Author Name:Life Of BeerBiceps
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## **తాంత్రికంలో లైంగికతనుఆధ్యాత్మిక వృద్ధికి ఎలా ఉపయోగిస్తారు - ముఖ్యాంశాలు (Telugu Takeaways)**
### 🎯 **ప్రధాన బోధనలు:**
1. **తాంత్రిక లైంగికత అర్థం తప్పుడు** - చాలామంది తాంత్రిక లైంగికతను లైంగిక జీవితాన్ని మెరుగుపర్చడానికి మాత్రమే చూస్తారు, కానీ అది దేవతా ఆరాధన కోసం మాత్రమే
2. **వామాచార తాంత్రికం (ఎడమ చేతి మార్గం)** - ఇది చాలా ఉన్నత స్థాయి, ఇక్కడ మాంసం, మద్యం, చేపలు, ముద్ర, లైంగికత అనే **పంచ మకారాలు** (5 M's) ఉపయోగిస్తారు
3. **అసలు ఉద్దేశ్యం స్పష్టంగా ఉండాలి** - తాంత్రికంలో అన్ని ప్రక్రియల ఉద్దేశ్యం **దేవత ఆరాధన**, ఆధునికం కాదు, මහිంద్ర కాదు, సూపర్మ్యాన్ కాదు
4. **లైంగికతను దేవతకు అర్పించడం** - లైంగికతను కూడా దేవతకు అర్పించవచ్చు, కానీ దీనికి **ప్రత్యేక ప్రక్రియ** అవసరం, సాధారణ లైంగికత కాదు
5. **మంత్ర ఉపాసన తప్పనిసరి** - లక్షల మంత్రాలు జపించాలి (1 లక్ష = 1,00,000), కొన్ని గ్రంథాలు 5-10-15-20 లక్షలు అంటాయి, **గురువు నుండి చట్టబద్ధమైన తాంత్రిక ప్రారంభం** ద్వారా మాత్రమే
6. **తాంత్రికం సన్యాసుల మార్గం కాదు** - ప్రారంభంలో తాంత్రికం సన్యాసుల మార్గం కాదు, ఆపై సన్యాస సెక్ట్లు దానిని స్వీకరించాయి, వాటి కోడ్కు వ్యతిరేకం కాని భాగాలను మాత్రమే తీసుకున్నాయి
7. **దక్షిణాచార (కుడి చేతి మార్గం)** - సన్యాసులు కుడి చేతి మార్గం (దక్షిణాచార) ను స్వీకరించారు, ఇది కూడా తాంత్రికమే
8. **తాంత్రిక ప్రాథమిక ఉద్దేశ్యం** - మాంసం, మద్యం, లైంగికత వంటి సాధారణ మతంలో పడిపోవడానికి కారణమయ్యే విషయాలను **దైవీకరించడం**, అవి దైవం చేరుకోవడానికి మార్గం అవ్వడం
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### 🔑 **లైంగికత తాంత్రికంలో ఉపయోగించే ప్రాథమిక స్థాయి:**
9. **రెండూ సహచరులు ప్రారంభం తప్పనిసరి** - రెండు భాగస్వాములు కూడా **గురువు ద్వారా తాంత్రిక ప్రారంభం** పొందాలి, ఒకరు మాత్రమే కాదు
10. **అదే గురువు ఆదర్శం** - ఇద్దరూ **ఒకే గురువు** ద్వారా ప్రారంభం పొందాలి, ఇది ఆదర్శం
11. **ఒకే దేవత రూపం** - గురువు ఇద్దరికీ **ఒకే రూపం దేవత** ఇస్తారని నిర్ధారిస్తారు (భార్య-భర్త అయితే)
12. **తాంత్రిక ప్రారంభం తప్పనిసరి** - రెండు భాగస్వాములు **తాంత్రిక ప్రారంభం** పొందాలి, ఇది తప్పనిసరి
13. **మంత్ర సాధన సరిగ్గా చేయాలి** - దేవత మంత్ర జపం సరిగ్గా చేయాలి, ఇది దేవతకు **సేవ** సేవ చేయడం లాంటిది
14. **మంత్రమే దేవత** - తాంత్రిక మార్గంలో ప్రవేశించిన తర్వాత, **మంత్రమే దేవత**, మంత్రం దేవత యొక్క **సూక్ష్మ శరీరం** (subtle body)
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### ⚠️ **ప్రక్రియ వివరాలు:**
15. **ఇది పూజ మాత్రమే** - సాధారణ లైంగికత కాదు, **ప్రత్యేక పూజ** చేయాలి, నెలవారీ పూజలు ఉంటాయి
16. **ముద్రలు, ఆసనాలు** - కొన్ని ముద్రలు, కొన్ని విధానాలు, ప్రత్యేక ఆసనాలు ఉంటాయి
17. **లైంగికత సమయంలో మంత్ర జపం** - లైంగికత సమయంలో **దేవత మంత్రం జపించాలి**
18. **జపం సమయం** - ఇది 1-2 నిమిషాలు కాదు, కొన్ని గ్రంథాలు **30-35 నిమిషాలు** జపం అని చెబుతాయి
19. **ఆర్గాజం నియంత్రణ** - మంత్రం పూర్తి అయ్యే వరకు **ఆర్గాజం ఉండకూడదు**, దీనికి **ప్రత్యేక సాంకేతికతలు** ఉన్నాయి
20. **మంత్ర జపం లేకపోతే ఉపయోగం లేదు** - మంత్ర జపం లేకుండా కేవలం లైంగికత చేస్తే, **తాంత్రిక సాధనకు సంబంధం లేదు**, ఉపయోగం లేదు
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### 🚨 **హెచ్చరికలు:**
21. **పశ్చిమ తాంత్రికం జాగ్రత్త** - ఇన్స్టాగ్రామ్లో "తాంత్రిక హీలర్" అని రాయడం, చాలా మంది **తాంత్రికం లేని** సాంకేతికతలు మాత్రమే అందిస్తారు
22. **ఆధ్యాత్మికకు చెడు పేరు** - ఇది ఆధ్యాత్మికకు **చెడు పేరు** తెస్తుంది
23. **సమాన కాలబర్** - రెండు భాగస్వాములు **సమాన కాలబర్**లో ఉండాలి
24. **చాలా నియమాలు** - ఇందులో **చాలా నియమాలు** ఉంటాయి, కొన్ని **చెప్పలేని** రహస్య అంశాలు ఉంటాయి
25. **పంచమ అర్పణ** - పంచమ అంటే 5వ అర్పణ (లైంగికత), **పంచమ అర్పణ** గురించి కొన్ని నియమాలు ఉంటాయి
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### 🌟 **మహావిద్యలు & భాగస్వామి ఎంపిక:**
26. **10 మహావిద్యలు** - 10 మహావిద్యలు ఉన్నాయి (మహావిద్య = గreat wisdom), తాంత్రిక దేవతల రూపాలు
27. **ప్రతి స్త్రీలో మహావిద్య ప్రభావం** - **ప్రతి స్త్రీలో** ఈ 10 దేవతలలో ఒకరి ప్రభావం ఉంటుంది (అవగాహన ఉందా లేదా సమానం)
28. **స్త్రీలు శక్తి ప్రతినిధులు** - స్త్రీలను **శక్తి** ప్రతినిధులుగా చూస్తారు, పురుషులను **పురుష** (శివ) ప్రతినిధులుగా చూస్తారు
29. **సందర్భంలో తప్పుడు ఉపయోగం చేయకూడదు** - "ప్రతి స్త్రీని కాళ్ల మీద పడాలి" అని అర్థం కాదు, ఇది **నిర్దిష్ట సాధన చేసిన వారికి** మాత్రమే వర్తిస్తుంది
30. **సాధన సరిగ్గా చేయబడితే** - సాధన సరిగ్గా చేయబడితే, **స్త్రీలోని శక్తి లేపనం** అవ్వవచ్చు, అప్పుడు ఆమె **భైరవి/యోగిని** అవుతుంది
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### ⚡ **ప్రయోజనాలు & ప్రమాదాలు:**
31. **మనస్సులోని టాబోలు బ్రేక్** - ఈ ప్రక్రియ సాధారణ మనస్సులోని **టాబోలును బ్రేక్** చేస్తుంది
32. **బ్రహ్మచర్యం ముఖ్యం** - కొన్ని సాధనలలో **బ్రహ్మచర్యం చాలా ముఖ్యం**, లేకపోతే **ఫలితం ఉండదు**
33. **కేంద్రీకరణలో విచ్ఛిన్నం** - బ్రహ్మచర్యం లేకపోతే **కేంద్రీకరణ విచ్ఛిన్నం** అవుతుంది, మంత్రం/దేవతపై 110% ఫోకస్ ఉండాలి
34. **చిత్త నుండి thoughtలు** - లైంగిక సంబంధాల **చిత్రాలు/విషయాల** చిత్త నుండి ઉదయించి, కేంద్రీకరణను విచ్ఛిన్నం చేస్తాయి
35. **సాధన సమయంలో ప్రత్యేక ఆసనం** - స్త్రీని **నిర్దిష్ట ఆసనం**లో కూర్చోబెడతారు, శరీరంలో **మంత్రాలు జపిస్తారు**
36. **భాగస్వామి ఎంపిక జ్ఞానం** - **ఎటువంటి భాగస్వామి సరైనది** అనే జ్ఞానం మంత్ర సాధన ద్వారా **అंतర్దృష్టి** అభివృద్ధి అవుతుంది
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### 🔮 **కర్మ & శక్తి:**
37. **అపరిచిత వ్యక్తులతో లైంగికత ప్రమాదం** - **అపరిచిత వ్యక్తులతో** లైంగిక సంబంధం ఉంటే, వారి **కర్మలను** అంగీకరించినట్లే, వారి **శక్తిని** గ్రహించినట్లే
38. **తాంత్రిక నమ్మకం** - తాంత్రికం నమ్మకం ప్రకారం, అపరిచిత వ్యక్తితో లైంగికత అంటే **వారి కర్మలను నా కర్మగా అంగీకరించడం**
39. **సరిగ్గా చేస్తే చక్రాలు తెరుచుతాయి** - సరిగ్గా చేస్తే, **అన్ని చక్రాలు తక్షణమే తెరుచుతాయి**, ఇది **ప్రమాదకరం** కావచ్చు
40. **మహాభావ సమాధి** - సరిగ్గా చేస్తే, **మహాభావ సమాధి** స్థితి వస్తుంది - **నిరంతర ఆనందం**, **రాప్చర్**, **దేవత దర్శనం**, **మనస్సు పూర్తిగా దేవతపై కేంద్రీకృతం**
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### 💑 **భాగస్వామి సంబంధం:**
41. **శక్తి రెట్టింపు** - సరిగ్గా చేస్తే, **రెండు భాగస్వాముల శక్తి రెట్టింపు** అవుతుంది, **హృదయం దగ్గరగా** అవుతుంది
42. **పూర్వ జీవిత భాగస్వామి** - ఈ ప్రక్రియ **పూర్వ జీవితాల భాగస్వామి**తో మాత్రమే పనిచేస్తుంది, కేవలం కలిసిన వ్యక్తితో కాదు
43. **భార్య-భర్త ఆదర్శం** - ఈ కాలంలో **భార్య-భర్త** మాత్రమే ఆదర్శం, గురువు ఇద్దరినీ ప్రారంభిస్తారు
44. **పాత సంప్రదాయం** - పాత సంప్రదాయంలో **సమాజం విడిచిపెట్టిన** వారు (hermits), **మండలి** గ్రూప్ లో **స్వేచ్ఛగా** నిర్ణయిస్తారు
45. **భైరవ & భైరవి** - పురుషుడిని **భైరవ**, స్త్రీని **భైరవి** అంటారు, వారి **సightly సరిపోలు** గురువు నిర్ధారిస్తారు
46. **నెలలు/సంవత్సరాలు కూడా** - కొందరికి **నెలలు**, కొందరికి **సంవత్సరాలు** సాధన చేయడానికి సమయం పడుతుంది
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### 🌟 **ముఖ్య సారాంశం:**
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(00:00) your friends are scrolling through short content but you my friend you're here to learn welcome to the honest clips now I will let you shed some light on the tantric sex aspect yeah because most people look at tantric sex as a tool to improve their sex life so this is uh this is like uh so where does as we were discussing in the last podcast so this whole concept of conflict sex or sex for that matter comes in at the level of vamachara Tantra where it's as I mentioned there's a level it's called the vamachara which is the left hand
(00:32) path in left-hand path you start offering meat you offer alcohol you offer fish you offer mudra and you offer sex and this is at a very high level of high level after you've done a lot of the lower levels yes so more in fact um it is to say that you to pick out sex out of these five things we call this technical is the Pancha Makara five M's okay so uh to pick out just one aspect out of it and then uh to believe that this is going to improve your sex life Etc is also is equivalent to saying that okay I just take out that meat offering part of
(01:05) it and uh perhaps uh that that's a way to increase protein intake in my body so that would be that ridiculous so the aim that's what I said the aim of the process of the whole process of everything that is done in Tantra is worship of the deity it has to be very clear and firm in your mind so long as something is helping you in worship of the deity and it is within the permitted rules of tantri kupasana we call it the practice it is allowed for you okay but the aim has to be clear that it is for the worship of the deity it is not for
(01:37) pleasure it is not for any other kind of indulgence it is not going to make you Superman or anything of that sort so having said that sex is also one of the things that can be offered to the deities but there is a process to it it is not normal sex and it requires certain amount of preparation of Mantra upasana which means that chanting of mantras of the deity and chanting of Mantra is not just one twice so so Tantra looks at it this way uh you have an ishta date is God you are worshiping the form of the mother that you are
(02:10) worshiping and you may have to chant lacks of mantras of the deity not even one two lakh some texts will tell you 5 10 15 20 lakhs of the Mantra lakh is hundred thousand hundred thousand yeah of the Mantra that you have obtained from the legitimate Guru through a tantric initiation okay now suppose uh so Tantra was never originally a path of the sannyasis though various sannyasi sects later on adopted Tantra because it is very powerful its techniques are powerful it it adopted those parts which did not violate with their sannyasi code
(02:48) which means that they did not take these aspects of them so they took the right hand path which is called the dakshinachara that is also Tantra so tantra's idea fundamental idea was that the things that make you fall in normal religion whether it's meat whether it's alcohol whether it's sex Etc which is the standard ideas that these will make you fall so let us divinize those processes so that they become the means to which you can attain to the Divine okay and in this one of the most legendary tantric charities in fact he
(03:19) is almost is beyond an acharya he's one of the greatest naat yogis he was known as he used to live in kamakhya okay and he uh he was born somewhere in Bengal and his he practiced his and he composed a lot of text on on these aspects of Tantra yogini sadhana and bhairavi sadhana Etc so the fundamental basic idea at what primary level of where sex is used in Tantra is that the partners have to be first of all initiated into the process both both it cannot be one person both so by a guru by a guru definitely by the same Guru it
(04:06) can ideally is the same Guru okay ideally if it's the same Guru in fact the guru not only does initiate but he also ensures if if these are if it's a husband wife partner Etc so they will initiate that it is the same form of the deity that is given to them this is also where we should mention a word of caution because this is where a lot of people might misuse their position of spiritual power yes that's there that's another aspect yes do you want to shed some light on that but first let's complete this thing
(04:34) so Guru initiates both the partners are in any case both the partners must have the tantric initiation okay that is mandatory number two they must be doing their Mantra sadhana properly which is the Mantra japa of the devatha deity that is like doing a Seva to the Seva means a service to the deity and the deity by the way in in once you go higher into Tantra sadhana it is uh the average conception of the deity that we look at is the wiggler of the murti in temples wonderful that is there that's what the public but for you the Mantra
(05:07) is the deity for an individual who is into the tantric path the Mantra that is given to you okay whatever is the Mantra that Mantra is the date it is like the subtle body of the deity as we were talking about subtle body and physical body so the Mantra is the subtle body of the deity astral body astral body sort of that and when you are chanting that Mantra you are trying to connect to the subtle body of the deity now fundamentally what this process entails is that uh when uh both of these Partners it doesn't just happen you know
(05:37) it's it's not like something that you just go ahead and have sex no this is a Puja that has to be done specifically there are monthly that is to be done and then there are certain mudras certain manners in which they have to sit in certain postures Etc um and during the course of having sex they have to keep chanting the Mantra of the deity and that japa is that Mantra Japan is not no it's not a one minute thing it's not a two-minute thing sometimes texts will recommend that you have to chant a mantra which is so long
(06:05) that may take you 30 minutes 35 minutes how do you last for so long till the Mantra is complete there cannot be a release there cannot be an orgasm in order to do that there were techniques that were added so that you can hold back the orgasm both for the specifically for the meal while you are continuing the Mantra japa so the primary aim is if you're not doing the Mantra job and if you're just having sex and practicing those techniques it is useless it has got nothing to do with Tanda sadhana whatever else you are doing that is
(06:34) again another tale of caution this is why tantric healers tantric sexual healers it's all of ours yeah more or less I mean I would not I'm talking about the Western tantric section you keep it in the Instagram bios and all yeah if you're going to one of them just be careful you I don't know why they add Tantra to it because more of them most often there is no Tantra involved in it it's just some some uh you know sexual techniques and all that you can package it in any name this is what gives spirituality a bad name yeah
(07:04) uh but it's fine whatever but uh if it is done correctly both the partners are of that say of that similar caliber so there are more rules in this some of them perhaps cannot even be spoken of without so they have this uh rules are there that these certain certain esoteric aspects of this sometimes it is referred to for example as panchama panchamma means Fifth Fifth means you know that it is talking about the fifth of the five offerings which is sex basically okay so panchamma sometimes when you're talking about the Pancham
(07:33) offering Etc there are many rules of how to judge the partner yes just by observation so when you are worshiping the goddess for example there are thus 10 mahavidyas are there okay leaving us at one of the mahavidyas mahavidya is the goddess great wisdom the the tantric goddesses forms of the Goddess that each represent a different form of wisdom yes okay and and the mahavidya worship is tantric okay so leaving us at one of the mahavidas but the other mahavid there's there is this dictum it's believed and it's not to be
(08:10) mindlessly applied that every woman has some of the other influence of these 10 goddesses Every Woman whether she is aware of it or not is irrelevant why not every man ah that is because women are considered as a representative of Shakti men are considered as representative of the purusha Shiva Shiva purusha purusha is Shiva Krishna can also be a purushottam I was just mentioning yesterday and that's it that's another topic okay skip that for now because it'll divert it into another and that's also beautiful
(08:46) um all of it is beautiful I mean there's no part that is not beautiful so women are considered as a representative of Shakti okay now uh this statement however cannot be Mis used out of context which doesn't mean that every woman that you meet you have to fall at her feet no whether you are getting it all wrong okay this is only relevant to somebody who is doing specific sadhana specific Worship in the tantric method and has reached a certain level okay otherwise in a normal context when you meet whether a man or a woman in the
(09:18) normal rational way that you interact with them you interact with them that's all neither good nor bad doesn't mean a thing now if you are that kind of a person who has had a tantric initiation and is a tantric and has done certain sadness practitioner so is the practitioner correct the practitioner has the right initiations and most importantly it has done the practice properly it's very important there are people I know who have lot of initiations no practice that also will not work it's useless that's like you're hanging 10 medals around you
(09:49) but inside there's nothing so then by looking at the woman you will know that which of the mahavidyas she represents which of the forms of shakti's in latent inside that latent Insider that's one thing latent means that most of them are not even aware and which is perfectly all right just like most men have but that doesn't mean that every man is Lord Shiva or Lord Krishna it doesn't work same way not every woman has anything to do with the deity there is the potential for one if the sadhana is correctly done
(10:18) that potential can awaken if that woman Becomes self-aware of what she holds with it then she becomes one of the bhairavis and yogiris in the higher levels and then everybody will fall at the feet of such a woman that is very rare and it's possible and it happens um there and it's very high level idea but uh in this upasana the other thing is that it breaks certain mental taboos that is there in the normal course of person and the way they got standard we are told that you have to maintain a certain degree of celibacy which is uh which is
(10:53) right which is I'm not denying that in certain practices celibacy is very important otherwise it will not work it will not show you the result um it it causes a break in concentration more or less one of the typical effects of uh you know not having celibacy is that it causes a break in the concentration at the peak moment when you are supposed to have 110 focus on the Mantra and the deity that is where thoughts and images of uh sexual encounters will rise up and it happens from the chitta within it rises up and
(11:21) it rises up and it is going to break your concentration you will not get the result is the core of your soul it's like your mind it's a part of your mind it's it's like that place inside you where Impressions happen all the time subconscious mind conscious mind only but it's latent just below the conscious mind you're meeting somebody you're anything whatever activity you're doing it is it just collects an impression of it okay and randomly throws up just like that when you're not thinking about it suddenly especially specifically if
(11:47) you're not trying to meditate it's going to throw up all sorts of images it happens to everybody okay okay coming back to the topic of conflict sex so basically this practice is done during the time of this sadhana during the time the the woman is actually to be made to sit in a specific posture and monthers have to be chanted all over our body and uh I will not go into the specific details of how this is done and what mantras also everything is is as per it's not something randomly done these are things that are mentioned in
(12:16) text and passed down through traditions of those traditions where these forms are worshiped specific forms of the mother the mahavidas are there for whom this sadhana is extremely potent okay you have to know number one number two uh there is a knowledge of uh what kind of a partner is suitable for this the somebody who has uh through Mantra sadhana there is an intuitive ability that develops just by looking at the person you'll get to know what kind of result is going to happen and this thing by the way extrapolates it outside of
(12:48) the tantric context also the reason why there is a certain amount of control over sex is always advised in the spiritual path because when you have unrestricted sexual encounters with people you do not know what karmas they have done you are going to imbibe their energy that is the easiest way to take in somebody else's energy is that Tantra believes that if you have sex with someone you don't know you're saying I accept this person's karmas as my own not just Tantra any way it will happen is the easiest way on the other hand
(13:15) if this process is correctly done and the right people are there it is the this one this when you are doing it as a practice a spiritual practice not just for enjoyment Etc spiritual practice it has the power to instantly open up all the chakras in your body which could be dangerous no it will be it can lead you then and mind you everything is going perfect I am talking about the uh the result that it finally produces if everything is right it will lead you to a state known as mahabhava samadhi which means that you are in a state of
(13:45) absolute Bliss rapture extended orgasm no it's way beyond that you will have a vision of the deity it will be in a state of samadhi means basically your mind becomes absolutely concentrated on the deity and there'll be a manifestation of the radiance it is a state of it's unbelievable if it's correctly done and the progress that will happen between the two partners together it is it's like it doubles your power probably also get connected to your partner more deeply that is there that's a side effect of it that is also there
(14:17) beforehand which means that this process is anyway not going to work if you have not had the same partner for many lifetimes just like that if you meet karmically somebody it's not going to work out it will just be a relationship and two days later you'll have some fight and reach will go its own way so I'm assuming that the guru who actually initiates both the partners into this uh will ensure that either they are husband and wife or so here is uh in this age today mostly it has ensured that it's a husband and
(14:47) wife but there was an uh there is another tradition older tradition that used to happen and those are there are certain tantric sampathas where so if they've left Society Hermits kind of Hermits yeah maybe basically they've left Society so they're not part of a formal Society they only practice and they're connected to the Mandalay mandelions group that specific group who practice in their uh marriage is not specifically there free out of free will they decide the both the partners decide and the guru decides whether they have the capacity
(15:29) for it okay here is the thing what is the what is the level of the male partner and what is the level of the female partner and the specific terms that are used for the male the term that is used is bhairava and the female that the term that is used is bhairavi okay so whether the bhairava and the bhairavi are matched for this kind of a practice and then they can stay together for some people could be months could be years Etc then they may even go out in the sense that you know Pathways in the sadhana so this was an accepted idea in
(15:56) tantric circles earlier when there used to be more of people who used to leave uh Society normal society and practice entirely in India so if you enjoyed this video make sure you check out this playlist for more videos just like this it's the artist clips [Music] thank you
(00:00) your friends are scrolling through short content but you my friend you're here to learn welcome to the honest clips now I will let you shed some light on the tantric sex aspect yeah because most people look at tantric sex as a tool to improve their sex life so this is uh this is like uh so where does as we were discussing in the last podcast so this whole concept of conflict sex or sex for that matter comes in at the level of vamachara Tantra where it's as I mentioned there's a level it's called the vamachara which is the left hand
(00:32) path in left-hand path you start offering meat you offer alcohol you offer fish you offer mudra and you offer sex and this is at a very high level of high level after you've done a lot of the lower levels yes so more in fact um it is to say that you to pick out sex out of these five things we call this technical is the Pancha Makara five M's okay so uh to pick out just one aspect out of it and then uh to believe that this is going to improve your sex life Etc is also is equivalent to saying that okay I just take out that meat offering part of
(01:05) it and uh perhaps uh that that's a way to increase protein intake in my body so that would be that ridiculous so the aim that's what I said the aim of the process of the whole process of everything that is done in Tantra is worship of the deity it has to be very clear and firm in your mind so long as something is helping you in worship of the deity and it is within the permitted rules of tantri kupasana we call it the practice it is allowed for you okay but the aim has to be clear that it is for the worship of the deity it is not for
(01:37) pleasure it is not for any other kind of indulgence it is not going to make you Superman or anything of that sort so having said that sex is also one of the things that can be offered to the deities but there is a process to it it is not normal sex and it requires certain amount of preparation of Mantra upasana which means that chanting of mantras of the deity and chanting of Mantra is not just one twice so so Tantra looks at it this way uh you have an ishta date is God you are worshiping the form of the mother that you are
(02:10) worshiping and you may have to chant lacks of mantras of the deity not even one two lakh some texts will tell you 5 10 15 20 lakhs of the Mantra lakh is hundred thousand hundred thousand yeah of the Mantra that you have obtained from the legitimate Guru through a tantric initiation okay now suppose uh so Tantra was never originally a path of the sannyasis though various sannyasi sects later on adopted Tantra because it is very powerful its techniques are powerful it it adopted those parts which did not violate with their sannyasi code
(02:48) which means that they did not take these aspects of them so they took the right hand path which is called the dakshinachara that is also Tantra so tantra's idea fundamental idea was that the things that make you fall in normal religion whether it's meat whether it's alcohol whether it's sex Etc which is the standard ideas that these will make you fall so let us divinize those processes so that they become the means to which you can attain to the Divine okay and in this one of the most legendary tantric charities in fact he
(03:19) is almost is beyond an acharya he's one of the greatest naat yogis he was known as he used to live in kamakhya okay and he uh he was born somewhere in Bengal and his he practiced his and he composed a lot of text on on these aspects of Tantra yogini sadhana and bhairavi sadhana Etc so the fundamental basic idea at what primary level of where sex is used in Tantra is that the partners have to be first of all initiated into the process both both it cannot be one person both so by a guru by a guru definitely by the same Guru it
(04:06) can ideally is the same Guru okay ideally if it's the same Guru in fact the guru not only does initiate but he also ensures if if these are if it's a husband wife partner Etc so they will initiate that it is the same form of the deity that is given to them this is also where we should mention a word of caution because this is where a lot of people might misuse their position of spiritual power yes that's there that's another aspect yes do you want to shed some light on that but first let's complete this thing
(04:34) so Guru initiates both the partners are in any case both the partners must have the tantric initiation okay that is mandatory number two they must be doing their Mantra sadhana properly which is the Mantra japa of the devatha deity that is like doing a Seva to the Seva means a service to the deity and the deity by the way in in once you go higher into Tantra sadhana it is uh the average conception of the deity that we look at is the wiggler of the murti in temples wonderful that is there that's what the public but for you the Mantra
(05:07) is the deity for an individual who is into the tantric path the Mantra that is given to you okay whatever is the Mantra that Mantra is the date it is like the subtle body of the deity as we were talking about subtle body and physical body so the Mantra is the subtle body of the deity astral body astral body sort of that and when you are chanting that Mantra you are trying to connect to the subtle body of the deity now fundamentally what this process entails is that uh when uh both of these Partners it doesn't just happen you know
(05:37) it's it's not like something that you just go ahead and have sex no this is a Puja that has to be done specifically there are monthly that is to be done and then there are certain mudras certain manners in which they have to sit in certain postures Etc um and during the course of having sex they have to keep chanting the Mantra of the deity and that japa is that Mantra Japan is not no it's not a one minute thing it's not a two-minute thing sometimes texts will recommend that you have to chant a mantra which is so long
(06:05) that may take you 30 minutes 35 minutes how do you last for so long till the Mantra is complete there cannot be a release there cannot be an orgasm in order to do that there were techniques that were added so that you can hold back the orgasm both for the specifically for the meal while you are continuing the Mantra japa so the primary aim is if you're not doing the Mantra job and if you're just having sex and practicing those techniques it is useless it has got nothing to do with Tanda sadhana whatever else you are doing that is
(06:34) again another tale of caution this is why tantric healers tantric sexual healers it's all of ours yeah more or less I mean I would not I'm talking about the Western tantric section you keep it in the Instagram bios and all yeah if you're going to one of them just be careful you I don't know why they add Tantra to it because more of them most often there is no Tantra involved in it it's just some some uh you know sexual techniques and all that you can package it in any name this is what gives spirituality a bad name yeah
(07:04) uh but it's fine whatever but uh if it is done correctly both the partners are of that say of that similar caliber so there are more rules in this some of them perhaps cannot even be spoken of without so they have this uh rules are there that these certain certain esoteric aspects of this sometimes it is referred to for example as panchama panchamma means Fifth Fifth means you know that it is talking about the fifth of the five offerings which is sex basically okay so panchamma sometimes when you're talking about the Pancham
(07:33) offering Etc there are many rules of how to judge the partner yes just by observation so when you are worshiping the goddess for example there are thus 10 mahavidyas are there okay leaving us at one of the mahavidyas mahavidya is the goddess great wisdom the the tantric goddesses forms of the Goddess that each represent a different form of wisdom yes okay and and the mahavidya worship is tantric okay so leaving us at one of the mahavidas but the other mahavid there's there is this dictum it's believed and it's not to be
(08:10) mindlessly applied that every woman has some of the other influence of these 10 goddesses Every Woman whether she is aware of it or not is irrelevant why not every man ah that is because women are considered as a representative of Shakti men are considered as representative of the purusha Shiva Shiva purusha purusha is Shiva Krishna can also be a purushottam I was just mentioning yesterday and that's it that's another topic okay skip that for now because it'll divert it into another and that's also beautiful
(08:46) um all of it is beautiful I mean there's no part that is not beautiful so women are considered as a representative of Shakti okay now uh this statement however cannot be Mis used out of context which doesn't mean that every woman that you meet you have to fall at her feet no whether you are getting it all wrong okay this is only relevant to somebody who is doing specific sadhana specific Worship in the tantric method and has reached a certain level okay otherwise in a normal context when you meet whether a man or a woman in the
(09:18) normal rational way that you interact with them you interact with them that's all neither good nor bad doesn't mean a thing now if you are that kind of a person who has had a tantric initiation and is a tantric and has done certain sadness practitioner so is the practitioner correct the practitioner has the right initiations and most importantly it has done the practice properly it's very important there are people I know who have lot of initiations no practice that also will not work it's useless that's like you're hanging 10 medals around you
(09:49) but inside there's nothing so then by looking at the woman you will know that which of the mahavidyas she represents which of the forms of shakti's in latent inside that latent Insider that's one thing latent means that most of them are not even aware and which is perfectly all right just like most men have but that doesn't mean that every man is Lord Shiva or Lord Krishna it doesn't work same way not every woman has anything to do with the deity there is the potential for one if the sadhana is correctly done
(10:18) that potential can awaken if that woman Becomes self-aware of what she holds with it then she becomes one of the bhairavis and yogiris in the higher levels and then everybody will fall at the feet of such a woman that is very rare and it's possible and it happens um there and it's very high level idea but uh in this upasana the other thing is that it breaks certain mental taboos that is there in the normal course of person and the way they got standard we are told that you have to maintain a certain degree of celibacy which is uh which is
(10:53) right which is I'm not denying that in certain practices celibacy is very important otherwise it will not work it will not show you the result um it it causes a break in concentration more or less one of the typical effects of uh you know not having celibacy is that it causes a break in the concentration at the peak moment when you are supposed to have 110 focus on the Mantra and the deity that is where thoughts and images of uh sexual encounters will rise up and it happens from the chitta within it rises up and
(11:21) it rises up and it is going to break your concentration you will not get the result is the core of your soul it's like your mind it's a part of your mind it's it's like that place inside you where Impressions happen all the time subconscious mind conscious mind only but it's latent just below the conscious mind you're meeting somebody you're anything whatever activity you're doing it is it just collects an impression of it okay and randomly throws up just like that when you're not thinking about it suddenly especially specifically if
(11:47) you're not trying to meditate it's going to throw up all sorts of images it happens to everybody okay okay coming back to the topic of conflict sex so basically this practice is done during the time of this sadhana during the time the the woman is actually to be made to sit in a specific posture and monthers have to be chanted all over our body and uh I will not go into the specific details of how this is done and what mantras also everything is is as per it's not something randomly done these are things that are mentioned in
(12:16) text and passed down through traditions of those traditions where these forms are worshiped specific forms of the mother the mahavidas are there for whom this sadhana is extremely potent okay you have to know number one number two uh there is a knowledge of uh what kind of a partner is suitable for this the somebody who has uh through Mantra sadhana there is an intuitive ability that develops just by looking at the person you'll get to know what kind of result is going to happen and this thing by the way extrapolates it outside of
(12:48) the tantric context also the reason why there is a certain amount of control over sex is always advised in the spiritual path because when you have unrestricted sexual encounters with people you do not know what karmas they have done you are going to imbibe their energy that is the easiest way to take in somebody else's energy is that Tantra believes that if you have sex with someone you don't know you're saying I accept this person's karmas as my own not just Tantra any way it will happen is the easiest way on the other hand
(13:15) if this process is correctly done and the right people are there it is the this one this when you are doing it as a practice a spiritual practice not just for enjoyment Etc spiritual practice it has the power to instantly open up all the chakras in your body which could be dangerous no it will be it can lead you then and mind you everything is going perfect I am talking about the uh the result that it finally produces if everything is right it will lead you to a state known as mahabhava samadhi which means that you are in a state of
(13:45) absolute Bliss rapture extended orgasm no it's way beyond that you will have a vision of the deity it will be in a state of samadhi means basically your mind becomes absolutely concentrated on the deity and there'll be a manifestation of the radiance it is a state of it's unbelievable if it's correctly done and the progress that will happen between the two partners together it is it's like it doubles your power probably also get connected to your partner more deeply that is there that's a side effect of it that is also there
(14:17) beforehand which means that this process is anyway not going to work if you have not had the same partner for many lifetimes just like that if you meet karmically somebody it's not going to work out it will just be a relationship and two days later you'll have some fight and reach will go its own way so I'm assuming that the guru who actually initiates both the partners into this uh will ensure that either they are husband and wife or so here is uh in this age today mostly it has ensured that it's a husband and
(14:47) wife but there was an uh there is another tradition older tradition that used to happen and those are there are certain tantric sampathas where so if they've left Society Hermits kind of Hermits yeah maybe basically they've left Society so they're not part of a formal Society they only practice and they're connected to the Mandalay mandelions group that specific group who practice in their uh marriage is not specifically there free out of free will they decide the both the partners decide and the guru decides whether they have the capacity
(15:29) for it okay here is the thing what is the what is the level of the male partner and what is the level of the female partner and the specific terms that are used for the male the term that is used is bhairava and the female that the term that is used is bhairavi okay so whether the bhairava and the bhairavi are matched for this kind of a practice and then they can stay together for some people could be months could be years Etc then they may even go out in the sense that you know Pathways in the sadhana so this was an accepted idea in
(15:56) tantric circles earlier when there used to be more of people who used to leave uh Society normal society and practice entirely in India so if you enjoyed this video make sure you check out this playlist for more videos just like this it's the artist clips [Music] thank you
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