షాకింగ్ నిజం: జాలి, దయ, నిన్నెలా నాశనం చేస్తాయో తెలుసా? | NIETZSCHE | Anukula Vedam | Telugu Podcast

షాకింగ్ నిజం: జాలి, దయ, నిన్నెలా నాశనం చేస్తాయో తెలుసా? | NIETZSCHE | Anukula Vedam | Telugu Podcast

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[00:00:00] Respect is not only about receiving compliments and honors from others

[00:00:05] but more important is self-respect i.e. self-respect but

[00:00:11] many

[00:00:15] people

[00:00:20] look to gain respect in this short-cut way

[00:00:25] to please others or scare them or play with their emotions

[00:00:30] .

[00:00:35] He says that true respect cannot be resisted,

[00:00:40] it cannot be taken

[00:00:44] by force,

[00:00:49] it cannot be earned by pretending. These days, for the sake of instant recognition, for followers, honesty is valued

[00:00:54] aside

[00:00:59] from

[00:01:05] the original personality. Even if it is shown on purpose, many times it keeps the other person as weak and they

[00:01:11] do not stand on their own feet and makes them remain dependent.

[00:01:16] This is a dangerous circle which slowly destroys

[00:01:21] the power of growth in a person's self-

[00:01:25] esteem. Vaikari especially

[00:01:30] seems to be affected

[00:01:34] by the way society looks at the poor and those who are in trouble.

[00:01:39] Instead of encouraging

[00:01:44] them to overcome their problems and become heroes, instead of encouraging them to recognize their

[00:01:50] own strength and grow

[00:01:54] into heroes , they are in danger of remaining in that state of dependence by

[00:02:00] showing pity and charity.

[00:02:05] Don't ask if you ask like a good person. I think your intention

[00:02:09] may be good, but behind it, you know what is the indirect message he is getting through you.

[00:02:14] If I don't stand by you, you will not be able to overcome this difficulty alone.

[00:02:18] This not only hurts that person's self-confidence

[00:02:24] , but also prevents him from

[00:02:27] developing the mental strength needed to face

[00:02:33] such difficulties in the future. Here Neeche

[00:02:37] criticizes compassion and pity, not to oppose the humanity of human beings and goodness,

[00:02:42] but by promoting pity and humility as those great qualities,

[00:02:47] it

[00:02:52] is a social control mechanism that is cleverly used by

[00:02:57] many people in the society to make a

[00:03:02] person remain a weak person forever

[00:03:07] . Neesha didn't say don't do it, all he said is that our

[00:03:11] help should be to empower others but

[00:03:17] not to make them weaker and more dependent

[00:03:22] that true compassion means to inspire others

[00:03:26] to take their lives in their own hands to become strong to stand

[00:03:31] on their own feet.There

[00:03:35] is a saying in Telugu. It is also used as a tool to

[00:03:41] manipulate and use them to control.

[00:03:46] Some want to over -project their hardships

[00:03:50] and gain the pity of others and thus

[00:03:54] try to keep them under their control in order to do things from them. This is

[00:03:58] like emotional blackmail. Real strength means

[00:04:03] facing life directly and honestly without using such emotional tricks that

[00:04:07] reduce the freedom of others. We have to stop and think honestly about what our intention is.

[00:04:12] Are we really doing good for them? Are we helping them to grow or

[00:04:17] are we

[00:04:21] doing it

[00:04:25] to satisfy our ego to make us feel good in front

[00:04:30] of others

[00:04:34] ? Are you doing this selflessly with good intentions?

[00:04:38] The question may trouble us but to get out of this vicious cycle of dependence,

[00:04:44] it is necessary to ask ourselves this. Now let's come to the real point.

[00:04:48] There is one most important and powerful among the evil thoughts. That is Amor Fati,

[00:04:53] which means fully accepting

[00:04:58] life with its hardships, pleasures, good and bad, success and failure, light and shadows,

[00:05:03] contradictions. Okera boy, this is my life

[00:05:06] , I will live it fully. It should be accepted because many

[00:05:12] philosophers, religious leaders,

[00:05:16] even big men around us who give free advice say that this whole life is an illusion, this is an ocean of sorrow,

[00:05:22] the ultimate goal of our life is to get rid of it, but somehow, life in despair

[00:05:28] gives us the feeling that we are living as if we have lost something, but because of you, it

[00:05:32] is completely against this. Life is in one.

[00:05:38] No matter how many obstacles or difficulties it brings in front of me, I surrender to them

[00:05:42] and accept challenges without surrendering that this is my life.

[00:05:46] This attitude is very important not only for personal growth but also for building a strong and resilient society.

[00:05:51] When we unabashedly admit that we have some good qualities and bad qualities,

[00:05:56] some abilities have limitations,

[00:06:00] the feeling of weakness is weak, admitting that we are weak and

[00:06:05] honest without masks. For example, Nelson Mandela,

[00:06:09] who was imprisoned unjustly for almost three decades, he did not get angry with hatred, he

[00:06:15] accepted the injustice done to him as

[00:06:20] a part of his life , got strength from it and proved himself, but also

[00:06:25] grew into a great leader who fought to achieve

[00:06:31] the dignity of his people and freedom

[00:06:37] . It is not formed. Every human being has some uniqueness. First

[00:06:42] you have to recognize it and respect it. Until you have respect for yourself, you don't even know what that uniqueness is hidden in you.

[00:06:48] For example, suppose

[00:06:52] there is a specific topic

[00:06:57] about it. Makes

[00:07:02] one respect.

[00:07:07] See you again in the next podcast with another interesting analysis.