Why You Still Feel Empty Despite Everything | The Truth About Inner Lack

Why You Still Feel Empty Despite Everything | The Truth About Inner Lack

Author Name:Yogi Aikam Ji

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Transcript:
(00:00) In the hustle of all that is going on around you, there is a craving or a yearning to complete the self so you can feel peaceful. Although you can have a so many um followers on the social media or so many so-called friends [music] uh on social media but the suicidal rate of this time of this generation is so much the anxiety levels the panic attacks the stress levels everything uh is here although all the knowledge is also just away with the click of a button it and you have that access [music] and here lot of people are trying to
(00:39) find what is best for them. You will only attract what you are lacking inside and that is not a very good news. Omnar everyone when we talk about the relationships and the need uh that comes to be in the relationships the tragedy or what what you can call anything is that right now we have so much access to people through our social media and your um apps and gadgets and the world that that is moving so past.
(01:18) Uh we are hardly getting a chance to reflect back on ourself that what are we after? Because everything is consuming so much of your energy, so much of your attention. The body needs that energy, that fulfillment, that satisfaction inside you, that contentfulness. Uh in the hustle of all that is going on around you, there is a craving or a yearning to complete the self.
(01:47) So you can feel peaceful but everything outside is taking your peace away. Your attention is going to a million things at a time and then so many targets, so many expectations and and the the younger population, the Zenz has been bombarded with so much um it's kind of sad as well because uh they've been pushed too far just like a elastic band.
(02:11) If we if we pull it too far one time, it's going to break and at that time the there is there there's nothing you can do about it. Although you can have a so many um followers on the social media or so many so-called friends uh uh on social media but the suicidal rate of this time of this generation is so much the anxiety levels the panic attacks the stress levels everything uh is here although all the knowledge is also just away with a click of a button it and you have that access
(02:56) and here lot of people are trying to find what is best for them. So people, everyone, most people who are online, they're trying to make a relationship with someone that brings them a feelood factor, that brings them the peace inside, that brings that joyess or a freedom or happiness or cheerfulness uh in themselves.
(03:25) But we have to be very very careful uh with what we are seeking outside because whenever somebody is let us say attracting us or you soal feel that that person um is exactly what I I appreciate you start appreciating things the way people dress the way people talk to you um you are seeking that because that is lacking in you.
(04:00) If somebody you are appreciating their confidence uh levels that somewhere that fear of expressing yourself is sitting in you. In a nutshell, when the days are passing by, you accumulate so many friends. But it is important to actually first reflect what are you looking for and then make connections to people because not everyone who's laughing is going to bring joy to you later on.
(04:30) Some people will become reason for your trauma. Some people will become reason for your anger and a heartbreak and disturbing mind. What you are seeking here outside is something that brings peace to you, something that brings contentfulness to you. So it is important first to be at peace and see what kind of friendship you want to make.
(05:02) Um two or three friends are enough for lifetime and mostly we say that we make uh when we are in the school or or in graduation time those friendship lasts forever because those are the people who will not judge you who know who you are but later on in let's say in the professional life people have developed certain character about them [snorts] they have learned how to hide some of the traumas they have become little bit more uh manipulative or some other qualities that that are uh might be hidden from you and you are only seeing the good
(05:35) side of them. Whereas during the school times or the graduation times, everyone is almost at the same level. Uh everyone comes from the same background, almost the same background. They laugh almost similar uh jokes and all. So friends there is nothing wrong in looking for friendships but you will only attract what you are lacking inside and that is not a very good news.
(06:07) So in Hindi or Sanskrit we use this word relationship as sund bund means equality bund means togetherness the contract. So you are looking for something that are that is equivalent to you not above you not lower than you because you want to feel peace with them with them. But if someone is hiding the traumas someone is portraying something that they are not and they are you think that they are at your level.
(06:40) Once you are with them you will really see what they are doing to you. Every time they move their level, it disturbs your energy. So we want to make a sund with relationships because every time every person you are connected psychologically, emotionally, you are allowing their energy to touch your psychic field, your energy levels as well.
(07:14) Imagine you are like a beautiful lake and someone comes and they bring their little joyfulness or little disturbed energy. It's going to create waves in your aura in your energy field. It's going to create some kind of moment in your thought process. Whenever somebody is in our thoughts that means we are feeding our own life force energy to that thing which is in our thought be anything be be a person or be somebody else anything.
(07:50) Every thought that remains alive in you they remain alive only because you are feeding your life force energy uh to them. Initially you might be very uh happy with that person for example and bring so much peace and love and you are always thinking about that person and you are in that la land and you think that okay he's my soulmate she's my soulmate he she understands me so much I don't have to speak u what you are doing here you are actually feeding lot of energy lot of energy to that person and because it is not coming from
(08:28) um a neutral ground because there's always expectation that if I'm feeding the energy psychologically I will be fed the energy that I appreciate. You're trying to fulfill yourself because you haven't spent enough time to uh look within to see what am I lacking. You will only search for the food if the hunger is sitting inside.
(08:55) You will only ask for the water when the thirst is sitting inside. You will only ask for someone with the joyfulness when the sadness is sitting inside. When you see a free person outside, a little prisoner is sitting inside. Little hurtful child is sitting inside. So your craving is to have peace inside. And if you have not paid enough time with yourself looking into inside, you're going to attract opposite because that is what you need.
(09:36) And then that person that brings the happiness momentarily happiness inside and you think that my life is complete after some time your life starts turning chaos because that person energy is fulfilling you which is not. But that energy is not yours. Remember, it's been given to you temporarily.
(09:57) So you can look within and find your peace within, find your happiness within, find your joy within. That person triggers what is lacking in you. 10 people, 100 people, every person is going to trigger some kind of energy disturbance in your oric field. So choose your friends wisely. It's been said million times before. You are represented by the kind of energy you carry.
(10:32) And if you're carrying the disturbed energy and it's a mix of confusion and so many people on your shoulders, obviously you can survive temporarily. But in the long term, there's a fall waiting. And when those people are trying to now take the energy back from them because they want to be natural. They are not giving you their their energy permanently.
(10:56) Then again that grief that sadness will remain in you because what was fulfilling you is been taken away and now the gap becomes even bigger. So you are now aware what you are lacking and the gap is becoming bigger and then you hit people hit the stress levels the anxiety levels and then they say I don't want to live there's no point of living big influencers social on social media end up committing suicide why because they are seeking what has been missing in them they want validation from people that look at me.
(11:35) They will dress like that. They turn themselves into a product in people's eyes. Nice clothes, nice hair, perfumes, certain kind of ways of perform performing things for other people. When are you living life? You are not here living life. You are selling a product. You're selling yourself that look at me I'm better than others.
(12:06) And when you say look at me I'm better than others. Then there is a person who is completely dissociated with the self. A sad person is trying to cover up. If you're confident and you're contentful with what whoever you are, you you you are okay with who you are, then you don't have to be a pretender. You don't need to pretend the laugh.
(12:37) You don't need to pretend the love. You don't need to pretend that you are not. Here our problem is everyone around us is pretending to be something which they are not. And when we are in relationship with them then they show the real colors which you do not like. [clears throat] You do the same.
(13:02) They will come to know your shadow side as well. So everyone [clears throat] who comes in your life pay attention. Everyone who comes in your life and show their positive side, show their happy side, their joyfulness, know that they are liars because it's not possible that every person has only positive side. It is not possible.
(13:29) And before advancing in the relationship, if you have not seen their shadow side, then you are lying to yourself. and you are preparing yourself for a big heartbreak and a fall. Ask the person, ask your friend, what is your negative side? What triggers you? What makes you emotional? What are the memories from the childhood that makes you sad? What was your schooling? Were you punished? How's your relationship with your parents? How's how's your father or a mother treated you?
(14:14) Were you bullied in school? What did you do when you were bullied? What did you do when someone put you down? That these questions will knock them because they are there with a beautiful mask in front of you. And when you ask these questions, honestly, it's going to put them on the back foot. and you will force them to actually think about it and it's good then that they can start sharing and don't be afraid if they ask the same questions because here you might also be hiding something so you have to be honest
(14:50) enough and then the understanding comes that yes I am at that same wavelength and then go for it but avoiding these questions the hard questions hiding these feelings inside your traumas inside you're not doing justice to your own self and to the other person and vice versa. So make a sund equality of a relationship.
(15:20) If you want to be together please open your shadow self. Talk about what kills you. Talk about what makes you sad. grief, loneliness, the traumas, the past painful experiences. Why don't you talk about that? Most people talk about, "Oh, you're so beautiful or you're wearing I like the way you move and all that. I like the way you dress.
(15:45) I like the way you say hello and all that." Uh, that's that's fake. That's not life. That's a manipulation. So your life, your wisdom, your decision. Be honest, be friends with your past, accept who you are, talk to someone for a help if you need, and then make your call. It is best to have friends like a two three friends and I'm talking from my own
(16:31) experience my childhood friends in year 12 year 13 or university we are still very good friends because we all were at the same level but when you're out there the story shifts people develop needs people learn to manipulate. people learn how to use. Please save yourself from these psychic attacks and find a mentor or a guide.
(17:06) It's important to have a life coach or a mentor or a master, a guru in your life to seek the guidance going forward. I wish you all the best. Lot of love and blessings from my heart. [music] God bless you. Har Mahadev. [music] [music]