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## రిలేషన్షిప్లకు అల్టిమేట్ సీక్రెట్ – Pravrajika Divyanandaprana (తెలుగు టేకావేస్)
### 1. రిలేషన్షిప్ ఎప్పుడు "రైట్", ఎప్పుడు "రాంగ్"?
- **రైట్ రిలేషన్షిప్**: మీ **వైటాలిటీ (జీవశక్తి)**ని పెంచుతుంది, మీకు ఎనర్జీ, శాంతి, స్థిరత్వం ఇస్తుంది.
- **రాంగ్ రిలేషన్షిప్**: మీ ఎనర్జీని డ్రెయిన్ చేస్తుంది, నిరంతరం ఫిర్యాదులు, నెగటివిటీ, అశాంతి ఉంటాయి.
- **కీలకమైన రెండు అంశాలు**:
1. **వైటాలిటీ ఎన్హాన్స్మెంట్** – రిలేషన్షిప్ మిమ్మల్ని మరింత ఎనర్జిటిక్గా, పాజిటివ్గా మార్చాలి.
2. **కమిట్మెంట్ & బౌండరీస్** – స్పష్టమైన నిబద్ధత, గౌరవప్రదమైన హద్దులు ఉండాలి.
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### 2. ఎమోషనల్ ఇమ్మెచ్యూరిటీ (పరిపక్వత లేమి) సంకేతాలు
ఇలాంటి వ్యక్తులతో రిలేషన్షిప్లో ఉండటం ప్రమాదకరం:
- **అశాంతి, ఫిడ్జెటీనెస్** – లోపల శాంతి లేదు, ఎప్పుడూ అస్థిరంగా ఉంటారు.
- **నిరంతరం ఇతరులను బ్లేమ్ చేయడం** – "నా లైఫ్ బాగులేదు ఎవరో వల్ల" అనే ధోరణి.
- **నెగటివ్ టాక్, ఇతరులను దింపేయడం** – ఎవరి గురించి మాట్లాడినా విమర్శలే.
- **చిన్న విజయాలపై అహంకారం** – లోపల శాంతి లేక, బయట ప్రదర్శనతో సరిపెట్టుకోవడం.
- **మీ ఎనర్జీ డ్రెయిన్ అవుతుంది** – వారి సాంగత్యంలో ఉండగానే మీకు అలసట, చిరాకు వస్తుంది.
> **సలహా**: ఇలాంటి వ్యక్తుల నుంచి **సేఫ్ డిస్టెన్స్** పాటించండి. కుటుంబంలో ఉంటే, **సాత్విక ప్రాక్టీసెస్** (ప్రార్థన, భజన, కుటుంబ పూజ) ద్వారా వాతావరణాన్ని మార్చడానికి ప్రయత్నించండి.
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### 3. సాత్విక ఎమోషనల్ లైఫ్ – రిలేషన్షిప్లో ఎలా ఉండాలి?
- **శాంతి, గౌరవం** – ప్రతి మాట, ప్రతి చర్యలో పరస్పర గౌరవం ఉండాలి.
- **హార్ష్ ఎమోషన్స్ లేవు** – కోపం, అసూయ, అనుమానం, పశ్చాత్తాపం వంటివి లేవు.
- **ఎనర్జీ ఎక్స్ఛేంజ్ పాజిటివ్గా ఉంటుంది** – ఇద్దరూ ఒకరికొకరు ఎనర్జీ ఇస్తారు, తీసుకోరు.
- **స్పిరిచువల్ గోల్ ఉంటుంది** – రిలేషన్షిప్ కేవలం భౌతిక/ఎమోషనల్ బాండింగ్ మాత్రమే కాదు, దైవం వైపు తీసుకెళ్లాలి.
> **ముఖ్యమైన మాట**: "గౌరవం లేని రిలేషన్షిప్ ఎప్పుడూ విఫలమవుతుంది."
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### 4. బ్రేకప్ / ట్రామా తర్వాత హీలింగ్ – వేదాంత దృక్పథం
- **వేదాంత మైండ్సెట్లో "ఫ్లాప్ రిలేషన్షిప్" ఉండదు** – ఎందుకంటే వేదాంతం మీకు **క్లారిటీ, మెచ్యూరిటీ** ఇస్తుంది.
- **నెగటివ్ సంఘటనలు జరిగినా**, మీకు వాటిని **భరించే శక్తి** వస్తుంది.
- **ఆధ్యాత్మిక మైండ్ తిరగబెట్టగలదు** – కొన్నిసార్లు ఇతరుల మైండ్సెట్ను కూడా మార్చగల శక్తి వస్తుంది.
- **అసలు రిలేషన్షిప్ దైవంతో** – మానవ రిలేషన్షిప్లు చివరికి **భక్తి, ప్రజ్ఞ** వైపు తీసుకెళ్లాలి.
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### 5. డైనలి రోజువారీ ప్రాక్టీస్ (ఇన్నర్ ఫుల్ఫిల్మెంట్ కోసం)
1. **రోజూ రెండుసార్లు ధ్యానం** (ఉదయం, సాయంత్రం) – మనస్సు స్థిరంగా, ఆనందంగా ఉంటుంది.
2. **భక్తి ప్రాక్టీస్** – పూజ, పారాయణం, భజన, ప్రార్థన.
3. **వైటాలిటీని వృథా చేయకండి** – సిల్లీ ఎమోషన్స్, అతి ఆసక్తులు, ఒబ్సెషన్స్లో ఎనర్జీని కోల్పోవద్దు.
4. **సాత్విక ఆహారం, సాత్విక వాతావరణం** – ఇంటిలో పవిత్రమైన వస్తువులు, ఆచారాలు ఉండాలి.
> **ఫలితం**: మీరు **స్వయంగా ఆనందంగా** ఉంటారు, మరొకరిని ఆనందపెట్టడానికి ప్రయత్నించరు – మీరు ఉండగానే ఇతరులు ఆనందంగా ఉంటారు.
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### 6. వివాహం / కమిట్మెంట్ గురించి తప్పుడు అవగాహనలు
- "నాకు వివాహం నమ్మకం లేదు" అనడం **ఎమోషనల్ ఇమ్మెచ్యూరిటీ** సంకేతం.
- **వివాహం ఉద్దేశం**:
- పరస్పర ఎనర్జీ ఎన్హాన్స్మెంట్
- కమిట్మెంట్ ద్వారా స్థిరత్వం
- ఆధ్యాత్మిక ఎదుగుదలకు వేదిక
- **కమిట్మెంట్ లేని రిలేషన్షిప్** ఎప్పుడూ స్థిరంగా ఉండదు.
> **మతాజి మాట**: "మీ నాన్న ఇలా ఆలోచించి ఉంటే, మీరు పుట్టేవారు కాదు!" – బాధ్యత, కమిట్మెంట్ల ప్రాముఖ్యతను హైలైట్ చేస్తూ.
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### 7. సాంప్రదాయాలు – restrict కాదు, protect!
- **సాంప్రదాయాలుrestrict చేయవు, protect చేస్తాయి** – ఎమోషనల్, స్పిరిచువల్ డెవలప్మెంట్కు అనుకూల వాతావరణం కల్పిస్తాయి.
- **కుటుంబంలో సాత్విక ఆచారాలు** (రామరక్షా స్తోత్రం, ఆర్తి, కుటుంబ ప్రార్థన) – ఎమోషనల్ ఇంటెలిజెన్స్ పెంచుతాయి.
- **పాత తరం వారి నుంచి నేర్చుకోండి** – వారి కమిట్మెంట్, హానెస్టీ, త్యాగం మనకు మార్గదర్శకం.
> **"Old is Gold"** – సాంప్రదాయాలను గౌరవించండి, అవి మీ జీవితాన్ని సులభతరం చేస్తాయి.
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### 8. డ్రెయినింగ్ రిలేషన్షిప్లో ఉంటే ఏం చేయాలి?
- **చాలా గ్రాస్గా, ఎక్స్ప్లాయిటేషన్ ఉంటే** – **టర్మినేట్ చేయడమే మంచిది**.
- **అర్థం చేసుకోండి**: ఎమోషనల్ మెచ్యూరిటీ లేని వ్యక్తితో రిలేషన్షిప్ పనిచేయదు.
- **బుద్ధుడు చెప్పినట్లు**: "మూర్ఖుడితో కలిసి నడవడం కంటే, ఒంటరిగా నడవడమే మంచిది."
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### 9. అల్టిమేట్ గోల్ – ఎమోషన్ను డివోషన్గా మార్చుకోండి
- **రీ ఎమోషన్ (పశు ప్రవృత్తి)** → **డివోషన్ (భక్తి)**గా మార్చుకోవాలి.
- **శక్తి/వైటాలిటీని సబ్లిమేట్ చేసుకోండి** – అప్పుడే నిజమైన ఆనందం, శాంతి లభిస్తాయి.
- **చివరి లక్ష్యం**: దైవంతో నిత్య సంబంధం – ఇదే నిజమైన, శాశ్వతమైన రిలేషన్షిప్.
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## ముగింపు సందేశం
- **మీరు స్వయంగా పూర్తిగా ఆనందంగా, స్థిరంగా ఉంటేనే** నిజమైన రిలేషన్షిప్ సాధ్యం.
- **రిలేషన్షిప్ కేవలం మానవ సంబంధం కాదు** – అది **దైవం వైపు తీసుకెళ్లే సాధనం** కావాలి.
- **సాత్వికత, గౌరవం, కమిట్మెంట్, భక్తి** – ఇవే రిలేషన్షిప్లకు అల్టిమేట్ సీక్రెట్స్.
> **"నమో రక్షతి రక్షితా"** – శక్తిని గౌరవించండి, అది మిమ్మల్ని రక్షిస్తుంది.
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(00:00) One of my IT students did this also. He asked me, "Mataji, I don't believe in marriage." I told him it would have been very nice if your father had thought that way. >> [laughter] >> You should understand what is the purpose of a marriage, what is the purpose of a relationship, and why you should be committed.
(00:20) Rather, I don't believe. What is this? >> What distinguishes a wrong relationship from a right one, and how can someone recognize this before getting too deeply involved in it? >> [music] >> Yeah, see, any thing that enhances your vitality, vital energy, is a good relationship, but it should be a committed one. >> Yes. >> Emotionally immature people are another They They are energy vampires.
(00:45) They will remove your energy. >> More draining. Draining at most. Yes. >> They will talk in such a way and their attitudes and emotions will be such your energy will get lost there. >> Exactly. >> So, better to keep at a safe distance. Happiness is a state of mind. If you maintain mind in a particular way, it will be bubbling with happiness.
(01:04) If you chance to touch awareness in the meditative state, your happiness and psychological stability is 100% guaranteed. You don't now require another person to make you happy. Rather, you will make everyone happy. >> Yes. For those who have experienced these painful breakups or relationship traumas, how does one heal and rebuild themselves using Vedantic principles? And is there any specific practices or what should they even think, you know, to res- res- restore this trust in oneself? >> In the the Vedantic mind, there will never be a
(01:38) wrong relationship because Vedanta gives you the maturity to clearly understand other minds also. So, first of all, this kind of thing will not happen. You see, this is the grace of yoga and Vedanta. This is the grace of God. And suppose some some calamity has happened, something negative has happened, you may have the strength to bear it.
(02:01) >> The whole purpose of our life energy, vital energy, is not just to form good relationships. It is to form the real relationship with God. >> Yes. >> Everything is meant for that. >> So, convert your emotion into devotion. That is the purpose of this psychology. >> So, Mataji, now here's a challenging question that cuts to the core.
(02:28) Okay? If someone cannot handle their own emotions maturely, how can they possibly handle another person's emotion? Most people aren't taught emotion emotional regulation. What are the signs that someone lacks the emotional maturity for a committed relationship? >> Oh, signs are very clear. First of all, you see the person is fidgety, not composed within himself.
(02:53) This lack of calmness shows a very unsteady, untrained mind. Mhm? Usually, a mature person will be calm. >> Yes. >> Calmness is a sign of great maturity. Second thing is this tendency to blame. >> Yes. >> This is not working in my life due to him, due to her, due to this, due to that. It's constant negativity. This is another sign of the person is emotionally immature.
(03:22) He's not able to solve the problems of his own life. What will he do with >> Yes. >> Third thing in uh emotional immaturity, you can say, is not just fickleness, but a tendency to, you know, speak negatively, talk negatively of others, uh make others feel uncomfortable. You don't feel comfortable with such a person.
(03:44) His very energies, his halo is very negative. >> We feel it. We feel it. >> You can feel it. At the The time, the opposite also you can see. You see people who have really good noble thoughts, they have very positive energy. You like being in their presence. Just don't give us better than actually. So these are all signs.
(04:07) Also emotionally immature toxic kind of adult, it's not just about you know complaining about others. Within himself he he doesn't have peace. So what he compensates that state with things being over proud of his small achievements. All these kinds of strange things you will find. Fidgetiness, lack of calmness, constant complaint.
(04:36) And putting others down. So such people you just have to keep away from. >> Yes. >> Because you see until we are well grown in spiritually negative influences can still hamper our progress. Shri Ramakrishna used to say that a sapling requires to be protected. So take care that negative energies of others don't stop you.
(04:59) >> Yes, we have to safeguard ourselves. >> Yeah, yeah. And emotionally immature people another they are energy vampires. They will remove your energy. >> Draining, draining that force. Yes. >> They will talk in such a way and their attitudes and emotions will be such your energy will get lost there. >> Thanks a lot.
(05:15) >> So better to keep at same distance. And the problem comes when such a person is in the family. It's happening. When he's family, he or she it's a real problem. You can't escape also. Then what do you do? That's why you know the way to train minds along these lines emotional intelligence is to introduce satvic objects at home and satvic practices, devotional practices.
(05:44) See like many families they do Ramraksha Stotram. >> Yes. >> They do Aarti and all that together as a family or night reading is together as a family. Prayer at lunch or dinner. Uh the prayer they do together. So, this these kind of activities bond the family more than anything else. And tomorrow, you know, the younger members will be remembering this only, our parents did this.
(06:07) >> Mhm. >> So, they will continue. >> Exactly. Yes. >> So, as they say this, you know, a family that prays together stays together. So, it is important to do these things together. It will build emotional intelligence. At least you won't find utterly emotionally immature people there. >> Right. Right. Right. As Mataji you said, emotionally satvic.
(06:27) So, this is the question on that. The call to make emotion emotions satvic, regulate them, control them, draw their energies for positive purposes. Sounds like, you know, this some serious inner work. So, what does a satvic emotional life actually look like in a relationship context? >> Huh. So, the relationship will be peaceful.
(06:48) The mutual exchange there in terms of energy will be very, very, uh you know, kind. Huh? No harsh emotions, no negativities, no doubt, no regrets, no nothing of that sort. And then a respectful relationship. See, everything depends on respect. Mhm. If that is that element is not there, then it's going to flop.
(07:11) >> Yes. >> Huh? Respect is the basis of every human relationship. So, that should be there and you are respected only when you are respectful, isn't it? >> Yes. >> Which means there's high character development. Then only the relationship works there. If there are deep flaws in the personality, emotional scars, how do you think the relationship will develop? So, before you enter a relationship, take care of these factors.
(07:39) Psychologically stable and balanced, emotionally enriched, >> Yes. >> mature person spiritual inclination all these factors become very important. >> So Mataji, you know, there's an observation that most young people's intelligent gets invested in solving problems created by wrong relationships. What distinguishes a wrong relationship from a right one and how can someone recognize this before getting too deeply involved in it? >> Yeah, see anything that enhances your vitality, vital energy is a good relationship, but it should be a committed one.
(08:14) >> Yes, >> [snorts] >> these two things. >> These two things are the most important things. When you come in the proximity of a satvic person, you will naturally feel an enhancement of pure satvic energy. If we are sensitive, we will catch it. And commit commitment in relationships, whatever the relationship may be, you must go by the rules, by the those commitments.
(08:39) And there are boundaries in every relationship. Respectfully respect those boundaries. If we live like this, you know, then relationships can enhance us. But as I told you in relationship psychology, primarily you should understand this, the whole purpose of our life energy, vital energy is not just to form good relationships.
(09:00) It is to form the real relationship with God. >> Yes. >> Everything is meant for that. Even the normal relationships, human relationships of life, ultimately they should lead us to higher devotion and pragnya. That is their purpose. So then you must see that that relationship transforms into this. Otherwise only where after all how far can you go? >> Hm.
(09:26) >> In a relationship also, tell me. And what will be the final outcome of it? >> If it is not leading us towards them then >> What is the point? What is the point? >> Because the structure was actually made for this purpose only. Either the people who can directly renounce, you know, these bogas, they can directly head.
(09:44) And the ones who >> Who cannot, they require to go through. >> Go through, but the the end goal is them only. >> Exactly. Exactly. For the householder also, they should be very clear. You know, in in Ramakrishna Vivekananda literature, you find it completely. He has described the ideal householder, how his life will be.
(10:02) What his vision is, what his goal is. It's a spiritual goal always. That will inspire the highest relationships. But if there's no spirituality, I'll tell you if it's some kind of emotional bonding or even more virtual than that, physical bonding, it will flop. >> Nice. >> Because whatever is unsubstantial, temporary, and material will not last.
(10:24) This is a basic law, isn't it? >> And Mataji, the next thing is that traditional Indian culture had specific safeguards which we discussed about relationships that seem restrictive to modern eyes. Uh were these restrictions actually protective mechanisms for emotional and spiritual development? And how do we adapt this wisdom today without regressing into orthodoxy, which the modern generation, you know, thinks about it that is orthodoxy nature.
(10:51) >> Uh well, that is their interpretation, but what this orthodoxy did for us was it created the place, the atmosphere for great spiritual evolution. Right in the family. See, I I myself have seen this. Uh my grandmother was like a saint. And what an influence she was on the on the family. >> Yes. >> Uh just her presence.
(11:18) Everybody knew that most respectful character she is. In every respect, even to look at, she was like that. >> It would be light, you know, light. >> Yeah. Really. So, it be it it becomes a super satvic family if such a person is there. So, now what are the practices she did? She was very devoted by nature, religious practices she followed, and absolutely honest and hard working, truthful, everything was there in her.
(11:46) So, what I'm saying is what we are considering orthodoxy or old age habits, old habits, many of them in in them lay the foundation of great life. >> Yes. >> We should as a the younger generation should be able to see that tradition means a lot of culture concentrated over periods of time, and now it is coming to you in a doable format.
(12:11) >> Exactly. >> That is a tradition. So, traditions have to be preserved that is why. It makes your life easy. >> Exactly. >> It makes spiritual conditioning easy for you. So, respect it. Every tradition, respect it. And what the older generations have to offer us is something tremendous. Old is really gold. >> Yes.
(12:32) >> So, if we can bring it bring this into our lives, I think we will get real direction. And this ennobling of our emotions, that is the most important thing. It this raw animalistic emotion, unless it is transformed, the the vital energy is raised to a particular plane, devotion is brought into the relationship, it will not work towards our spiritual progress.
(12:56) This is something we should learn from them. How committed those relationships were. >> us >> How absolutely committed they were as people, how honest, straightforward they were when it came to came to all this. And for the family, they would give their life. That's the India is sociologically unique because of the this great womanhood of India, you know? They would give their life for their family, and they considered that their highest duty.
(13:23) So, this is a very important element. This is the way life is preserved on earth and this we have to learn. Life is a as Swamiji used to say, eternal endless sacrifice towards higher goals. Satvic joy will come into your life, not this tamasic joys. If we learn to live like this. So, commit yourself to these values and hold on to these traditions.
(13:49) I would say that. >> Yes. Now, Mataji we have some sadhana based questions. Okay. So, first thing is that for someone currently in a relationship that's draining rather than nourishing, where both people are essentially beggars trying to extract from each other. What's the path forward? First thing, second, should they leave or can the relationship be transformed? >> See, if it is so gross, the entire thing, best is to terminate it.
(14:15) You terminate it through understanding. Understanding that this will not work because there is not even an exchange. There is a complete You just want to take from the other person. If it's not going to work. Without emotional maturity, there can be no relationship. Fundamentally, we should understand this.
(14:35) And without emotional intelligence, you will not convert that that relationship into something which will augment your spiritual revolution. So, unless these are developed, don't get into it. There is nothing No greater blessing than the pure life. The Buddha once said, "Better to walk alone than walk with a fool." >> [laughter] >> So, if you feel the it's so bad and gross the relationship, terminate it.
(15:01) >> Yes. Mataji, now next thing is that building that inner state where we overflow with confidence, bliss, and joy seems essential before we can truly share with another. Can you outline a concrete daily practice, you know, like which involves yoga or meditation or reflection that systematically builds this inner fulfillment over time? >> Yes.
(15:22) See, a meditative practice every day morning and evening, will bring this overflow into your life. Now, you're happy by yourself because I told you happiness is a state of mind. If you maintain mind in a particular way, it will be bubbling with happiness. If you chance to touch awareness in the meditative state, your happiness and psychological stability is 100% guaranteed.
(15:44) You don't now require another person to make you happy. Rather, you will make everyone happy. >> Yes. >> Now, you a real relationship can be established. This maturity is required. >> Mhm. >> So, the meditation is the key to everything valuable in life. First is a meditative habit. Second thing is devotional to these person.
(16:04) See, devotion is such a magical thing. Once it comes into your life, everything in your life will change automatically. You may call it the grace of God, but you know, your own mind has now pulled the real positive forces into your life. And that is, of course, that ultimately it's all the grace of God.
(16:25) Devotion, a devotional life is the most intelligent way of living. So, see how you can cultivate devotion. Uh the these are the primary things in life. Because, you know, education and a great career, all that will automatically come. A well-developed body-mind complex, it will naturally all this will come. >> Yes. >> But, these are rare things.
(16:45) A real spiritual development, high awareness, devotion to God. See if you can bring this into your life. >> Yes. >> So, daily practice and practice of devotion, uh and maintain your vitality in such a way the best comes to you. >> Yes. >> Mhm. Don't waste it on silly emotion and all these emotional obsessions and psychological perversities.
(17:10) Don't waste it on all that. It is if you kill life, you know, when you kill vital energy, you kill your life. >> Yes. >> Yes. And then Shakti turns against you. >> Mhm. >> You know, this is the the loss of grace. Then divine mother will turn against us if we mess up with energy which is she. >> Not within the system. >> Ah, Shakta psychology actually gives you this how the divine mother Shakti, Mahashakti, how she does she dwell in all of us as our vital energy? >> Yes.
(17:41) >> If I continuously mess up with it, she will turn against me. If I work on it, I enhance it, I make it blossom fully, she's working for me. >> Yes. Yes. Yes. >> Yes. >> Namo Rakshati Raksha >> Rakshita. Yes. >> And Mataji, the last thing is for those who have experienced these painful breakups or relationship traumas, how does one heal and rebuild themselves using Vedantic principles? And is there any specific practices or what should they even think, you know, to res- res- restore this trust in oneself? Because
(18:14) people lose this trust first of all and in the possibility of sacred relationships, that nothing at all can work out in these terms for that person. >> In the Vedantic mind, there will never be a flop relationship. Because Vedanta gives you the maturity to clearly understand another mind also. So, first of all, this kind of thing will not happen.
(18:41) You see, this is the grace of yoga and Vedant. This is the grace of God. Most of all, what Vedanta does is clear understanding, clarity of mind, clarity of intelligence. So, you'll make the right choices in your life. >> Yes. >> And suppose some some calamity has happened, something negative has happened, you will have the strength to bear it.
(19:05) You'll have the strength to bear it. It's there in the Bhagavad Gita that the awakened mind does not suffer. Not just that much, now it has so much power it can turn things around. It can change the mind of the wrongdoer. Even if it's in a relationship of a kind, it can [clears throat] it can turn the mind around for better.
(19:29) It gets that power. The spiritual mind has that power. >> Yes. >> But most of all, you know, a real Vedantic mind does not even want to get into a so-called relationship for the simple reason, see, the relationship was meant to enhance your vital energy. You are already with enhanced vital energy.
(19:47) Why would you require a relationship? Rather, you would want relationship with God. >> Yes. >> So usually, that's why this is what happens. After a certain level of your evolution, all these things are you know, your energies have been sublimated to something very high. Now, you don't want to again bring them down here. You should remember this, the spiritual life is the life of sublimated vitality, sublimated vital energy.
(20:16) No more are your image emotions uh wanting to mess up anywhere. You have simply transcended that level. It is not about suppression or repression. You know, sometimes young people, these IITs, they once asked me, uh This is what I told them, see, once you have worked on your energies and sublimated them to a certain level, you have such a grand vision of devotion and knowledge, you simply will not look into that.
(20:48) That's something very small. But if you haven't found that, then at least find a stable relationship. Don't say such things as, "Well, I don't believe in uh marriage." See, this is the current trend, no? Many One of my IT students did this also. He asked me, "Mataji, I don't believe in marriage." I told him it would have been very nice if your father had thought that way.
(21:13) >> [laughter] >> You should understand what is the purpose of a marriage, what is the purpose of a relationship, and why you should be committed. Rather, I don't believe. What is this? So, emotionally mature means you understand things correctly. >> Yes. >> And the the whole purpose of relationship psychology is finally to help you transcend this level and move towards the real eternal relationship, which alone will matter.
(21:40) >> Yes. >> You know, at the end. >> Yes. >> So, to convert raw emotion into devotion, that is the purpose of this psychology. >> Exactly. So, I mean, thank you so much, Mataji, and it was wonderful speaking with you. Pranam. Jai Mataji. Jai Mataji.
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