THIS Happens When You Hate Someone! | Gurudev

THIS Happens When You Hate Someone! | Gurudev

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When it comes to people, have you noticed uh there are people who to whom you have done so much and then they have turned against you? You did so much for someone and but then they became your enemies. They don't even talk to you. Now on the other side, haven't you had people whom you don't didn't even know or you are not for them but then they have come to your help. So you think only your friends will help you not your enemies. Your friends may not help you my dear. And those whom you don't consider as your friends, they have come to your help many a time. So why should you be so hard on your friends and enemies? You see someone whom you think they are enemy. You don't even want to look at them. You look somewhere else. Looking at them something happens inside you. You start boiling, rattling. Hey, come on relax. They are not doing as much harm to you as someone whom with whom you have given so much you did everything they might do some harm to you your own friends if your time is good I tell you the worst enemy will come and do your work like a friend this is another factor there are 36 factors of which time is also one in life in the time if your time is not so good your best friend will behave with you like an enemy. If your time is good when enemy will come and help you. So whom do you blame? You blame the time. That's okay. But you know you can't do anything with time. Can you do anything? See there's one use of astrology here. astrology says because Saturn is in that in triangle with your house or you know Jupiter is retrograde retrograde and Mercury is retrograde that's why things are falling apart for you yes you can't go and fight with Mercury and Jupiter for your misfortune otherwise you would be elegant somebody and getting upset with that person spoiling your mood now you say oh Jupiter is retrograde that's why I'm praising the problem So you shift the problem from putting on other people's and situation to planets to somewhere it is safer. So you cannot fight with them. You cannot get angry with them. You cannot do anything but you wait for the time to move there. You know yeah Mercury is not going to be retrograde all the time. It's going to come direct things will become all right. On one side it gives you hope, another side it saves your mind. It's like the fuse saves your mind from undergoing a lot of heartburn and hatred. You can't sit and hate Saturn or Jupiter or Mercury or some planets you don't do. But if you see that someone else is wrong, then you will start hating them. When you hate them, you think about them in the morning, afternoon, evening with breakfast, lunch and dinner with your bath and with your bed. You go with them. You go to bathroom with their thought and go to bed with their thought. People whom you hate occupy your whole life and your whole body cringes. Your whole nervous system start taking the shape of that person. I tell you if it goes little longer, you start behaving like them, becoming like them. Exactly. You become like the person whom you hate. There'll be no difference between you and them. It's like the person whom you admire a lot. You start becoming like them. Similarly, you hate somebody, you start becoming hatred is even more stronger than admiration because our mind works like that. 10 compliments one insult. What do you hold on to more? Your aversion is much stronger than your cravings. What are the implications of this in your daily life? What are the signs of visible signs is depression and sadness? You become miserable and then you are you become aggressive and uncooperative and not nice to deal with anybody. Your behavior goes for a toss. And then third thing is your body goes out of your control. Nothing in your body listens to you. Your heartbeat rises up. Your body cringes and you get sensations in the body. You you feel things that normally you don't want to feel. You know restlessness, utter restlessness. You can't even get a deep sleep or can't relax for some time. Total disruption in the in the body of its normal function. You won't feel hungry or sleep at time. You will not feel comfortable. You'll feel restless and you don't can't even describe how you feel. Along with this one more sign that comes with this breathlessness, irregular breathing, sort of breathlessness. You sit with people who have lot of sadness or agitation in them. You can feel in their breath. Have you noticed they'll breathe so irregular with out of rhythm their breathing will be and it it can be felt even from few feet away by others and then they emit such vibrations that is repulsive. They turn out to be obnoxious because of irregular breathing patterns happening in them. They can be very famous person you know some famous superstar of film everybody wants to take picture with them but you just sit with them the vibration is so bad that you want to run away. So what is the solution again here? That is meditation. Relax. Om chanting. Om. If you even chant louder, you have to chant. You cannot just chant in the bite. When you chant louder, oh, it soothens a lot. It it harmonizes the breathing pattern. It uh takes away many of the illnesses that body and mind poses.