Author Name:Bijay Anand
Youtube Channel Url:https://www.youtube.com/@BijayAnandTransform
Youtube Video URL:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmPSPFUEZPQ
ఇది Bijay Anand చెప్పిన “Sex, Aura, Divine Connection” వీడియోలోని ముఖ్యమైన తెలుగు takeaways — సింపుల్గా, క్లియర్గా:
### 🌿 1. సెక్స్ = శక్తి (Energy), కేవలం ఫిజికల్ కాదు
- సెక్స్ అనేది కేవలం శరీరానికి సంబంధించినది కాదు, అది **ఆత్మ, శక్తి, చైతన్యం**తో సంబంధం ఉన్నది.
- మీరు సెక్స్ను ఎలా చూస్తారు, ఎలా అనుభవిస్తారు అనేది **మీ జీవితం మొత్తం, మీ aura (ఆరా)**ని ప్రభావితం చేస్తుంది.
### ✨ 2. Aura (ఆరా) అంటే ఏమిటి?
- ఒక వ్యక్తి రూమ్లోకి వచ్చినప్పుడు అందరూ చూసేలా ఆకర్షణ కలిగించడం → అదే strong aura.
- సెక్స్, ఆలోచనలు, జీవనశైలి—all కలిసి aura ని either **బలంగా** లేదా **దుర్బలంగా** చేస్తాయి.
### ❤️ 3. పార్ట్నర్ ఎంపిక చాలా కీలకం
- ఎవరితో సెక్స్ చేస్తారో అది మీ energy ని **ఎత్తుతుంది లేదా పడగొడుతుంది**.
- Toxic లేదా negative వ్యక్తితో ఉంటే → మీ aura damage అవుతుంది.
- సరైన వ్యక్తితో ఉంటే → అది **spiritual growth**కి దారి తీస్తుంది.
👉 ఉదాహరణ:
అతను 16 మంది మధ్యలో ఎవరూ నచ్చలేదని వెళ్లిపోయాడు—ఎందుకంటే energy connect కాలేదు.
### ⚠️ 4. సెక్స్ అనేది energy exchange
- సెక్స్ చేసిన తర్వాత ఆ వ్యక్తి energy **7 సంవత్సరాల వరకు ప్రభావం చూపుతుంది** అని చెబుతున్నాడు.
- అందుకే casual లేదా random సెక్స్ను avoid చేయాలి.
### 🧠 5. Mindfulness during sex
- చాలా మంది “just orgasm” కోసం చేస్తారు → ఇది lowest level.
- కానీ:
- శ్వాస (breathing)పై దృష్టి
- భావాలు (love, connection)
- అవగాహన (awareness)
ఇవి ఉంటే → సెక్స్ **divine experience** అవుతుంది.
### 🔥 6. Chakras & orgasm
- Root chakra నుండి orgasm → animal-level
- Control చేసి higher chakras వరకు తీసుకెళ్తే →
- ఎక్కువ ఆనందం
- healing
- spiritual connection
- చివరికి → divine connection కూడా సాధ్యం అంటాడు.
### 💧 7. Semen (వీర్యం) = Life force
- ఇది చాలా విలువైన శక్తి (Ojas) అని చెబుతున్నాడు.
- దాన్ని ఎక్కువగా waste చేయకూడదు.
- ఇది శరీర, మైండ్, ఆధ్యాత్మిక శక్తికి ముఖ్యమైనది.
### 🧘 8. Linga Mudra
- ఈ ముద్ర:
- sexual energy balance
- healing
- vitality కోసం ఉపయోగపడుతుంది
- రోజుకు 10–15 నిమిషాలు చేయవచ్చు.
### 🍲 9. Food & sexual behavior connection
- మీరు ఎలాంటి ఆహారం తీసుకుంటారో → అదే మీ discipline & choices reflect అవుతుంది.
- careless food habits → careless sexual choices.
### 👩❤️👨 10. Love + Awareness = Divine connection
- సెక్స్ సమయంలో:
- ప్రేమ
- శ్వాస
- presence
ఇవి ఉంటే → ప్రతి సారి **దైవంతో కనెక్ట్ అవుతున్నట్లే** అని చెప్పాడు.
### 🚫 11. ముఖ్యమైన హెచ్చరిక
- కేవలం physical pleasure కోసం చేసే సెక్స్ →
- energy drain
- aura damage
- conscious, respectful approach మాత్రమే uplift చేస్తుంది.
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👉 ఒక లైన్లో సారాంశం:
**“సెక్స్ను ఎలా చూస్తామో, ఎవరితో చేస్తామో, ఎంత అవగాహనతో చేస్తామో—అదే మన aura, జీవితం, spiritual growth ని నిర్ణయిస్తుంది.”**
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Transcript:
(00:01) [Music] Somebody asked me if we are going to be demonstrating or doing tamasu proposes. So first of all, please allow me to explain to you my qualification to do this workshop. I've not done a PhD in university or I'm 49 years old and my love for books began around the time I started earning
(00:48) money which was at the age of 13 and I would buy a lot of books. I've literally spent all the money I made almost all of it either on books or on learning different kind of courses and I would just enter the bookshop and I would attack. I would just pick up books up like cartons go home.
(01:16) By the end of it, I had thousands of it. But one of the subjects even at the age of 14 and 15 that caught my attention was the spirituality of sex. So the Kamasutra, the Chinese text, the Japanese text, the ancient text written 3 BCE, I don't even know what the E means but you know centuries ago. how relevant they are today, how they affect us, how they affect our health and today most importantly what we will discuss about how they affect our aura because as a kundalini yoga teacher for me the focus of everything that I do my purpose my life purpose is to make sure
(01:59) that you understand the meaning of an aura how important it is and how to expand it to that extent Every kurin yoga class of mine is focused on expanding your aura. Just to give you a two-minut explanation about the aura and a very simple way to explain it. You can have three people in a room, somebody walks in and nobody notices that person.
(02:28) That's zero order. You can have a thousand people in a room, somebody walks in and everybody turns to look at that person. That's beautiful. It's radiant. It's not because he's wearing a Louis Vuitton jacket or you know Gucci shoes or you know some stupid watch. Nothing to do with that. It's the aura is the radiance.
(02:50) So as a yoga teacher that's what I focus on. And the one thing I've understood the reason why I requested for this subject to be introduced in the bar for me as a presenter to teach is because how relevant and how critically important it is for us to understand that the way we look at sex in our life, the way we have sex in our life, our attitude towards sex in our life, it defines our whole life.
(03:19) It defines our aura. It defines about how radiant we are or how depleted we [Music] are. So before we begin, just tune in to the class and we do a short meditation. Start with no guru three times. O N [Music] G and exhale and inhale again. Oh, what they
(04:22) [Music] Okay, before I got involved with kundalini yogan and the way gratitude changed my life. I was as big as of a [ __ ] as you can imagine. There's nothing that I didn't do. From smoking three packet of cigarettes a day to being known as a panessa of single mount. I even had a poker room in my house.
(04:52) We used to play poker 5 days a week. And if I tell you the stakes that we used to play, you get a heart attack. Bizarre. Now I did all of that and more. At the age of 25, we went for a friend of mine uh bachelor party to Barcelona. We all know what that is about. So seven of the biggest names that exist in Indian industrial society seven of them and me we all go together to m the
(05:37) issa from the trip I relaxing these guys go clubing the first night they come back and this is about 24 years ago okay they come back with 16 then beautiful they wake me up what you got 16 girl oh come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come and and you know and my friends they just know
(06:05) how particular I am about everything about the wine I drink about the food I eat I'm really particular if I don't like it I will go hungry I will not eat I will not have the wine I will not if I don't like it I'm not doing it they said you know there's 16 you go out there you choose whatever you like first you choose And then we will all start.
(06:30) So from my sleep I just you know spoke and after about 10 minutes I went to my friend I said I'm going to sleep. I didn't like any of said what are you mad now? How can you not like any of from 16 not even one? I said no I didn't like any of them. Why am I telling you this? One of the most important aspects of our aura, our grow is our choice of partners that we choose to have sex.
(07:02) It can totally destroy you or it can take you to another dimension, another level of consciousness. If you are with a negative energy, with a toxic energy, it can finish you off. Sex is a wonderful thing. It's actually one of the ways to superconscious. It's one of the roots and one of the paths you can follow. But if you don't understand it that way and if you just to use the correct word to make you understand, if you just go and [ __ ] it's not going to get you anywhere.
(07:36) You either understand the spirituality of sex or you don't understand it. though I was a young hot-headed hot-blooded totally decadent whatever you you can imagine in your head what a shad would look like or feel like or do at the age of 25 even then intuitively I knew I did could not and did not want to share my body is something that it did not resonate out of the two most important things in this workshop today that I want to I want to share with you is this that sex is beautiful sex will take to another another level of consciousness take it toward divinity
(08:15) but it all depend upon how specific and particular about the choice of partner if you're driving to bed with something you met in the bar and you don't know the energy you don't know where it's coming from if you're not sensitive to that energy I'll tell you how sensitive I am to energy just to give you an example about my sensitivity to to energy about six seven years ago I'm entertaining two friends of mine from Russia the supermodels they're working with the elite agency See, and I tell them, okay, now this is
(08:43) the last nightclub in in Mumbai and there's nothing else after this and it's going to shut at 3:00. This is 2:00, so you have 1 hour enjoy. So, we enter the bar and we order our drinks. Now, we've just ordered the drink and the hair at the back of my neck stood up and I had goosebumps all over all over my body.
(09:07) And I immediately turned around. There was a group of six or seven guys who just walked. I just looked at them. I turned to my friend and said, "Listen, we got to go." And he said, "What? We just came in. It's the best club here and we just love it. We shouldn't go." No, no, no. You can't know why. What happened? I now you know to talk about aura energy to somebody something you know everybody doesn't understand it.
(09:33) You don't even try to explain it to most people. It's okay to talk about it the Bali spirit in a day-to-day conversation with normal people normal people forget about it. So I said listen just trust me let's go. No no no okay just fine. Okay. I said you know what you stay. I'm going. I started paying the bill.
(09:49) The guy was taking my order. He said but is the order not even come. I said I want to pay and go. Do you mind? And I've given the credit card. In the meantime while this 30 seconds happened one of the guys took off the shirt and started. So four bouncers came to stop him. One of the other guys took out a gun. 10 more bouncers came.
(10:10) Now I nobody knew that these guys had 15 bodyguards now and they were from some political background. Those 15 bodyguards worked that negativity of that energy was so strong that you don't even need to see the person you don't even need to have a direct confrontation if that energy is negative.
(10:32) I was shooting for a show four three or four years ago and in this huge studio the massive studio I'm talking to somebody here and I could see this big black blob walking it's like a ball big black ball and I turn and say oh this guy's being a brother in the [Music] show and then for the next one year I had to be working with him and I cannot tell you what a torture it was I just run You see, you want to preserve.
(11:02) What I'm trying to get at is you have to preserve your horror at any cost. No matter what it takes. Do you know in India we don't shake hands. We do namask. Why is it because you're not civilized? No. It's because we don't want to pass on the energy. You go to a party, you shake hand with 100 people, you're finished.
(11:24) You're depleted. You do namaste, you're fine, right? That's how important energy is in reality to all of us. So coming back to Barcelona, intuitively even without studying the subject of spirituality and sex and the connection with I knew intuitively even then that I would not share my body with something that I'm not comfortable with or in tune with or in sync with.
(11:55) And that's the whole point we all need to understand. It's not about jumping into bed and having a great time. It's about sharing the energy. And that energy, just for your information, stays with you for seven years. You need to work for seven years to take out that toxicity. It's that powerful. You shake hands with somebody bad, you can go home, put some rock salt in a bucket, have a bath, or go to the sea.
(12:25) There's a lot of salt in it. Sea is got naturally salt. Some more than the other. You dive into the sea for 10 minutes, you're fine. But you have sex with somebody, seven years of hard work to get rid of that entanglement, the spiritual entanglement. You cannot be more careful about what you cohabit. You cannot be more careful.
(12:49) You have it's it's a crucial important. I wouldn't even have wine that I don't like. They threw a party for me once in Lithuania. There were 20 people. I had gone to Lithuania. They threw a party. They all know I love wines. We got wine and everybody ordered the wine open. And then after 20 minutes, the host tell me on the table in front of every You're not having a wine. I thought you love wine.
(13:08) Now, if you lie, you get into a downward spiral, right? I said, "I'm sorry. I didn't like the There's no other way to do it. I'm sorry. I didn't like Oh [ __ ] you didn't like the wine. Get another one. Get another open." Then I took a step of it. I didn't like it. And then they opened a third one. I said, "Listen, there's no need.
(13:26) I'm okay if I don't have it." They opened a third one. I said, "You know what? I'll have a single one. It's okay. I can have a single one." And then they gave me a list of single status 10. I don't have 10. I'm into either 20, 25, 30 and above. Nothing less than that. I'm not going to have something to get drunk. I want to enjoy it like a poetry.
(13:48) Now, if I'm that particular about what goes into my body, I'm 100 times more particular about what body I go in. And your choice of food reflects inadvertently about your choice of sex. Do you know that? Like I have a friend actually one of one of those seven monkeys we went to Barcelona with. So we we in Bangkok and we walking on the road and he looks at this lady selling some meat on the skewer on the road and he says, "Oh, that looks good.
(14:24) I want to have it." I said, "Are you mad?" I said, "This could be rat meat." I don't care. I'm going to eat it. And he ate it. I couldn't even watch. What do you think is his choice of sexual power? What do you think? How particular do you think is how he's going to imagine and think and be careful about who he has sex? He doesn't give a [ __ ] He sees a skirt and he dies inside like a swim. It doesn't matter to him.
(14:54) Your choice of food defined and is a is a direct pointer to your how careful and particular you are about your choice of sexual path. Always keep that in mind. Your aura, the size of it, the luminosity of it, the radiance of it is defined by how you choose your sexual partner. Whether that energy is on the same wavelength as you or not.
(15:21) When you are on the same wavelength, then the magic. When you are on the same evolutionary path, the same color of the aura, everything is the same. Or if your partner is higher, you always can find somebody who's on a higher state of then the magic then the whole process of spirituality in secure right okay I'm going to show you a mudra now which is really good for sec life so what we're going to do is called the linga mudra you just get your hands together close and the the left thumb goes up just going to do it for like three or four
(15:59) See how you feel. Put it in front of you. The spine is really straight. Some of you have got it wrong. So, I'm going to do it again. You close and the left thumb is inside the circle. You touch these two fingers together and you put it in the front and the thumb is erect straight up. It's not like this up.
(16:21) Your eyes are closed and just feeling the energy. is the subtle energy that that this moa creates for you. You can do this any time of the day. There's no timing for it. 10 minutes to 15 minutes is what is recommended. VH is doing it for three. It's called the Linga Mudra. If you want to know the literal translation of lingard means penis.
(17:06) The mudras are really powerful tools that we have at our disposal for healing our body, our mind and the soul. And this linga mudra is really good for anything to do with sexual healing, sexual uh energy, um the spirituality of sex, everything. This is like one of the most powerful. We'll do one more later on. Okay, we covered the aura part of it and how your choice of partner define I'll take questions a little bit.
(17:36) Uh it defines you your aura and whether your aura is shining because of of how careful you've been and and everything else that you do or it depletes it keeps cutting into the aura. Every time you make a mistake, it cuts it cut till you're not. Now the other aspect of sexuality and the spirituality of sexuality is how mindful you are and how aware you are in the act itself.
(18:00) You just go boom have a nice orgasm and finish. Unfortunately more than 60 to 70% do it like that. Or are you aware that there is something called breath control? Being aware of the breath when you're making love. There there there's also in the Chinese tech there are thrusts in which they are very specific three deep one shallow and then after some time you after like five or 10 minutes nine deep one shallow so even that is measured in the kamasutan and and the Chinese thing the breath is of crucial importance and the most
(18:39) important thing that I want to tell you here today is which chakra are you having your orgasm from if If you are having your orgasm from the base from the root chakra, what you have done is you've gone finished and over and you're done with it. Now the Chinese text and the council are very clear about one thing.
(18:59) If you have the inclination to finish, if you're about to have your organic and if you were to control yourself at that point for those few seconds, maybe 10, maybe 15, maybe 20 depending on the body that you have, then you elevated it to the next chakra. And again when you in because then you begin again and you last for another five or 6 minutes or whatever it and then again you reach the point where you're going to have your orgasmic and if you are able to control it again you elevated to the third chakra and then to the fourth and then
(19:40) to the fifth then the second eventually you having an orgasm out of your sas what it does to you, how it heals you, how it heals your aura, how it heals your whole life. I cannot put it strongly. It's just one of the most magical things about sex. Just being aware and mindful of the whole the whole beauty of it, the everything that goes into it.
(20:11) For example, when you are having the orgasm, a lot of people are just screaming and shouting and just not knowing what you're doing, right? But when you are inside and if your if your your lips are locked and your breath the yin and the yang is getting mixed together and intermingling and getting exchanged at that point when you are aware of the spirituality when you are having that kind of spiritual thing at that point of orgasm with that awareness you are directly connecting to the divine every single time. If you're
(20:44) even if you're having it every day of your life, you are connecting with divinity and whatever it represents every time without fail. It never does not happen. How mindful are you of your breath, of the thrust, of the whole emotion of it? How much you love the partner in front of you, what affection and emotion you have towards that partner, everything comes together.
(21:14) And at the end of the day, if you are able to control the ejaculation, if you're able to control the orgasm just a little bit, just a little bit, just a little bit up to that point, you are able to have an orgasm from the sixth or the seventh or even from the heart chakra as well. Better than the root chakra. Root chakra nothing. It's animal sex.
(21:32) Dogs do it, cats do it, elephants do it, donkeys do it. How does it matter? So irrelevant. And that the base one the root one is just a rate of energy because in the kama sutra and in ayurida both it's very specifically written and given in very strong words that your semen is made up of ojas it's made up of datus which are really crucial for your body.
(21:58) So they say doctors the modern science will tell you oh it doesn't matter you can have sex five times a day also semen is replenished like blood and you tell that doctor can you give blood five times a day you're supposed to give blood once a month maximum right maybe once in two months so yes semen is replenishable like blood but it's not wise to just waste it you just can't just throw it out and say oh it's going replenished is precious.
(22:32) In fact, in the kundalini practices, in the ancient traditional practices which are so sacred that they're not even passed on to anybody who's a student, the teacher will decide who to give it to. In those practices the sperm is pushed up from the channel from the pen and it's taken out to the and that's how the kin is awaken to the highest level of of possibility that you can imagine.
(22:58) That's how precious your semen is. You can't just throw it out and just a side dish for for you just for like a small knickknack. You never waste it on a tissue paper. You always make sure it goes eventually into water. This is really important. It's something which is alive. You don't just let it out anywhere in some cloth, some tissue paper and throw it in the in the bushes.
(23:20) You make sure it goes eventually into water. So you never just waste your oases. It's a life force in ayurveda and in the sutra is given as a life force. You just don't throw it around. You don't waste it. It's precious. Okay. Okay, now I need a question. Um, I was just going to ask with the linga, right? Does it matter like when you do the interlocking fingers? Some people uh do it the right cl.
(23:55) No, I I only know it this way. When the left thumb is on top, I don't know. I don't do it any other way. I don't teach it any other. Just do it the left. Does it matter? I would imagine it matters because if it didn't matter intuitively, I I would do this. See a lot of the thing that I do in my life and also what I teach is intuitive.
(24:13) If it would not matter, I would I would be okay with it. But I've never been comfortable doing it with the with the right thumb up. I've always been comfortable doing this. It just feels natural. I guess for some people it's like 10 like 10% of people are left-handed, right? So I think for some people it's intuitive to go the other way. If you're left-handed. Yeah.
(24:29) Right. That's a good one. Yes. What about if you can orgasm yourself to reach that? Because I can do that to myself. Beautiful. Are you getting the same amount of like So to answer your question, uh it's really important to us to answer your question. What are the most sexually repressed societies for any reason and I'm sorry if there are any Chinese people here? The Chinese.
(24:55) So I teach a lot in China and I see a lot of people sitting in my class like at the workshop that I do and I can see how I can see how sexually repressed they are like crushed sexually they have no idea what's happening even though as I said and again even India is to a to a a large extent but the Chinese are have got it little twisted somewhere something has gone wrong really really wrong with beautiful people I go every year to teach I go twice a year sometimes to China, but they need a lot of healing and sexual healing is really
(25:28) important. It's one of the most most important, most powerful and the most potent forms of healing. So there in my workshop, they say, "But what do I do? You're saying it's important, but my husband and me are not affected for 25 years." What do I do? I say, "Do you have a gym?" "Yes." "Do you go to the gym?" "Yeah.
(25:48) " "You a good-looking trainer?" "Yeah, do it." What? Very shaken. They're like so traditional and so you know what are you saying in front of 300 400 people. What are you how can you talk to that? You need sex. You have to have sex. You unless unless you become you choose to become celibate. You reach that point of consciousness.
(26:14) You reach that height of evolution. So my dear friend asked me last night. She said do you do yoga every day? I said no. I play tennis every day. Why do you do yoga video? You're a yoga teacher. Because I don't need to. I'm breathing yoga now. I'm at I'm at at a stage of consciousness where now instead of sitting every morning and doing my practice, I am doing it the whole day from the time I wake up in the morning till the time I'm going to sleep.
(26:42) Everything, every breath I take is is with consciousness. I don't need to sit into a practice. Similarly, the orgasm part if you if you're not getting it from here or there, you have to find it. Of course, coming back to point number one, that gym trainer has to have good energy.
(27:02) You just say, "Oh, this is a hot body. Good trainer. Come on, let's go. Come on." No, no, no, no. Make sure that the energy is right. Right. So, masturbation, self organ, beautiful. Perfect. Again, same principle applied. first chakra or if you control you keep going higher, keep going higher, keep going higher and then you have an organic photo.
(27:23) But it's a very valid way of keeping your sexual energy alive, the healing aspect of your sexuality alive there's nothing wrong with perfectly fine because the ones who come to me and say, "Oh, but I have a problem in the gym training thing. I don't agree with that philosophy." I said, "Okay, then learn to do it yourself." What? Really? Believe me.
(27:47) Trust me, do it. Just make sure you get it. Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. I came across that opinion theory that for women it's even more sexual parts to the way that we are receiving. Sorry, I agree with you. For women, it's much more important than men. Much more important than men about what energy you you're you're having an exchange really want.
(28:24) Is it true that you might receive the energy of the past partners of of the man? If the man's past partners are toxic, then he has to be toxic. You're making a mistake in the first choice. You can feel it. You feel it. You feel the energy. It's so easy. Just run. Run away. No matter how good looking. You could be a supermodel. You could be anything.
(28:51) Just run. Okay. Just one more side dish, one more nicknack. During your period, it's perfectly fine to have sex, but you have to be on top. According to the Karma Sutra, it's really clearly given that you never allow the blood to flow back in. When you're making love, the blood had to. So you are on top.
(29:10) The blood has to flow down always when you're making love. While you're making love, during a period, blood have to keep flowing down. You don't go on your back and allow the blood to go back. Yeah. What about that? Sorry. What is that? I like Yeah, I would have. I've never done it, but I've seen some of the faces and I've read some of the energies of these people who've done aka I'm really impressed. I might do it one day.
(29:54) I think if I find the right shaman, somebody who's authentic, I think I will do it. And yes, that would be a good way to purge that negativity out. You made the mistake. You couldn't do my class before. was the first time you did it. You've done it in the past, you have to get it out.
(30:12) But I have to tell you, kalini yoga really helps. Whatever negativity is there, whatever whatever is wrong with the aura to repair that aura, to build that aura again, to make it new again. See, the thing is when you're born, you're like this beautiful, beautiful white flower to perfect. Every cell in your body is perfect to look at. It's incredible.
(30:35) It's like a miracle of nature how perfect you are at that time and then you grow up and then the parents tell us oh that man coming to give you chocolate never take chocolate from somebody you don't know and you have to be rich you have to be successful you have to be famous and I see this little kid this this tall and these so-called educated parents coming in Ferraris and Bentleys and and what have you and these educated parents egging the child come you come first come on come on and you're conditioning ing the child to fail in life from the
(31:06) very beginning by making sure that the child thinks and believes that coming first is the most important thing. My daughter in that same race was told that I'm going to watch you. I'm going to look at you and if I don't see you having fun, I'm going to be very upset. And if I see that you're having fun, I'm going to take you for a pizza.
(31:31) And that little one, they say, "Ready? On your mark, get set, go. Everybody start running. She starts running in the opposite side and she's dancing. I take her for a pizza. The first book I've written, see I I plan to write like 30 40 books. The first book that I had to start with, what is the first subject I want to write? It's called raising my daughter.
(31:55) Because the way we raise our children defines humanity. We are raising our children wrong. Humanity is where it is today because people are messed up in the head. I was led to believe success is important. I was led to believe fame is important. Money is important. Wealth is important. And I got all of it.
(32:16) I became an actor. I was signing autographs every day. I got a lot of money. And what happened to me? I was as messed up as you can even imagine. Spirituality is the only way out. And the way we raise our children is the only way to go. And back to the first book that I had to write. Okay. [Music] Yes.
(32:53) How do you feel about that? Question. I'm sorry. Um the idea of withholding completely over months or a year. Okay that's really important. I'm glad you asked me this because you see what made me a teacher eventually is I used myself as a guinea pig and I experimented with a lot of [ __ ] with food for example. I went without without any food just on water for like seven days.
(33:26) I went I lived on vegetables, juices and fruit juices for 4 months. That by the way destroyed my gut and my whole body and I'm still dealing with it 20 years before I did it. I'm still dealing with I've experimented a lot. Now this is one of the things I experimented especially there's a teacher called Makia if you Google him.
(33:45) Now the thing is they don't specify one stupid thing. Really it's I get so angry why they don't specify it. They say you withhold ejaculation. Okay. Now even I said it's very important to control the sperm and to not just let it go free whenever you feel like okay blood no what they don't tell you is that you don't reach that if the final point when you want to have an orgasm when you want to come and then stop and say okay baby tomorrow no that's a disaster you are actually messing with your kundalini you're actually I'm so glad you as that question You're actually
(34:23) messing with your if you reach that point where the scum has reached for lack of a better word your balls. Okay? And if it's reached that point where it's about to be released and when you stop and for for the next one day or two days it goes up the wrong [Music]
(00:01) [Music] Somebody asked me if we are going to be demonstrating or doing tamasu proposes. So first of all, please allow me to explain to you my qualification to do this workshop. I've not done a PhD in university or I'm 49 years old and my love for books began around the time I started earning
(00:48) money which was at the age of 13 and I would buy a lot of books. I've literally spent all the money I made almost all of it either on books or on learning different kind of courses and I would just enter the bookshop and I would attack. I would just pick up books up like cartons go home.
(01:16) By the end of it, I had thousands of it. But one of the subjects even at the age of 14 and 15 that caught my attention was the spirituality of sex. So the Kamasutra, the Chinese text, the Japanese text, the ancient text written 3 BCE, I don't even know what the E means but you know centuries ago. how relevant they are today, how they affect us, how they affect our health and today most importantly what we will discuss about how they affect our aura because as a kundalini yoga teacher for me the focus of everything that I do my purpose my life purpose is to make sure
(01:59) that you understand the meaning of an aura how important it is and how to expand it to that extent Every kurin yoga class of mine is focused on expanding your aura. Just to give you a two-minut explanation about the aura and a very simple way to explain it. You can have three people in a room, somebody walks in and nobody notices that person.
(02:28) That's zero order. You can have a thousand people in a room, somebody walks in and everybody turns to look at that person. That's beautiful. It's radiant. It's not because he's wearing a Louis Vuitton jacket or you know Gucci shoes or you know some stupid watch. Nothing to do with that. It's the aura is the radiance.
(02:50) So as a yoga teacher that's what I focus on. And the one thing I've understood the reason why I requested for this subject to be introduced in the bar for me as a presenter to teach is because how relevant and how critically important it is for us to understand that the way we look at sex in our life, the way we have sex in our life, our attitude towards sex in our life, it defines our whole life.
(03:19) It defines our aura. It defines about how radiant we are or how depleted we [Music] are. So before we begin, just tune in to the class and we do a short meditation. Start with no guru three times. O N [Music] G and exhale and inhale again. Oh, what they
(04:22) [Music] Okay, before I got involved with kundalini yogan and the way gratitude changed my life. I was as big as of a [ __ ] as you can imagine. There's nothing that I didn't do. From smoking three packet of cigarettes a day to being known as a panessa of single mount. I even had a poker room in my house.
(04:52) We used to play poker 5 days a week. And if I tell you the stakes that we used to play, you get a heart attack. Bizarre. Now I did all of that and more. At the age of 25, we went for a friend of mine uh bachelor party to Barcelona. We all know what that is about. So seven of the biggest names that exist in Indian industrial society seven of them and me we all go together to m the
(05:37) issa from the trip I relaxing these guys go clubing the first night they come back and this is about 24 years ago okay they come back with 16 then beautiful they wake me up what you got 16 girl oh come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come come and and you know and my friends they just know
(06:05) how particular I am about everything about the wine I drink about the food I eat I'm really particular if I don't like it I will go hungry I will not eat I will not have the wine I will not if I don't like it I'm not doing it they said you know there's 16 you go out there you choose whatever you like first you choose And then we will all start.
(06:30) So from my sleep I just you know spoke and after about 10 minutes I went to my friend I said I'm going to sleep. I didn't like any of said what are you mad now? How can you not like any of from 16 not even one? I said no I didn't like any of them. Why am I telling you this? One of the most important aspects of our aura, our grow is our choice of partners that we choose to have sex.
(07:02) It can totally destroy you or it can take you to another dimension, another level of consciousness. If you are with a negative energy, with a toxic energy, it can finish you off. Sex is a wonderful thing. It's actually one of the ways to superconscious. It's one of the roots and one of the paths you can follow. But if you don't understand it that way and if you just to use the correct word to make you understand, if you just go and [ __ ] it's not going to get you anywhere.
(07:36) You either understand the spirituality of sex or you don't understand it. though I was a young hot-headed hot-blooded totally decadent whatever you you can imagine in your head what a shad would look like or feel like or do at the age of 25 even then intuitively I knew I did could not and did not want to share my body is something that it did not resonate out of the two most important things in this workshop today that I want to I want to share with you is this that sex is beautiful sex will take to another another level of consciousness take it toward divinity
(08:15) but it all depend upon how specific and particular about the choice of partner if you're driving to bed with something you met in the bar and you don't know the energy you don't know where it's coming from if you're not sensitive to that energy I'll tell you how sensitive I am to energy just to give you an example about my sensitivity to to energy about six seven years ago I'm entertaining two friends of mine from Russia the supermodels they're working with the elite agency See, and I tell them, okay, now this is
(08:43) the last nightclub in in Mumbai and there's nothing else after this and it's going to shut at 3:00. This is 2:00, so you have 1 hour enjoy. So, we enter the bar and we order our drinks. Now, we've just ordered the drink and the hair at the back of my neck stood up and I had goosebumps all over all over my body.
(09:07) And I immediately turned around. There was a group of six or seven guys who just walked. I just looked at them. I turned to my friend and said, "Listen, we got to go." And he said, "What? We just came in. It's the best club here and we just love it. We shouldn't go." No, no, no. You can't know why. What happened? I now you know to talk about aura energy to somebody something you know everybody doesn't understand it.
(09:33) You don't even try to explain it to most people. It's okay to talk about it the Bali spirit in a day-to-day conversation with normal people normal people forget about it. So I said listen just trust me let's go. No no no okay just fine. Okay. I said you know what you stay. I'm going. I started paying the bill.
(09:49) The guy was taking my order. He said but is the order not even come. I said I want to pay and go. Do you mind? And I've given the credit card. In the meantime while this 30 seconds happened one of the guys took off the shirt and started. So four bouncers came to stop him. One of the other guys took out a gun. 10 more bouncers came.
(10:10) Now I nobody knew that these guys had 15 bodyguards now and they were from some political background. Those 15 bodyguards worked that negativity of that energy was so strong that you don't even need to see the person you don't even need to have a direct confrontation if that energy is negative.
(10:32) I was shooting for a show four three or four years ago and in this huge studio the massive studio I'm talking to somebody here and I could see this big black blob walking it's like a ball big black ball and I turn and say oh this guy's being a brother in the [Music] show and then for the next one year I had to be working with him and I cannot tell you what a torture it was I just run You see, you want to preserve.
(11:02) What I'm trying to get at is you have to preserve your horror at any cost. No matter what it takes. Do you know in India we don't shake hands. We do namask. Why is it because you're not civilized? No. It's because we don't want to pass on the energy. You go to a party, you shake hand with 100 people, you're finished.
(11:24) You're depleted. You do namaste, you're fine, right? That's how important energy is in reality to all of us. So coming back to Barcelona, intuitively even without studying the subject of spirituality and sex and the connection with I knew intuitively even then that I would not share my body with something that I'm not comfortable with or in tune with or in sync with.
(11:55) And that's the whole point we all need to understand. It's not about jumping into bed and having a great time. It's about sharing the energy. And that energy, just for your information, stays with you for seven years. You need to work for seven years to take out that toxicity. It's that powerful. You shake hands with somebody bad, you can go home, put some rock salt in a bucket, have a bath, or go to the sea.
(12:25) There's a lot of salt in it. Sea is got naturally salt. Some more than the other. You dive into the sea for 10 minutes, you're fine. But you have sex with somebody, seven years of hard work to get rid of that entanglement, the spiritual entanglement. You cannot be more careful about what you cohabit. You cannot be more careful.
(12:49) You have it's it's a crucial important. I wouldn't even have wine that I don't like. They threw a party for me once in Lithuania. There were 20 people. I had gone to Lithuania. They threw a party. They all know I love wines. We got wine and everybody ordered the wine open. And then after 20 minutes, the host tell me on the table in front of every You're not having a wine. I thought you love wine.
(13:08) Now, if you lie, you get into a downward spiral, right? I said, "I'm sorry. I didn't like the There's no other way to do it. I'm sorry. I didn't like Oh [ __ ] you didn't like the wine. Get another one. Get another open." Then I took a step of it. I didn't like it. And then they opened a third one. I said, "Listen, there's no need.
(13:26) I'm okay if I don't have it." They opened a third one. I said, "You know what? I'll have a single one. It's okay. I can have a single one." And then they gave me a list of single status 10. I don't have 10. I'm into either 20, 25, 30 and above. Nothing less than that. I'm not going to have something to get drunk. I want to enjoy it like a poetry.
(13:48) Now, if I'm that particular about what goes into my body, I'm 100 times more particular about what body I go in. And your choice of food reflects inadvertently about your choice of sex. Do you know that? Like I have a friend actually one of one of those seven monkeys we went to Barcelona with. So we we in Bangkok and we walking on the road and he looks at this lady selling some meat on the skewer on the road and he says, "Oh, that looks good.
(14:24) I want to have it." I said, "Are you mad?" I said, "This could be rat meat." I don't care. I'm going to eat it. And he ate it. I couldn't even watch. What do you think is his choice of sexual power? What do you think? How particular do you think is how he's going to imagine and think and be careful about who he has sex? He doesn't give a [ __ ] He sees a skirt and he dies inside like a swim. It doesn't matter to him.
(14:54) Your choice of food defined and is a is a direct pointer to your how careful and particular you are about your choice of sexual path. Always keep that in mind. Your aura, the size of it, the luminosity of it, the radiance of it is defined by how you choose your sexual partner. Whether that energy is on the same wavelength as you or not.
(15:21) When you are on the same wavelength, then the magic. When you are on the same evolutionary path, the same color of the aura, everything is the same. Or if your partner is higher, you always can find somebody who's on a higher state of then the magic then the whole process of spirituality in secure right okay I'm going to show you a mudra now which is really good for sec life so what we're going to do is called the linga mudra you just get your hands together close and the the left thumb goes up just going to do it for like three or four
(15:59) See how you feel. Put it in front of you. The spine is really straight. Some of you have got it wrong. So, I'm going to do it again. You close and the left thumb is inside the circle. You touch these two fingers together and you put it in the front and the thumb is erect straight up. It's not like this up.
(16:21) Your eyes are closed and just feeling the energy. is the subtle energy that that this moa creates for you. You can do this any time of the day. There's no timing for it. 10 minutes to 15 minutes is what is recommended. VH is doing it for three. It's called the Linga Mudra. If you want to know the literal translation of lingard means penis.
(17:06) The mudras are really powerful tools that we have at our disposal for healing our body, our mind and the soul. And this linga mudra is really good for anything to do with sexual healing, sexual uh energy, um the spirituality of sex, everything. This is like one of the most powerful. We'll do one more later on. Okay, we covered the aura part of it and how your choice of partner define I'll take questions a little bit.
(17:36) Uh it defines you your aura and whether your aura is shining because of of how careful you've been and and everything else that you do or it depletes it keeps cutting into the aura. Every time you make a mistake, it cuts it cut till you're not. Now the other aspect of sexuality and the spirituality of sexuality is how mindful you are and how aware you are in the act itself.
(18:00) You just go boom have a nice orgasm and finish. Unfortunately more than 60 to 70% do it like that. Or are you aware that there is something called breath control? Being aware of the breath when you're making love. There there there's also in the Chinese tech there are thrusts in which they are very specific three deep one shallow and then after some time you after like five or 10 minutes nine deep one shallow so even that is measured in the kamasutan and and the Chinese thing the breath is of crucial importance and the most
(18:39) important thing that I want to tell you here today is which chakra are you having your orgasm from if If you are having your orgasm from the base from the root chakra, what you have done is you've gone finished and over and you're done with it. Now the Chinese text and the council are very clear about one thing.
(18:59) If you have the inclination to finish, if you're about to have your organic and if you were to control yourself at that point for those few seconds, maybe 10, maybe 15, maybe 20 depending on the body that you have, then you elevated it to the next chakra. And again when you in because then you begin again and you last for another five or 6 minutes or whatever it and then again you reach the point where you're going to have your orgasmic and if you are able to control it again you elevated to the third chakra and then to the fourth and then
(19:40) to the fifth then the second eventually you having an orgasm out of your sas what it does to you, how it heals you, how it heals your aura, how it heals your whole life. I cannot put it strongly. It's just one of the most magical things about sex. Just being aware and mindful of the whole the whole beauty of it, the everything that goes into it.
(20:11) For example, when you are having the orgasm, a lot of people are just screaming and shouting and just not knowing what you're doing, right? But when you are inside and if your if your your lips are locked and your breath the yin and the yang is getting mixed together and intermingling and getting exchanged at that point when you are aware of the spirituality when you are having that kind of spiritual thing at that point of orgasm with that awareness you are directly connecting to the divine every single time. If you're
(20:44) even if you're having it every day of your life, you are connecting with divinity and whatever it represents every time without fail. It never does not happen. How mindful are you of your breath, of the thrust, of the whole emotion of it? How much you love the partner in front of you, what affection and emotion you have towards that partner, everything comes together.
(21:14) And at the end of the day, if you are able to control the ejaculation, if you're able to control the orgasm just a little bit, just a little bit, just a little bit up to that point, you are able to have an orgasm from the sixth or the seventh or even from the heart chakra as well. Better than the root chakra. Root chakra nothing. It's animal sex.
(21:32) Dogs do it, cats do it, elephants do it, donkeys do it. How does it matter? So irrelevant. And that the base one the root one is just a rate of energy because in the kama sutra and in ayurida both it's very specifically written and given in very strong words that your semen is made up of ojas it's made up of datus which are really crucial for your body.
(21:58) So they say doctors the modern science will tell you oh it doesn't matter you can have sex five times a day also semen is replenished like blood and you tell that doctor can you give blood five times a day you're supposed to give blood once a month maximum right maybe once in two months so yes semen is replenishable like blood but it's not wise to just waste it you just can't just throw it out and say oh it's going replenished is precious.
(22:32) In fact, in the kundalini practices, in the ancient traditional practices which are so sacred that they're not even passed on to anybody who's a student, the teacher will decide who to give it to. In those practices the sperm is pushed up from the channel from the pen and it's taken out to the and that's how the kin is awaken to the highest level of of possibility that you can imagine.
(22:58) That's how precious your semen is. You can't just throw it out and just a side dish for for you just for like a small knickknack. You never waste it on a tissue paper. You always make sure it goes eventually into water. This is really important. It's something which is alive. You don't just let it out anywhere in some cloth, some tissue paper and throw it in the in the bushes.
(23:20) You make sure it goes eventually into water. So you never just waste your oases. It's a life force in ayurveda and in the sutra is given as a life force. You just don't throw it around. You don't waste it. It's precious. Okay. Okay, now I need a question. Um, I was just going to ask with the linga, right? Does it matter like when you do the interlocking fingers? Some people uh do it the right cl.
(23:55) No, I I only know it this way. When the left thumb is on top, I don't know. I don't do it any other way. I don't teach it any other. Just do it the left. Does it matter? I would imagine it matters because if it didn't matter intuitively, I I would do this. See a lot of the thing that I do in my life and also what I teach is intuitive.
(24:13) If it would not matter, I would I would be okay with it. But I've never been comfortable doing it with the with the right thumb up. I've always been comfortable doing this. It just feels natural. I guess for some people it's like 10 like 10% of people are left-handed, right? So I think for some people it's intuitive to go the other way. If you're left-handed. Yeah.
(24:29) Right. That's a good one. Yes. What about if you can orgasm yourself to reach that? Because I can do that to myself. Beautiful. Are you getting the same amount of like So to answer your question, uh it's really important to us to answer your question. What are the most sexually repressed societies for any reason and I'm sorry if there are any Chinese people here? The Chinese.
(24:55) So I teach a lot in China and I see a lot of people sitting in my class like at the workshop that I do and I can see how I can see how sexually repressed they are like crushed sexually they have no idea what's happening even though as I said and again even India is to a to a a large extent but the Chinese are have got it little twisted somewhere something has gone wrong really really wrong with beautiful people I go every year to teach I go twice a year sometimes to China, but they need a lot of healing and sexual healing is really
(25:28) important. It's one of the most most important, most powerful and the most potent forms of healing. So there in my workshop, they say, "But what do I do? You're saying it's important, but my husband and me are not affected for 25 years." What do I do? I say, "Do you have a gym?" "Yes." "Do you go to the gym?" "Yeah.
(25:48) " "You a good-looking trainer?" "Yeah, do it." What? Very shaken. They're like so traditional and so you know what are you saying in front of 300 400 people. What are you how can you talk to that? You need sex. You have to have sex. You unless unless you become you choose to become celibate. You reach that point of consciousness.
(26:14) You reach that height of evolution. So my dear friend asked me last night. She said do you do yoga every day? I said no. I play tennis every day. Why do you do yoga video? You're a yoga teacher. Because I don't need to. I'm breathing yoga now. I'm at I'm at at a stage of consciousness where now instead of sitting every morning and doing my practice, I am doing it the whole day from the time I wake up in the morning till the time I'm going to sleep.
(26:42) Everything, every breath I take is is with consciousness. I don't need to sit into a practice. Similarly, the orgasm part if you if you're not getting it from here or there, you have to find it. Of course, coming back to point number one, that gym trainer has to have good energy.
(27:02) You just say, "Oh, this is a hot body. Good trainer. Come on, let's go. Come on." No, no, no, no. Make sure that the energy is right. Right. So, masturbation, self organ, beautiful. Perfect. Again, same principle applied. first chakra or if you control you keep going higher, keep going higher, keep going higher and then you have an organic photo.
(27:23) But it's a very valid way of keeping your sexual energy alive, the healing aspect of your sexuality alive there's nothing wrong with perfectly fine because the ones who come to me and say, "Oh, but I have a problem in the gym training thing. I don't agree with that philosophy." I said, "Okay, then learn to do it yourself." What? Really? Believe me.
(27:47) Trust me, do it. Just make sure you get it. Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. I came across that opinion theory that for women it's even more sexual parts to the way that we are receiving. Sorry, I agree with you. For women, it's much more important than men. Much more important than men about what energy you you're you're having an exchange really want.
(28:24) Is it true that you might receive the energy of the past partners of of the man? If the man's past partners are toxic, then he has to be toxic. You're making a mistake in the first choice. You can feel it. You feel it. You feel the energy. It's so easy. Just run. Run away. No matter how good looking. You could be a supermodel. You could be anything.
(28:51) Just run. Okay. Just one more side dish, one more nicknack. During your period, it's perfectly fine to have sex, but you have to be on top. According to the Karma Sutra, it's really clearly given that you never allow the blood to flow back in. When you're making love, the blood had to. So you are on top.
(29:10) The blood has to flow down always when you're making love. While you're making love, during a period, blood have to keep flowing down. You don't go on your back and allow the blood to go back. Yeah. What about that? Sorry. What is that? I like Yeah, I would have. I've never done it, but I've seen some of the faces and I've read some of the energies of these people who've done aka I'm really impressed. I might do it one day.
(29:54) I think if I find the right shaman, somebody who's authentic, I think I will do it. And yes, that would be a good way to purge that negativity out. You made the mistake. You couldn't do my class before. was the first time you did it. You've done it in the past, you have to get it out.
(30:12) But I have to tell you, kalini yoga really helps. Whatever negativity is there, whatever whatever is wrong with the aura to repair that aura, to build that aura again, to make it new again. See, the thing is when you're born, you're like this beautiful, beautiful white flower to perfect. Every cell in your body is perfect to look at. It's incredible.
(30:35) It's like a miracle of nature how perfect you are at that time and then you grow up and then the parents tell us oh that man coming to give you chocolate never take chocolate from somebody you don't know and you have to be rich you have to be successful you have to be famous and I see this little kid this this tall and these so-called educated parents coming in Ferraris and Bentleys and and what have you and these educated parents egging the child come you come first come on come on and you're conditioning ing the child to fail in life from the
(31:06) very beginning by making sure that the child thinks and believes that coming first is the most important thing. My daughter in that same race was told that I'm going to watch you. I'm going to look at you and if I don't see you having fun, I'm going to be very upset. And if I see that you're having fun, I'm going to take you for a pizza.
(31:31) And that little one, they say, "Ready? On your mark, get set, go. Everybody start running. She starts running in the opposite side and she's dancing. I take her for a pizza. The first book I've written, see I I plan to write like 30 40 books. The first book that I had to start with, what is the first subject I want to write? It's called raising my daughter.
(31:55) Because the way we raise our children defines humanity. We are raising our children wrong. Humanity is where it is today because people are messed up in the head. I was led to believe success is important. I was led to believe fame is important. Money is important. Wealth is important. And I got all of it.
(32:16) I became an actor. I was signing autographs every day. I got a lot of money. And what happened to me? I was as messed up as you can even imagine. Spirituality is the only way out. And the way we raise our children is the only way to go. And back to the first book that I had to write. Okay. [Music] Yes.
(32:53) How do you feel about that? Question. I'm sorry. Um the idea of withholding completely over months or a year. Okay that's really important. I'm glad you asked me this because you see what made me a teacher eventually is I used myself as a guinea pig and I experimented with a lot of [ __ ] with food for example. I went without without any food just on water for like seven days.
(33:26) I went I lived on vegetables, juices and fruit juices for 4 months. That by the way destroyed my gut and my whole body and I'm still dealing with it 20 years before I did it. I'm still dealing with I've experimented a lot. Now this is one of the things I experimented especially there's a teacher called Makia if you Google him.
(33:45) Now the thing is they don't specify one stupid thing. Really it's I get so angry why they don't specify it. They say you withhold ejaculation. Okay. Now even I said it's very important to control the sperm and to not just let it go free whenever you feel like okay blood no what they don't tell you is that you don't reach that if the final point when you want to have an orgasm when you want to come and then stop and say okay baby tomorrow no that's a disaster you are actually messing with your kundalini you're actually I'm so glad you as that question You're actually
(34:23) messing with your if you reach that point where the scum has reached for lack of a better word your balls. Okay? And if it's reached that point where it's about to be released and when you stop and for for the next one day or two days it goes up the wrong [Music]
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