourself why and what is it bringing in your life? See, for you, we already identified who and where it comes from. So, ask that question again. Ask yourself again, do you want this? Is this your reality? >> You can't be so good.
(29:08) >> [laughter] >> You're just exposing me in front of the camera. >> [laughter] >> But what you said makes so much sense right now to me. >> I'm glad. That's a mini session. >> That's a mini session. [laughter] Oh my god. With what whatever we spoke right now, Aishwarya, I think there is this one part that is very close to my heart.
(29:28) Okay? That is love. >> Mhm. >> And I want to talk about love from a very spiritual way as well. Okay? Because we've been talking about love of what is happening these days, who loves you, who does not love you. I hate this person, not hate this person, heartbreak, breakups, But I also want to take it a take this a little spiritual way.
(29:49) >> Mhm. >> What is love to you? >> Love is a feeling or a space that allows you to be you, not what you bring in a certain person's life, not what you add for them, not what you do for them, but a space that allows you to be you because only when you are allowed to be you can you be the best version of you, can you grow to your maximum potential, can you actually be what your soul intended to be as a human being on this planet? >> So, when we talk about love, does it only mean ladka ladki wala pyar, the husband wife wala pyar, or love has
(30:32) to do with everything that we are doing in life? >> It has been bifurcated like that. Love has been boxed in certain spaces as wonderful. But it doesn't have to be like that, right? You can't just put love between a man and a female or a mom and a child or a husband and a wife. You can have love in your work.
(30:56) If you love what you do, you'll literally be the best version of you while you do that. So, love doesn't have to exist only in certain bits and places. >> A lot of people who love someone, okay? I'm going to talk about few of the things that a lot of people are going through these days. They are falling in love with someone, but the other person does not love them back, okay? Do you think it has something to do with what their past life has been? Something to do with Bhagwan aisa karte hain achhe ke liye.
(31:27) Whatever God is doing with you is for your good. Kyunki you are not getting that person maybe because that person not might be the right one in your life. How does this whole uh calculation work in the universe? >> So, as per me, the universe brings you the person you need, not what you want. As a soul, we all have things to accomplish, things to learn, things to heal.
(31:57) So, who you fall in love with, if they return your love, then that is what you need in that moment. If they don't, then there's something that you need to work through as to why that unavailable person is attractive to you. So, obviously, your soul has a say every single time when it comes to love. You have already earmarked what you will learn, how you will learn, from who you will learn.
(32:28) So, if someone does not respond in the way you want, and you still can't get them out of your head. You still want to chase them. You still want them. That is also fulfilling something inside of you that you need to look at. >> Do you believe in >> Our soul decides acha or bura is a human construct. On a soul level That's how I put it.
(33:10) Cuz the minute you add good or bad every thought gets amplified. Your emotions get amplified and then it affects your energy which messes things up around you. If you understand that what is happening is what was meant to happen for you. Then you can approach it from a way that you can turn it into something that benefits you.
(33:38) That is going to somehow help you be a better version, evolve, or even heal, or let go of something that you didn't need to carry. But you can't do all these things if you say it to a child or it to a brother. >> A lot of people have found love in their life. And a lot of people still haven't. The people who haven't yet, they keep thinking about something like mere ko pyar nahi mila and they keep chasing love.
(34:02) They keep and I I'm telling you from my experience that I have a friend. He's 32 right now and he hasn't found a partner who he can marry. He constantly keeps like that mere ko dhundna hai apna partner. I want to find love. I want to find love. I want to find love. And he keeps repeating that.
(34:25) Obviously that goes in different directions. But that is one one statement he keeps repeating. So do you think and or us understand that? Is that the right way to find a partner? >> You said he has one statement, I want to find love. I want to find love. I want to find love. So, you're going to keep finding only.
(34:45) Why will it be in your hands? What is he saying again and again and again and again? That's what he's going to keep doing. Words are so powerful, Shankey. Words are so powerful and at no point in our life do people tell us to be conscious of what we are saying. So, maybe tell him to flip the statement, love finds me. Number one. Number two, if he wants to find love, has he thought of step number three, four, and five? If he finds it, what's he going to do to keep it? To let it grow, let it blossom.
(35:22) Sometimes you're so busy finding or hunting or chasing for some chasing some particular thing, you forget to plan a game. Universe is not going to work in bits and pieces. It will plan your whole life ahead. You've kept the intention, I want to find love. First of all, keep finding. He will continue on this chase.
(35:43) Now, when he does find someone, what is happening later? The energy will still remain of finding. So, there will be things that are lacking there, missing there, that will make things difficult for him. This is what often happens when people are hunting for love. I want love. I want love.
(36:03) But, have you identified what is love to you? Have you asked yourself what is love? >> What is the difference between love and attachment? >> Love, as I've already told you, allows you to be you. Attachment is where you feel without this person, I am nothing. Without this person, I can't be happy. Without this person, I can't feel joy in anything else.
(36:31) That this person makes me complete. Where I need this person, that is attachment. When you need something, that's not love, that's attachment. >> Oh my god. >> When it's love, the two of you can be together, happy, without each other and together. You choose to be together, that is love. Attachment is I need to be with this person. I need to be with this person.
(36:56) If this person is not in my life, I don't matter. That is what happens. >> And why does the body start reacting in a very negative way? Like they're not feeling good, their mental health is not good. Whenever they're attached to someone, when we're talking about the word attachment, people usually start feeling that way.
(37:16) Okay, if I don't get this person, they'll start um feeling bad about it. They'll start feeling sick about it. Why does the body start reacting that way? >> Because the mind is already conditioned. I need this person to survive. This person is my oxygen. So their body literally literally feels deprivation of oxygen.
(37:40) That is why so many reactions where, you know, multiple times checking in on a person or sending 10,000 messages means love. It's not love. You're uncertain about your place in their life. That is why your body is reacting like this. If it was love, you would be secure about who you are to them. You won't react like this. When that person responds or chooses you, what do you feel? Relief.
(38:07) >> Relieved. >> You're relaxed for a certain period of time, until the fears start coming up again. Am I still this person's choice? Am I still this person's priority? So when you are constantly feeling doubtful, do I matter to this person? That is where your nervous system, your body reacts like this. >> So, love and attachment cannot go hand in hand? Love and attachment cannot be a part of the same relationship? >> They can.
(38:38) But when there is love, you won't necessarily want to call it attachment. Attachment can definitely be something that is not going to take from you. You can be attached, right? As long as you don't let that need control you, it's absolutely fine. It can exist in both places. But then you'll observe how often you use the word love and how often you'll use the word attachment.
(39:04) >> So, can you give one message to all the people out there who is listening to this episode? Who are maybe And you know, sometimes, Ashwarya, people are aware of if they are attached to someone or they are in love with someone. I think do they know by themselves that, "Okay, I get your relationship may I saw right to maybe I'm attached, I don't want to accept it.
(39:23) " >> They are always aware, but being aware and accepting it are two different things. >> So, if in this moment someone is choosing attachment over love, I see that. I understand that. At least create boundaries to protect your peace of mind. That's all I will tell them. Because they're probably not in a space to choose themselves to wait or to do the work required that allows them to accept only love.
(39:59) So, if it's attachment that you have, it's absolutely fine. There are so many relationships that I see on a daily basis whose basis is not love. Their foundation is not love. >> It's attachment. >> It's attachment. It's respect. It's care. It's coexistence for children. That can also happen. >> Do you think Okay, I know these relationships go a little long way, but do you think it's the right way to be in a relationship? >> Once again, there's nothing called right and wrong.
(40:36) If they do not have the strength to choose more for themselves, we have no right to judge. If they are okay with coexisting and not wanting love, it's a choice they make every day. See, but as a soul, the most beautiful experience is to be in love and to be loved for who you are. If that doesn't exist at the moment, you need to know there's nothing wrong with you.
(41:04) There are lakhs of people who go through that. You probably have a different purpose you can focus on. Shangi, it takes a lot of courage to wait for love and to choose love. You have to understand those who came before us did not choose it. They did not know it was an option. The generation today knows its existence, knows its value, which is also why a lot of them are very afraid of it.
(41:39) Because See, love, unfortunately, has also become synonymous with sacrifice. If I were to ask you that love is sacrifice, in your life, who did you see doing that multiple times day in day out? Come on. >> I think yes. >> Who in your life? >> my mom, my nani, but what you mentioned is so true that a lot of relationships are still existing because of something else and not just love.
(42:11) >> As I told you, it was never an option. >> But see today, if I'm going through a phase like that, okay, and a lot of people are going through a phase like that, how do you I want to come back to maybe first getting out of not being attached and not just being in a relationship just for that one particular reason and move towards love.
(42:35) So, what work can I do on myself to get into that different phase? >> First and foremost, ask yourself one simple question. What is the possibility of love existing in this relationship? Many times, the possibility is very high. People don't look for it because again, they're too busy blaming, they're too busy fighting, they have other priorities. So, you don't prioritize it.
(42:59) Number two, if you want to choose love and you don't want attachment, can you identify 10 things that you love about yourself that you actually end up doing? You have to find if there are other aspects of your life that where that space exists. At least create that space first.
(43:18) Then talk about having love with a different person. How many times do you find people around you who at least have that one tiny part in their life that they can see, "Oh, I love doing this. I feel so loved when I do this. I feel so seen when I do this." How many people do you know around you who have that? >> I think very little. >> Exactly.
(43:37) Because love is not made normal for us. For us, as we grow up, academics, accomplishments, money, then children, and what not. All of that is prioritized. But what about what the soul needs? That is left for 80-plus, 70-plus, retirement? That's what happens. Why do you think um off late, especially in the West, divorces in old age have become so common because people started realizing okay even if I'm 60 I deserve love.
(44:13) Have you heard of this or not? >> Absolutely, a lot. >> There you go. Why do you think young people in our country itself are not choosing marriage? Why do you think >> yes, it has changed drastically over the past few years. >> Conscious. >> to understand why is that even happening. Do you think moving forward the concept of marriage is not going to be there in the world? >> I don't think that.
(44:40) Patriarchy is far too deeply rooting rooted in our society to remove this entirely. That'll never happen. >> But maybe the idea of it? As as youngsters these days they are not choosing to get married and they are okay with maybe being in a live-in relationship. Okay, staying together for the rest of their life but not choosing to get married.
(45:04) So do you think the concept of marriage is going to go vague or maybe go down to like a 10 20% in the coming future? >> I think people are going to become more mindful and conscious before choosing marriage. See, marriage has often been looked at as a bind. That's what it's become for youngsters today.
(45:28) And there's nothing wrong in what they believe because that is what they've seen. Marriage has always been that, right? You've heard how in our country the girl is told ki um doli me jayegi arthi me aayegi arthi pe aayegi. And it's been said for hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of years. And even for the guy, if there's something going wrong with the wife the parents will say no no no, you've got to work it out. Like jaisa hai chalega.
(45:51) >> true true >> So why would anybody with a sound mind and a strong heart voluntarily subject themselves to that? >> So are they scared or they're taking a good decision or they're they they are aware of it. Are they scared or are they aware of it? >> I think they're afraid of what could happen. >> Exactly. >> That's the problem.
(46:13) That okay, marriage See, look all around you. Out of 10, you'll see eight which adds to their fear. It doesn't make them feel like no, yeah, it's beautiful. It's kind. We'll be better. No. You know, the love takes a backseat. The attention takes a backseat. Children, priorities, all change. They forget each other. So, when they choose not to get married, but just live together, you know, it's always there at the back of your mind.
(46:42) I have to make an extra effort. I have to make an extra effort. What should have been normal in a marriage becomes normal outside of it. That is why they'd rather be with a partner consciously till however long they want to be. They also want that escape clause, no, that we can call it quits when it gets too bad. And I think everyone should have that liberty.
(47:03) >> Whenever we get married, okay, and we are with a partner for the rest of our life. Do we choose our partners balance? Matlab I want to understand key if I'm getting married to someone or I'm with someone or I'm just dating someone, you Jody balance say bank you we have key how does it go ahead? >> 100%. >> Do you believe that? >> 100. I have facts to prove it.
(47:27) I have multiple testimonials. I have multiple clients. We choose our partner every single time. Or rather, our partner volunteers. So, before you incarnate, as I told you, our soul has an entire plan for the life. And marriage or a partner who's with you for a long term is meant to help you work through certain things.
(47:54) Now, if it is very difficult, then the person you marry will be a karmic partner who's going to help you karmically balance certain energies that are messed up, wounds you have, traumas you have, they will come up. This person is going to teach you through difficulties. And if it is a soul partner, they're going to help you evolve to a much greater level.
(48:17) I'll give you an example. It's a very famous person, no names obviously, very accomplished lady, she's with a partner, and he supports her throughout. She wanted to make a name for herself, she wanted to make a career, she wanted to do everything. He supported her from day one to the point where she said no children, he said okay, we won't have kids.
(48:39) Not normal for an Indian couple, and this is an older couple than me, mind you. So, they're at least 20 years older than me, so you can imagine what generation. That is a soul partner. Someone who sees you as you and just pushes you constantly to be the best version of you. Versus those that we see on a daily basis where you have issues going on.
(48:58) That partner was decided by you and them to get both of you decided together before being born that we want to work out these 10 things. So, marriage would be the best fit for us. >> [snorts] >> So, yes, our partner is decided, pre-decided by you and by them. Can you have multiple choices? Yes. You can have contracts with multiple people.
(49:21) Like, okay, at this age in my life, this is what bothers me, so you will appear as the right partner for me. >> Do you think everyone is going to find a soul partner in throughout their life? >> That is an option provided to you as you grow in life. As you work on yourself, if you are amongst the humans who want to evolve at a soul level, then yes, you will find the option to be with a soul partner.
(49:50) See, we're already surrounded by soul partners. Your parents, your best friend, your girlfriend or your wife. They are all soul family. Whether they choose to be a soul partner or a karmic partner, that comes into question when you plan your life. >> And can that change when we move forward or that stays the same? >> No, it can change.
(50:17) A karmic partner can evolve into a soul choice. If both of you have worked out your issues, have healed certain wounds, learned certain lessons. So, yes, the possibility of a karmic >> partner >> turning into a soul mate is very, very possible. >> Are there also possibilities where I've heard this, where if a karmic partner comes into your life and once they teach you lessons that are to be taught, they move out of your life and then you eventually find a soul partner? >> Absolutely.
(50:53) You may find a soul partner or another karmic. That's a different story. But, Chanky, I'm sure even you have friends who had relationships that lasted 10 years. >> Yes. >> And you thought they were the end game, they will get married. >> But they did not. >> They did not. And not because of some huge reason. It just didn't happen. They grew apart.
(51:11) >> So, everything is written? >> 100%. Everything. So, you know, when we fight and we cry and everything, don't. You already know what's going to happen. You've decided the big parts. The small things and there are moments where, you know, your soul wrote, "Okay, you choose as you feel." It's all decided. >> It's all decided.
(51:29) >> So, do you think we're talking about everything is written and you're saying everything is decided, do you think our deaths are also decided? Our deaths are also written? >> Your exit space is written. So, I wouldn't say a certain age or I wouldn't say a certain moment, but yeah, you do allow yourself to decide that by this point I would have learned these lessons and exit at this point would be good for me.
(51:59) So, yes. You have created the space there. So, now you could probably decide that okay, from between the ages of 80 and 90 is my exit point. >> Do you believe that good people >> Mhm. >> tend to again there's no good or bad. Okay. There are certain people who leave the world very early compared to lot of people who are still in the world.
(52:23) Now, family-wise I'm I want to use the word good and bad. Family-wise and otherwise we always think that a good person will go to heaven early and the bad person will stay here. So, why does that happen? >> Huh? Huh? Yeah. >> So, why does that happen? Like people sometimes we love the most in our life, they tend to leave us and go.
(52:45) And people we do not want in our life stay with us. >> Forever. >> Forever. >> [laughter] >> So, those who are good who you need the most, they've it feels like they've stayed the least. >> Yes. >> Because they've accomplished what they needed you to learn through them. And before they become a crutch for you, their leaving will always trigger something in you that will make you better 90% of the time.
(53:14) There are obviously 10% of cases where people spiral the other way. But 90% of the time them leaving will either trigger something in you to be someone else altogether or they have already earmarked someone to come into your life to be there. >> Can we meet someone we loved after their death? Can we talk to them after their death? >> And how does that happen? >> So, I do channel guidance with past on souls.
(53:40) If you've lost someone and you feel they need to say something to you, then I do channel messages from them for you. If you don't want to go through someone, you can literally give yourself a command in your sleep. I would tell you energetically which month or which week is very likely for you to receive from them, and they'll communicate.
(54:05) If you're good with meditation, they'll speak there. If you're good with dreams, as in you're someone who gets vivid dreams, they'll come and talk to you in your dreams. They haven't gone anywhere. Even if they've incarnated, their soul can still very much communicate with you. Sometimes, you will feel their presence.
(54:23) You can't tell me you've not felt someone who left you, and randomly, 5 years later, you're sitting somewhere and you just felt them. You know they were there. They communicate when you need them to. >> real? When we feel that? >> Absolutely. And if you want to test it, you can literally say, "Let something happen here that is not normal.
(54:44) " And something will happen that you don't expect. They give you messages. They always do. >> How do you do that? >> Channel messages from them? >> Yeah. How does it work? Can you explain it to us as well? How does it work? How do we connect to someone that we love? Is it only through a mentor? >> No, you don't need a medium compulsory.
(55:01) That's why I said, if you want to do it through a medium, it's always safer because you're not sure what energies are coming through. >> are coming? Absolutely. >> And you haven't shielded yourself. And still, if you're not comfortable doing it through someone else, as I told you, we all have time periods in our life that it's easy to connect to them.
(55:19) Now, if you don't even want to wait for that, you can literally set an intention before bed every night that I need to hear from you about X, Y, Z, whatever the situation is, and either communicate with me in my dreams or through a message between 12 and 2 or 3 and 4 on a certain date of a month. The more you practice this, within 3 months you'll start receiving answers, you'll start receiving messages, you'll start seeing them in your dreams.
(55:52) >> a constant practice as well. >> You have to. To create that bridge, you have to put in the effort. >> Absolutely. We cannot expect ki aaj karna ho to aaj hi mereko mil jayega. We cannot expect that. Wo possible hai? >> Yes. >> But, we should not expect that. >> no. You see, if you go in with an expectation, it won't happen.
(56:13) Kyunki logical mind chalu ho jayega. Our conscious mind is what? 3%? And our subconscious is 97. It governs all of this. Just because someone has passed away, your cord with them has not been cut. It's still connected. They can still very much communicate with you. That is why I always tell my clients, if you're going to do something, before that, ask your ancestors to bless you.
(56:41) That cord is still active. They are still very much present in your energetic field. Always ask them for blessings every day. >> We want to hear a story from you. We want to know about something that you have personally encountered or something that you have helped your client with. If you can don't give us names again, but if you can give us a story of something that we can all know about, we would love to know about it.
(57:11) >> There's a girl, beautiful girl, kind girl, who does not have a lot of issues when it comes to men. Yet, every individual who came into her life, even though they treated her well, they would just disappear. Why did that happen? There's someone very close in her family who does not wish for her to be settled, for her to be happy.
(57:41) When we opened her energies, there were literally entities placed around her. Her energy was so beautiful that it would always attract a wonderful partner. But those entities would fight it off. They would not allow her to be in a relationship. And this is me physically seeing those entities around her. >> My god. >> Feeding off her energy.
(58:06) And she would never understand why that relationship would not do well for her. And unfortunately, it was someone from her family. That is something I've learned in all my work over the past two decades. Those who wish you ill need not be far away from you. >> You are trying to say that someone who wanted bad of >> her >> her was from the same family.
(58:31) >> Yes, close family. I'm not even talking extended. As scary as that is, why am I giving you this specific example? Please be mindful of who you share your life with. >> But tell me in this case, uh how do you differentiate? How do you see through, okay, if this is the person in my family doing something like that to me, how do I get to know about that? >> Number one, there's something called instinct, intuition, gut feeling.
(59:05) I'm sure you've met people and when you talk to them about something going well in your life, some people will make you feel so good. And then some people you'll share something about your life and you'll feel drained. You'll feel dull. You'll feel a little off. Trust that instinct. Just because it is someone close to you does not mean you deny your intuition.
(59:32) We are blessed to have intuition. But we are also cursed to ignore it because of logic. The more we study, the more we become aware of the world, we have started denying what is unseen. Even science has proved that that our our can barely see 10% of what is actually there, color wise and otherwise. But we keep denying what is unseen.
(59:56) We forget to include our body in our daily life. If your body is feeling uncomfortable around someone, there's a reason. You know, sometimes you are talking and you'll just go quiet. And even you don't know why you stopped and you didn't tell that person the whole thing. That's literally your body pulling you back.
(1:00:16) So be conscious, be mindful of who and what you share your life about. >> Do you believe in science? >> Yeah. >> You do. We all do believe in science. But there are few things which are way apart from what science has told us. Okay, science maybe will tell you certain things. And there are few things happening behind that.
(1:00:41) If I have to use few words like black magic, anything that you just explained to us, okay? Maybe science will not agree to that, but that keeps happening in the world. A lot of things happen A lot of things happen in the world which maybe science does not back it. So, I want to understand like how how how is that even possible? Like you have seen you have seen thousands of things which maybe if you tell it to anyone randomly, they will not believe you.
(1:01:15) Okay, but you know it by you know it that okay, yes hota hai and aisa hua hai. So, how how would you explain us that? >> You have to understand that there is nothing as limiting as science. It was discovered by human beings to understand and give us a sense of control. That okay, this has been proved, this has been verified, therefore it is true.
(1:01:41) >> Exactly. Exactly. >> The need to control is what allows science to have so much power. Is that true? I mean, as per science, they are now allowing the proof of aliens visiting us. Does that mean they didn't exist? Of course they existed. They always existed. Similarly, there is so much out there that exists, but they won't tell you.
(1:02:10) You think they're not aware of energy? Of course they are. Um from what I know in Area 51, they literally have multiple energy workers working on government projects sanctioned by US. To read minds, to control minds. They're doing all of that. How they're doing that? It's through energy, right? So, just because they're not coming out and telling you does not mean they don't believe it exists or it's true.
(1:02:40) Of course it's true. Do you know they have literal psychics as part of their police force? They help in missing cases and everything. I know this because I have a friend there who's working with them. >> Are you serious? >> Yes. >> I want to understand why don't they want to tell this to people out in the world? >> Why would they give you anything that gives you more power? Anything that makes you trust your intuition, that doesn't work for them, no? >> [snorts] >> Will you be a worker if you trust your own thoughts, your own
(1:03:14) intuition, if If believe you are capable of manifesting anything you want in your life, they have created your reality. You are supposed to work inside of it. You are supposed to dream as per them. >> Are you saying we are all in a bubble? >> No, because bubble is soft and comfortable and nice and hunky-dory.
(1:03:36) No, we're not in a bubble. >> [snorts] >> But yes, we have been limited a lot by the information that is given. When there's limited information, it allows you to be fearful. It allows you to believe only this much is true and everything that is not this is false. That's the problem. >> Tell me one thing. I'm sure most of us have seen something like this what I'm going to talk about.
(1:04:01) There are situations where ek jan ke andar like ek human ke andar ek soul aa jaati hai. Like someone else's soul. Okay. Now, I want you to tell me what would science say about it? What would reality say about that? Will science say that okay ye literally is something that is happening by nature and ye sab true hai or I feel science is going to give us an answer saying that mentally ek issue aata hai jis ki vajah se maybe you are acting to be someone else.
(1:04:35) I think that that that is what science would say. But I would not agree to something like that because I have seen that personally. I have seen kisi ke andar bhagwan aane wala cheez maine dekha hua hai kisi ke andar kisi aur ki soul aane wali cheez and they literally talk to you. Not how we are talking definitely.
(1:04:56) There are different ways that how they talk. Maybe they don't speak. They just show you their eyes or they are a little angry. So >> They will do something. >> Something. And I have seen that personally and that is why I believe in it 2 and 200%. So, what do you have to say about it? Will science agree to something like this? >> Why will science agree to it? Can they control this? This is a variable that they cannot handle.
(1:05:21) So, the science is not going to agree with it. You know how um they say where a human being can lift 100 kg or 200 kg? Adrenaline. It can't be adrenaline every single time. So, like you are saying They will say, "No, he's just, you know, tapping into a part of his consciousness that is not available to the rest of the world." That is not true.
(1:05:47) Because they cannot control it. And what you're saying, chalo, you're talking about Bhagwan and all. I have dealt with people who have walk-ins. What is a walk-in? >> What is a walk-in? >> My soul decided to live in this body and suppose if something happens and it's just too much for me to bear. That soul is given a choice.
(1:06:05) You can leave this body. See, you don't get a lot of options to incarnate as a human being. A lot of souls A lot of souls don't get that option. It's a very I mean, it's sort of like a lucky draw if you want to call it. So, if this soul walks out, the body is still there, the life is still there. Another soul gets to walk in.
(1:06:24) They get to learn those lessons. They get to do different different things. Chunky, I have multiple clients who often tell me that there's this period of my life, X number of years, where I have no memories. What the hell happened there? But when a 12-year-old comes and tells me, "I don't know what happened this entire year.
(1:06:49) I want to remember what happened." When someone comes and tells me that before the age of 25, I have no memories. Why don't I have any memories? You have to understand, nobody is going to talk about this normally. They will only say this in a safe space. It's often a walk-in soul. The soul who incarnated is not the soul who's currently living in the body.
(1:07:12) >> Is that done purposely or it just happens? >> No, I just told you. Something happened in that person's life where they consciously chose I can't continue this human experience anymore. I need to leave. The body is still very much there. The life is still very much there. Another soul comes in. >> So, you believe in everything all of those things for sure.
(1:07:34) I believe in all of those things. There are a lot of people who do not believe in and I think they are not wrong. I guess that point actually made me like maybe I never believed in all of those things until and unless I personally saw something like that. Maybe family may I have seen few things happening. Whenever I go to few temples, I see those things happening.
(1:07:56) I'm agreeing to all of it because I've seen it with my eyes and a lot of people maybe have not. But, it is true. >> It has to be. See, we've lost our connection with the unseen, with divine or with energies in general. We've become so limited to what we can see, what we can touch, what we can explain, what we can understand.
(1:08:21) We forget the unconscious part, the subconscious part. I mean, you don't have a choice cuz the more you go towards the intelligence, you start denying these things because it doesn't agree with what is right. >> There was this show. I'm not sure what was the name of the show. Indian show. >> Mhm. >> Life television may >> Pichhle janam >> Pichhle janam ka yeah, right right right right right.
(1:08:46) So, this show Pichhle janam ka raaz and whatever they showed in that. What is that a reality? Does that work still? And if if something like that was really a hit, why did the government stop a show like that? Maybe because they do not want people to know more about it or get more deeper into it? >> Hundreds of people, thousands of people have experienced past lives.
(1:09:15) It's done in our country, it's done in the west. It is absolutely accurate. Why is it accurate? Because your body has cells and we have something called cellular memory. So, even if the soul is born again and again, your cells carry the memories of your previous lifetimes. What else are child prodigies? The three-year-old who can paint like M.F.
(1:09:37) Hussain, the seven-year-old who can do quantum calculations. Where is this ability coming from? How is it coming? It has to be carried from somewhere. The eight-year-old who's an amazing piano player. Where is it coming from? It comes from a different lifetime. >> Just to add to what you mentioned, I think we are I'm sure I don't know if you follow IPL by any chance.
(1:10:03) >> Mhm. >> Suryavanshi is again a 15-year-old kid and he's performing like he's been learning cricket for 100 years. >> See. >> So, do you think that is also maybe related to what his past life was all about? >> It is something he learned in multiple lifetimes where he's getting the fruits at such a young age in this lifetime.
(1:10:26) >> Mhm. >> A lot of cricketers, you know, there's a certain age where they're chosen, when they see success. Why is this kid getting at it this age? He's worked at it over multiple lifetimes. >> Mhm. >> Obviously, he worked in this life also. >> Yes. >> Statistically or scientifically speaking, what are the chances of someone seeing this level of success at this age? >> Mhm.
(1:10:48) >> Hardly anything. >> Do you also provide uh services like it's called past life regression? >> regression. >> Regression. >> Yes. Yes. >> So, can you also quickly break it as for uh you can you also break it up for us >> Mhm. >> Why do people want to do past life regression? Because they want to know about certain things? >> Let me tell you why it should be done first.
(1:11:12) >> Yes. >> If you have a phobia, if you have a fear, if you have a certain pattern that refuses to leave, that has no actual logical or psychological basis to exist in your life, that is one of the reasons you should do regression. Some people now just enjoy the walk. We in our field, we call it the walk because they want to come, they want to experience it.
(1:11:38) >> Mhm. >> I don't think you should do that. If you have an issue, then by all means have a look at your past life. Allow yourself to get clarity and closure if you need it. If you're with a person and it's the worst thing possible and you can't leave, then by all means look at a previous life.
(1:12:02) What could have happened that brought these two souls together to go through this suffering? It will bring you clarity. It will bring you answers. It will tell you what cords are connected there which are carrying the negativity in this lifetime. But if your life is all right as per you then don't go for a walk. Because when you use it as actual therapeutic purposes, when you allow yourself to heal through it, it's a wonderful experience.
(1:12:31) But if it's not what you need then what happens is very often the one who's taking you into regression could leave markers verbally that could create issues in your present life. >> But it is very safe for people to do that? >> Going and coming back is very safe, but be very mindful in who you choose. See how much experience they have, how many people they've worked with, so that their language is very precise and they don't leave a belief or a word in your subconscious while taking you back and bringing you back.
(1:13:06) >> Can you explain us what exactly happens in a past life regression? We directly go back into time. >> There are two There are two forms of doing it. You could either be taken through hypnosis or through guided meditation which takes you into trance. In hypnosis, you do not have conscious recollection. It is only when they take you and they leave you with the thought that when you wake up, you will remember this.
(1:13:32) Will you remember, but you won't be aware. But when you go through guided meditation through trance, you are aware of what is going on as around you and yet you can see it. You can feel it. You can hear it. So if I am doing that with you and I drop something here, your mind will register there was a noise outside.
(1:13:49) At the same time, you will be present physically in that lifetime. Experiencing on all sensory levels. >> Great. Great. I think few of these things are very new to people as well. I think maybe it is very much practiced in other countries, but maybe not in India. But because I've been into spirituality a lot, I have done sessions like breath work and then I've done few more other sessions and just to also heal what maybe I have gone through.
(1:14:30) I think what you said is so true that do not I have never taken these sessions just to understand okay, yes, I hear you or how is the experience of this. I've done these sessions because I want to talk I've done inner child sessions as well. So I've done it because I want to know more about myself. I want to heal few parts of my life.
(1:14:54) I think that is why I have done it. And most of the people should also do it for those reasons and not just to experience something like that. >> You're absolutely correct, Shanky. In fact, the fact that you're doing this it's not even just for you. You were probably chosen by your ancestors to help the entire lineage heal.
(1:15:13) That is why people who go through multiple modalities they don't realize how powerful they are cuz you're not just healing you. You are healing those who came before you. Every single time you choose to heal parts of you, you are healing those who came before you as well. >> And I think we are towards the end of the session and I want to say this, this is the reason, Ashwarya, I do this kind of episodes because I want people to know about a lot of things that they're not aware of.
(1:15:45) I want to help them >> Mhm. >> be physically and mentally better. Okay. I'm sure because there is no one in this world who's not going through something. >> Mhm. >> So if I and someone like you can be the medium to help them reach that state I think that is what I want from my life as well. >> That's a beautiful purpose to have, Shanky.
(1:16:12) Isn't that what a human being should be? >> Exactly. >> You said how can I be good? You're already doing enough good. If you can create a space where people realize help is available. You don't need to suffer by yourself. You don't need to go through pain. Where they can choose to be helped. It's as if you've helped God knows how many. >> So, I think we will end this episode here.
(1:16:36) >> All right. >> Right. And to everyone who's been watching this episode, if you have any questions, any doubts, anything in your mind, drop it in the comment section. Or you can DM Aishwarya and she'll be happy to get back to you if that's okay with you. >> Absolutely. >> Yes. Uh so, keep watching and share this episode with people you think you should to make their life better and yours.
(1:17:05) So, thank you so much so so much Aishwarya for coming in again and for giving us that knowledge and just making this episode more fruitful. >> Thank you so much for having me, Shanky. This was great. >> Thank you so much. I'll see you. So, thank you so much for watching >> [music] >> See you. >> [music] [music]