Dating, Loneliness & The Real Reason Gen Z Is Broken | Yogi Aikam Aikoham Nath Ji

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(00:00) HEY, doesn't work like that. Don't. >> Today we are going to talk about Gen Z. What are the problem that the Jenzi is facing? >> So, Zenzi out there is already disconnected. That is a time when 16, 17, 18 year is a so much crucial time. The human being at that age is realizing the sense of selfworth and emotional connection and the heart is developing at that time.
(00:34) If you are saying get out of my house that the heart gets a real trauma that person you don't expect that person to be full of love because they themselves have been deprived of love by their own parents. This is the first generation which is actually asking the question. I'm not running after the money.
(00:56) I want to know why do I have to do it? Quick money? Yes. Quick sex? Yes. Night out? Yes. Don't want to take responsibility? Yes. I'm not responsible for your peace of mind. All of that. They don't want to take responsibility of that because here, how can they take responsibility of someone else when they do not know who they are? Your one video got very viral. It was about body count.
(01:20) So what's your take on that? Because today's generation so many like men and women both take so much pride in telling about their body counts. To what level they it it's affecting their souls. >> Someone is 10 body counts. Just carrying the sanscaras of 10 ancestral 20 ancestral lines. It screws the mind.
(01:37) It stops your growth spiritual growth divine or devil. So body count culture there is nothing to be proud of. If you are a sanati there is nothing to be proud of. When we talk about the body culture that's done in the animal instinct only there is sadistic way of having that there is nothing human in it.
(01:58) So the same person you are having stand the same person you want to murder as well. It gives rise to violence inside you because the very seed of that one night stand is a self violence as well. You have violated your own ethics. the 14 16 17 year he's sexually active he's focusing on his sexual organs in the early 20s he wants to focus on the career how many times masturbation is valid or Google can I do masturbation and somebody babai can I do HUST doesn't work like that don't >> thank you so much Guruji for being here for the fourth time I think fourth
(02:42) conversation but it's always an honor to have you. How are you today after so long? >> Fantastic. Thank you Priyanka for having me one more time. >> Yes, it's going to be more than that also. >> Absolutely. >> Today we are going to talk about Jenzi. What are the problem that the Jenzi is facing because even I as a millennial I'm consumed by my own issues to know that what is happening in their lives but you are more aware.
(03:08) I want to know from you. >> Yes. Um if we talk about these different classifications so the the current one is Zenzi and and before this millennials and I don't know who we are and what our parents were baby boomers probably I don't know uh every generation um does have different type of issues let's talk about if I talk about my parents right they were born when India just got the freedom and they have seen a lot of struggle uh because India was a very young country trying to find its place back in the >> real world. So their struggle was mainly
(03:54) about um food and shelter basically securing huh >> survival issues and securing uh tomorrow right but when my generation came the basic uh food uh the survival issues were taken care by our parents. Our main issues were making the career so study hard right so qualifications and securing our futures by securing the jobs that was the main issues uh with my generations >> it was coming from the past experiences of survival >> absolutely so all of this is um transferred through the generations but
(04:38) as well as the socioeconomic structure of the society and the country changes is um when your generations comes millennia now the food is taken care the main issues are taken care then comes the self-worth issues that what am I looking in my life >> right so your basic needs are met and that is a time when new cell phones came and all that um so now you're trying to find the balance and the growth at the same time when we talk about the genz now these are the people who have not they cannot imagine In the life without
(05:15) internet, without gadgets, right? Uh they can't imagine. So for them every basic need has been taken care even the the money part or you know they their parents have earned the food is taken care the shelter is taken care everything else is taken care. So now comes the zenz when the AI is also making advance multiffolds in our society.
(05:44) Right? AI is what? Artificial intelligence. And here human is trying to compete with artificial intelligence. And that AI is designed with the appropriate formulas. So all the structure, all the memory is absolutely there and human is trying to compete with that. The only difference is the AI is trying to replicate the human emotional behavior.
(06:08) >> So true. So, Zenzi is trying to find its way in this chaotic fastch changing world that uh am I here to earn money or am I here to do what? Because machines are taking care of everything. And for in order to make machines more intelligent, the Zenzi has to work day and night. The world has gone so small.
(06:40) It has shrunk with the um the social media. Technology has advanced so much that the world is so small. I mean you can have a breakfast here and a dinner somewhere in the other continent now. Whereas in the old times our parents' time if you want to go 20 kilometers somebody's either doing horsekart or the cycle.
(07:00) So maybe they will reach their 3 four hours time. Here you can cross the whole continent in four hours time. You can talk to someone in US right here. So, Zenzi is actually confused that where do they actually belong? So, one main problem Zenzi is facing right now is where do I belong? What is my place? Do I belong to my family or is my family an office family? Do I belong to India or US or Canada or do I belong to the whole of the earth? So sense of belongingness is very confused in Zenzi for that they are trying to work
(07:40) overnight on a let's say call centers or or any offices who is dealing in US when the night is happening and India is daytime and Japan is going through other times um and all that is impacting their biological cycle. So sense of belongingness for me I think uh everyone wants to belong somewhere right like your you want your partner to belong to you you want to belong to your partner your parents belong to you belong to your parents zenza it's different case here >> relationship genz generation >> depending on what we are talking about
(08:18) if parents are already emotionally drained they are going to raise the same type of human being. If the parents are emotionally disconnected from each other and they are disconnected from their own heart, how do you expect another human being to be an empath and feel the pain? They haven't seen it.
(08:43) I mean India is still better. That is the way of sanatan because there's a lot of emotional involvement. But when we talk about the western countries, right? you turn 14 um you are allowed to leave your house. Okay. And uh I have seen my own students there who whose kids are 16 years and and they said that if you want to stay in my house you have to pay the rent.
(09:05) >> Yeah. It happens. I even I watch so many videos like when they are 15 16 they get pregnant as well. Absolutely. And look what what is happening to the to them and to the kids as well. >> Exactly. So there is no emotional connection because parents themselves are saying okay we have done what we have now we have our own life to live so you get the hell out of here or prove your worth.
(09:29) So Zenzi out there is already disconnected. That is a time when 16, 17, 18 year is a so much crucial time when the human being at that age is realizing the sense of selfworth and emotional connection and the heart is developing. At that time if you are saying get out of my house that the heart gets a real trauma that person you don't expect that person to be full of love because they themselves have been deprived of love by their own parents. God.
(10:04) So true, >> right? And those people then they become emotionally frozen from inside and on top of that they have to look after themselves. They have to prove their worth and and the information is bombarded from so many um corners, right, left, center the Zen is going who am I? Where do I belong? What do I do? And then you're competing with the machines.
(10:33) So stress levels increase for Zenz's. They are smart as well. This is the first generation which is actually asking the question I'm not running after the money. I want to know why do I have to do it which is a good sign. It's a sign where the spiritual birth is coming very naturally to Zenzi as well at a very young age. >> They they have started asking questions about life.
(11:00) I did one um podcast with this Zenzi guy. He was 21 years. The way he asked questions. Oh my god. Very smart. This generation is very smart but utterly confused. They are capable of solving the problems but they do not know what the problem is. They don't know what is it that they are seeking in life. Quick money? Yes. Quick sex? Yes.
(11:24) Night out? Yes. Don't want to take responsibility? Yes, I'm not responsible for your peace of mind. >> All of that. They don't want to take responsibility of that because here, how can they take responsibility of someone else when they do not know who they are? And this is not a problem of Zenzi. This is a problem of whole generations, my generations, my parental generations, my grandfathers, everyone is trying to do the best to fit in that moment of time.
(11:54) So if our community and if our country is going through some transformation definitely our population will be feeling that heat. So sense of belong belongingness not only to zenzes it's for all generations. I think that is a very uh big issues. Secondly the stress levels have increased anxiety levels societal rate has been increased.
(12:17) Povertness has increased. Addiction has increased. All of this shows that there is no purpose. There's a lack of purpose, there's no clarity, there's lot of brain fog. The Zenzi is facing all that. >> So what is the solution of it? >> Well, the solution is first you have to identify what is the problem. You cannot find a solution until you identify the problem.
(12:39) You state the problem very well. Somebody has to agree that that yes, I have a problem. But you can't fix something that is not broken. If person is says no, I am perfectly all right. What are you going to do? When we try to find out the solutions, one main aspect of finding a solution is be ruthlessly honest with the self.
(12:58) Our children are confused. Our children are smart. So it becomes the responsibility of parents to guide them properly. That is why the conscious parenting its role is so important in society nowadays. Being a parents is not a right. It's a privilege. It's a responsibility. So if parents do not take responsibility of their children, they cannot expect children to take responsibility of themselves.
(13:26) Any problem will be solved if and when we identify what is the problem, what effect it is uh causing to the self, self harm, um the harm to our society, harm to our country, all of that. Priyanka G it's not an easy solution but it is also not a very difficult one let's identify the problem first somebody wants to be a NASA scientist right so obviously they got to study that way only >> somebody wants to be a poet or let's say car painter they will study on that so every zenzi every human being first have to identify what do they want in life
(14:08) people want money okay you then you run after money. People want to have uh I want to find love of my life. I want to have a good job. These are all individual targets. But at the end of the day, the question comes what is the purpose that once you achieve it, you will be forever peaceful and happy and joyful with him.
(14:32) And it's not just the problem of Zenz, it's everyone's problem. That is how this spirituality is not just uh about uh monks or a long bearded uh saints anymore. >> It should be a way of life. >> It is a way of life. It doesn't have to be a spiritual person. Uh a zenzi can't be a spiritual. Zenz are so smart. But somewhere the logic mind works very fast.
(15:00) This is how you absorb all the information from social media. So emotional side is very recessive and if when the emotional side tries to come out then they lose the mind. People become emotionally volatile start screaming the panic attacks happen anxiety all this is the imbalance of emotional side. Right. So how do we create the balance between both logic and um your emotions >> when we want to create the balance again um Priyanka G it is a individual choice if the person a and for all the viewers you want to create and and not just you everyone wants to create the balance in
(15:42) life right balance what is balance balance means the material life and a spiritual life logical life and a emotional life. So balance of hot and cold. >> So you become comfortable >> that is what balance we are looking and that is where the sanatan is so beautiful so beautiful because all these questions have been answered thousands of years ago.
(16:13) This is the whole machine of selfbalancing, self-alignment is within us and that machine uh is your mind and the vehicle is your breath. So if you are cut off from your breath, it's a straight sign that you are cut off from your own emotional self and the mind is controlling your life. Right now everything is run by mind only here.
(16:41) So your your peace of mind we call peace of mind. A peaceful mind is a illuminated soul and mind is such that it is never peaceful. And when we use the term I'll give you a peace of mind. Do we actually use this term to give real peace of mind? We use it in a different way. I'll tell you who I am. I'll give you a peace of mind. The life of a mind is in the moment only.
(17:03) The day your mind becomes peaceful. You are a illuminated soul. And to achieve that one must go within and ask the questions who am I? What do I want? And make the targets very clear. Just say okay um if you want to earn money there is nothing wrong. You should earn say I want to earn money and I want to earn it badly.
(17:26) Then go for it. Sometime people try to demean you by saying that if you are spiritual you cannot have you why why do you have the desires to have money and uh everything that is around materialistically. >> Uh in that case the Krishna should not be ruling duarahana and he should not wearing mkat and all the jewelry.
(17:43) In fact all our gods are they full of gold. Huh? >> Gold gold shows the sign of purity. Now this is a very very um it's a it's a misconception of our society that if you are a spiritual person you should not uh ask for the money. Why not? Uh a spiritual person is a normal citizen of the country and >> even you'll be able to enjoy the money more.
(18:08) >> Absolutely. Now some people will say Guru G why are you wearing tie and why why wouldn't I? In fact, I have not taken any pledge that okay, I am this and that and I will not shampoo my hair and I will not do anything. Spirituality actually enables you to take risk in life. Actually people who say now you are being spiritual you should not ask for money.
(18:34) >> Okay. >> They themselves are having poverty consciousness. >> Okay. because they are scared of asking. They want to portray that on you. Oh, you are a spiritual person. You cannot have you cannot apply perfumes on you. You can't have branded clothes into your mind. >> Um in fact, spiritual people will take they will really enjoy.
(19:01) They they know how to enjoy the life. They don't carry the past on their shoulders and they are completely 100% present. If you want to enjoy the life right now, we enjoy the life. M and spiritual people they pay their bills they pay their taxes they there is actually they are more normal uh than the normal human being because they are not scared they're not scared of judgments.
(19:29) So when we talk about the balancing in life, the balance of day and night, the balance of material and logical life, absolutely you got to have success in both of them. H if you're too logical, if you're too material person, obviously you don't have connection with your soul. The heart heart remains closed. But if you are more connected to your heart and and completely immersed in my bacti mar and then who's going to pay your bills? Krishna is the deity that when you go in his temples you clap and you laugh because Krishna denotes life. The
(20:06) festival of holi >> festival of Diwali. >> H these are all narans festivals. Diwali represents the lights. Holy represents the color of life. Whereas Shiva is sitting in that field. He has nothing to do with it because okay I'm done with the life. You come and I'll kill you. Rdra Brahma G is only busy in creation.
(20:30) Blehaba is creation busy in making everything past. So where is the present moment? Where is the life? It is with the Narayan. It is with the Krishna. So he will play the flute. He will dance around. He will celebrate the colors of holi. He will celebrate with lights. He will laugh. He will rule the duara.
(20:50) He will be a diplomat. That represents life. So spirituality doesn't mean that you wear tone of clothes and say okay he's a super. No spirituality means you are balanced well inside and you are not shy to express who you are but with love and compassion. Your boundaries are very clear. M >> you don't cross someone's boundary you don't allow people to cross your boundaries and when someone tries to cross the your boundaries you are in your right to slay them off so this is something all we have to learn being my generations your generations
(21:27) coming generations past generations everyone so sanatan brings all that wisdom and that is proven scientifically as if we talk about quantum physics if we talk about metaphysics if we talk about Genetics, if we talk about breeding, if we talk about physics, we talk about chemistry, we talk about ayurvea, everything has come from the sanatan only.
(21:53) Sanatan talks about the breath, it talks about the chemistry of the breath, it talks about the quantum uh of breath, it talks about everything. If the person is breathing that the sanatan is breathing, the religion can be different which you called different p. The very moment you start breathing you are under sanatan. There is no escape for it.
(22:13) Satya shaswat shashwat. One of the main when we were talking about before is one of the main uh issues here is people people need high in their life. You know I I want to be high but it's not possible to stay high 24/7. Even however good meditator you are, even you have millions and billions of dollar, you have you're stinkingly rich person, you can't always keep spending the money.
(22:44) Your mind will get tired. You can't always be in the fancy restaurants or wearing the brands. When you go to the bed, you want to wear your cotton pants and sleep. this requirement or this um craving to be high that forces the people to look for that high in the wrong places. The mind will go pervert.
(23:10) The addictions, these uh drug addictions, alcohol addictions, porn addictions, what does it all show? It all shows the purposelessness in life. It all shows no motivation in life. It all shows that there is no dopamine here. Somebody needs to have happy hormones for that people start looking uh outside to feel happy about to have a sense of selfworth >> which is missing and unfortunately the main place where these can be taught are our schools and it's this part this kind the life science life coaching is missing from our schools and all schools
(23:53) do is train you how to be slave of the system. No one talks about what should you do when you feel pain in your heart, how should you tackle when your heart is broken. They will only teach you um how to earn money, how to be a businessman. No one talks about life. Schools teach external life, how to survive.
(24:16) But the real survival is when your heart is broken, how do you survive? >> No one talks about that continuously. This is a problem of all generations and and Zenzi is not different. You are not different. My generation is not different. Everyone has cried. Everyone feels lost. Everyone is stressed. Everyone is depressed.
(24:38) >> Your one video got very viral. It's it was about body count. >> Hi. >> So what's what's your take on that? Because today's generation so many men and women both take so much pride in telling about their body counts. to what what level they it it's affecting their soul >> uh body count.
(24:57) So it's a I think yeah it's it's a high time our society should talk openly about body counts and and its effect on the self when we are born let's talk very technically and step by step first >> who are we are born when my father's and my mother's energy met together this body took the birth so within me I have some past kmas now I bring the kmas of my ancestors is from my parents side my dad's mother and dad's parental line and mother's parental line all of that is now sitting so I'm the present moment of my ancestral line >> so resolving the past kmas of my
(25:42) ancestral line I hold the responsibility right so this body is mine this space is mine and I am responsible for what happens within me when we come in touch with external energy and we resonate with that we form a psychic bridge. As we form a psychic bridge, the transfer of energy happens.
(26:02) Body count basically most Indians if you haven't heard the term body count. You want to explain what body count is, Priyanka? >> How many people are you slept? Have you slept with? It's about that. >> Yeah. It's it's about how >> casual there are casual hookups that you go >> casual casual sexuality, hookups, hookup culture, hookah culture, hookup culture >> after clubbing.
(26:22) It's like so much relevant in India as well. one night stands and these uh apps >> uh dating apps >> dating apps >> dating apps or we have >> tinders and all that websites and all all of that. >> Uh so the body count culture is how many uh relationship or sexual uh interactions you you have had with anyone.
(26:48) So somebody got involved 10 times. So, so the body count is 10. Basically, how many targets you have hit. Boom, boom, boom. So, that's that's >> boys pride in it. Girls choose to not tell. >> Girls are smart liars. >> Boys just got caught because they are loudmouthed. Girls actually in one of the scientific research, girls usually have higher body counts than boys.
(27:12) They are just smart liars. And girls they lie more frequently and they really know how to hide. There was a >> because they know that they'll be judged but boys will not >> the boys say who cares. No but boys boys do feel that you know this dialogue of Titanic women's heart is an ocean of secrets and damn true it is.
(27:34) So when we talk about the body count it means that with how many people you have um >> had sexual relationship >> sexual relationship how many people you have uh allowed to how many people you have allowed to invite their energy in your body male or female it goes both but because female receives the energy it impacts females more so many of guru guruji so many kings have so many wives and what about that when we talk about the past not every king is an enlightened master.
(28:07) Everyone goes through the same women allows the man's seed inside the body. It impacts women more than men. But men it doesn't mean that men are very clean. Now when you get emotionally involved you make a psychic bridge. During the sexual intercourse there are micro injuries. When those micro injuries are formed during intercourse, the energies are transferred.
(28:34) So for example, if someone uh is having some experience with someone and that ancestral line is carrying lot of traumas. So and you say okay I am resonating with you. I allow you to be inside me. You are also inviting their ancestral lines. So body count culture how it impacts. First of all body count is about the bodies.
(28:58) But when we talk about the energy subconsciously we are inviting all those unknown ancestral lines to live within the body our body. If you are emotionally attached with the person you are also holding responsibility of that ancestral lines. So body count is um is not a very healthy it is not healthy at all. It is um a disaster waiting to happen inside your life.
(29:26) I have explained that before in that video as well. Um you can you can be a very good person. Your body could be very flexible. All of a sudden you will start hitting the panic attacks. You will start uh acting in a different way. And these people and you do not know what have you done. But maybe someone else who left their energy is now doing its tricks inside you because it is a foreign energy inside you.
(29:59) You are not allowed to carry within you. So when we are in sanatan we have a samba you know we we say we are in we are relatives now. Sambund means sum means equality. Bund means the bond the bond with of togetherness. So when we are trying to live our life with one person you are somebody and in the past we it is always said key janm you once you are married you are together for seven years seven lifetime seven lifetimes seven lifetimes seven lifetime means the seven layers of awareness so so your husband >> that is the real meaning of it >> yeah absolutely
(30:39) >> s it's a seven layers of awareness your chetana rises is >> that's >> so when you have found the right person that person will be able to help you increase your level of awareness from muladhaar to swadishtan to manipur to ana pishudi agya and sahastra that's that's what it is actually so when we are talking about the body count we have responsibility of my I have responsibility of my own ancestral line but if I have allowed and connected emotionally other person's energy outside my relationship. I have taken
(31:17) the energy of that ancestral line within me as well. Now the anxiety can come although you could be a very good person athlete body is flexible but maybe later on you're going to shift because ultimately that uh external energy has to leave you. Your God is not going to be activated in you if you're carrying lot of load inside you from other people.
(31:42) >> I've seen people they don't even care. They don't even I don't know >> huh because they are ostriches now okay it's no one is watching me and nothing will happen okay you want to believe that then you keep on believing it what to do but if you don't believe something does not mean it doesn't exist we these are the psychic impressions the sanscaras that are carried in the DNA of that person and if someone is 10 someone is 10 body counts so it's carrying the sanscaras of 10 ancestral 20 ancestral lines It screws the mind. It stops your
(32:17) growth, spiritual growth. But there is also if I say this, lot of people are going to use this word that I'm going to say to get on to more body counts are um the pioneer of hat yoga machendra gi and his student goraknat. Everyone knows that goraknat was a brahmachari means salibate.
(32:43) But his master machendranat was not a salivate person. So he he will get involved himself with many women. But that involvement is at absolute higher levels at different levels. You call it as a latas sadhana >> with multiple partners. >> Multiple partners women. >> So is that right to get involved? >> Latas sadhana.
(33:07) No see here um yogis especially the hut yogis and the one who get into certain I will because I will not reveal all that because people are going to misuse this. >> With certain kas you develop uh a gift of holding your sexual energies back means life force energy. At that moment the yogis can get involved in sexuality without losing their life force energy.
(33:37) >> So even if I use the word path path means ejaculation. >> Okay. So within that ejaculation the seeds are there sperms right? >> But there is a process the ka inner ka you actually filter it out. You're not using the energy. So in one of the books of u Osho sambok is samadhi >> from sexuality to enlightenment that discusses how if you are involved with a person that person can be helpful to elevate your awareness or it can put your awareness levels down as well >> and uh the some people then western
(34:24) world the real killers of sanatana They have connected the word tantra with sexuality. For them, tantra means having a partner and going through the process. In fact, tantra has nothing to do with it. Latas sad is involving the multiple partners without interchange of energies. Lot of people my friends you would ask so many questions on this but I'm not ready to open more on this one.
(34:52) You have to find a guru who can teach you all this. But if a normal person is involving in multiple sexualities that is a can of worms. You're actually allowing every energy to stay within you. And which energy acts in which way? Then you have no control. So when we talk about your your body is a temple it is so true.
(35:19) But within that temple which deity you are keeping divine or devil. So body count culture there is nothing to be proud of. If you are a sanati there is nothing to be proud of. There is no word called divorce or talaq. In sanatan there is no word because once you are involved your energy with one person you stay that way. These are Abrahamic religions.
(35:41) Christianity, Islam, they talk about divorce. They talk about leaving and being with someone else. So that's a tool actually. It's it's a tool. I don't want to be with you. I'm going to find someone else. Or maybe I have found someone else. But I find now excuse to not to be with you. >> Sanatan doesn't work like that. >> Once you are holding someone's energy, it's going to stay that way.
(36:10) >> Unless you realize your shortcomings and then you seek help and then cleanse yourself. Then cleanse once that mental thing. Huh? >> How do you cleanse yourself if you have done things in your life and you that you were not aware of at that time, right? But today you are. >> Huh. Exactly. >> So how do you do that? >> So when we talk about the solutions, right? If someone has got into that kind of lifestyle >> and now wants to come out.
(36:40) The first question is why do you want to come out? Because someone some people really like it. >> Like it what? >> To get involved. >> Yeah. Absolutely. >> Sexuality is not ugly. Sexuality is beautiful. >> Only if you know how to explore it properly. Lot of people they they don't know actually what sexuality is. They they become perverts.
(37:03) Actually if you really want to explore the sexuality you first have to explore it within you within your own body with within your own emotions within your own sensations you have to involve. And if you are getting into the spirituality then it can be a really powerful tool to elevate your awareness because it is the quickest way to experience timelessness and spacelessness.
(37:28) When we talk about quantum physics, quantum mechanics everything goes from the space. Whenever there is a space there is a mind, there is a time and there is a distance because there is a space. But when two partners are involved at the time when the female orgasm is achieved or the male is going through that the instant timelessness and spacelessness is felt which is very addictive cuz at that time nothing exists.
(37:58) >> Is it also true that you can manifest at that time also like it's >> do you have the mindfulness when the ejaculation or when the orgasm is reached? No one because that is the time you are right enter into the spacelessness and manifest what you are. That's where the when we talk about tantras and all at certain levels that could be helpful.
(38:26) But if tantra is only done to have sex with someone then that is not tantra at all that remains sexuality. >> If it's done with mindfulness then it works in your favor in terms of elevate your soul. You see, okay, let's let's talk about that. There are four ways you can have sex and it's written in the scriptures.
(38:47) One is a pashuh bhau sexuality with the animalistic >> which means you are using your partner as a body only but essentially you are nothing less than shagging yourself because at that time your partner body is there but you are not connected to to it at all. Pashu. So at that time the animal instincts all these rapists and all you think they have the sexuality with the awareness of mind. No they are animals.
(39:18) At that moment they are ready to kill the other person. The saddest people. They try to take pleasure by giving cuts to the other bodies. That's the animal instinct. The criminal instinct. So that's a pashuh bha. The level of sexual awareness is at very base chakra moolahad muladhar. >> And the second when the awareness rises then the sexuality you have with this in a human way means what is a human way to be human to have emotional connection with the other partner.
(39:53) So you don't get involved unless you feel connected to the person to your husband or wife or right at that moment there is a sense you will feel the sensations and you will acknowledge the other person as a human being as well. The third one is the vira the warrior way. Warrior way means the one person is trying to dominate the other one and then the sense of protection also comes >> that you belong to me and I will do everything to protect you and some psycho movies have been happening like that okay but that's a virhav warrior
(40:30) way the fourth bhav is the dahhab the divine way where you see the other person equivalent to you and you see not the body, not the human but a very divine sitting in that body. At that moment, the conjugation is helpful for elevating the soul level or awareness. So these are the four ways one can get involved.
(41:03) When we talk about the body culture, that's done in the animal instinct only. There is a sadistic way of having that. There is nothing human in it. So the same person you are having stand the same person you want to murder as well. You want to kill that person. It gives rise to violence inside you because the very seed of that one night stand is a self violence as well.
(41:29) You have violated your own ethics and this is how you go out as a hidden violent person. You just want to use that body to unload your sexuality to unload your hidden emotions. That's what body count is. There is nothing called love there. Dangerous to the society. Why this western culture is so chaotic. So um the heart is so blocked because they're carrying so much from their ancestral lines.
(42:04) The battles and the wars know the DNA of that is laden with all that people have to take appointment from their parents to meet them. What is this Christmas time? Michael, how was your Christmas? Yeah, I called my old man. We had a lunch together. It's not your damn He's not your old man. He's your father and she's not old lady.
(42:26) She's your mother. Indian culture also coming that Buddha buddhi buddha buddhi what the hell is wrong buddha buddhi he is your father and she's your mother he is your paji she is your maj >> so yeah when we talk about body culture very dangerous not good >> solution solution I think we >> no we have discussed the solutions one is Okay, we carry on the >> so one is you your body your every cell is a psychosomatic >> okay so every cell has a memory >> like every cell has a charge of I
(43:10) think.5 volts or 1.5 volts and you got like 50 trillion cells >> and if we see how much charge you have in your body but when we talk about um the memory of the cells every cell >> when we get into the DNA you know that proton electron inside the nucleus there is a >> energy that is hidden >> and that energy could be your energy or impacted by someone else's energy to clean that energy people can take some Epsom salt baths to clean but the real problem is the memory of the mind >> and for that you really have to work on
(43:50) detoxifying your mental body and then to your knowledge body ganar one way of doing So here when we talk about the balancing you take inhale from the right nostril and then hold and exhale from the left and then inhale and exhale. So by doing this you are balancing your left hemisphere of the brain and the right hemisphere of the brain which is a logic mind and the emotional mind.
(44:20) Once you reach to that stage, now you're sitting in one body and you really have to do this active exhale passive inhale. So people talk about kapal bhhati. This is not a kapal bhhati. Here I will demonstrate you once more. So all people with the body count questions this is your answer. Okay. So we sit and here we are going to place that memory in front of you.
(44:51) Now it could be a good memory or a bad memory. You know you could be happily involved with that person but that energy is still within you and you could be very disappointed that why did I do that and you are carrying the guilt within. So many people are carrying the guilt of that oh that was mistake my mistake and all that.
(45:10) So what what do we do? So I'm going to think about that memory exact time when it was happening or this is a time not to blame yourself for it. It's not the blame game has gone. This memory is sitting within you and when you are thinking about the memory something shifts in you. Your blood pressure shifts your uh emotional uh level shifts.
(45:33) That means that memory is still alive in you. And now it is time for you to be peaceful. For that that memory has to go out. So all that memory. So here we are going to take one inhale and exhale. Bring your awareness in your manipur in your navl and forceful exhale. Long powerful
(46:18) extended exhale. Empty out your stomach abdomen the whole space and move your tummy abdomen without breathing in and out. So, and after that one inhale, hold for a few seconds and one exhale, imagining the peace is coming within you. Once more, you're going to bring that memory in front of you. Feel that pain. If you
(47:05) felt the pain, disappointment and tap on the guilt that is sitting in you, that anger, that violence, that disappointment and irritation. Connect to that. And once again, active exhale, passive inhale. Do it with a purpose. Ray check.
(47:51) Inhale. Hold for a few seconds and exhale. Feeling the peace. By doing this how it works is you do it 11 times. Okay. People are going to ask sir how many times I do guru g how many times? Start with 11 times. Increase it to 21 times, 42 times, 100 times. Do it. But keep doing it. You keep doing it till that memory is not
(48:37) alive in you anymore. It's just a memory. But the emotional turmoil that was attached with that memory has been taken away. How does this work? When we are Okay, because people want to know now, Guru G, how does it work? So let me explain the science behind this. >> So when we are exhaling actively through the belly right from the belly like all this abdominal cavity there is a fire called jatar agni and a shiva ani the spiritual fire they become alive.
(49:18) It can be for any memory. >> Any memory, any memory, right? Any traumatic memory, you bring this out right in front of you. For example, if you are carrying some childhood injustice, you bring that in front. So once you start doing this one and you forcefully exhale, it has created a vacuum in your abdomen, your stomach, abdominal wra.
(49:47) And now you are moving your stomach like >> what you're doing that vacuum is sucking the energy from the cells in our body the toxic energy. >> Okay. And bringing out into your abdominal cavity and when you do it inhale bring it top and exhale. So it causes like a osmosis you know osmosis and reverse osmosis the the level of concentration which is different in two cells.
(50:26) So the higher concentration then flows to the lower concentration. So here if your abdomen has no energy left and it's completely out. That energy that is sitting in the adjacent organs and the cells it is sucked into your abdominal cavity. When you bring it out, you detoxify. Scientifically, you detoxify your body 3% through the your excretary uh excretion.
(50:57) 7% you detoxify through urination, 20% you detoxify your body through the sweat. >> That is for physical body. Now, but 70% of detoxification is done through your breath. And it is through the breath only you're going to detoxify your mind. Excretion, urination and sweating is only for the physical body. But real harm is done through the mental body with our memories.
(51:28) For that breath is the only tool that is helpful to detoxify you. So if there is some memory that was stuck from the past >> and it is giving you a trouble use this process. If you have a guru gi go in presence of guru gi and do it there. If you don't have guru g call this one to come and stand in front of you to help you during the process and I will come and help you.
(51:58) But that prayer has to be from your heart. So this is how zenzi all beautiful ones you can detoxify your body count. The memory of body count will not go. You can't say today I remember 10 body count and tomorrow oh I don't know how many. It's not going to happen. Okay. You will still have the memory but the energy stuck with that will be slowly eliminated from the body.
(52:25) And I think every young ones please do that and it will help you to detoxify your mind and also this process will clear lot of brain fog that you are having. >> Brain fog you can actually get rid of your addictions by doing this. Someone is having alcoholic addiction, porn addiction, smoking body counts. You do this and do it as people say 21 days because it takes 21 days to develop a neuropath takes 21 days.
(53:01) So morning evening sit for 5 minutes you are breathing anyways 5 minutes. Sit for 5 minutes in the evening. The best one is if your hot water tub >> if >> hot water bath. M >> or sit in the Nadim river or somewhere dipping your body do it there and you will come out as a new beautiful shiny person.
(53:36) So I have given a very ancient way of releasing any unwantedness even poverty consciousness you know I don't have enough you breathe the way this is you will see how much you are going to attract so detoxify your body like this detoxify your mental memories like this >> I'm saying detoxify the mental memories I'm not saying eliminate the memories there is no delete button of memory But when we take out the emotions that was attached to the memory then the >> that memory helps us to be wise and be in gratitude of our past.
(54:15) >> So Zenzi body count okay once you have done that huh please detoxify yourself and once you do that then don't jump in back there. >> Okay. Oh now I know the formula guru g I will sit 10 minutes today but let me have one more time. So that becomes another addiction. That becomes another sansscaras. That is very difficult.
(54:38) Then unknowingly you have done it. It's okay. Committing mistakes is good in life because mistakes are the door to wisdom. And if the mistake has been done, so what? If you have if you're eating chilies and you feel that it's very hot, you don't gulp it down. You just throw it out. So my generation, my country needs the healthy generation.
(55:02) Bharat needs a healthy >> Zenzi. Healthy Zenz will be when the Zenzi knows the life tools. Read Bhagat Gita >> about all the Kmas. All this Gan is from Bhagwat Gita and the our scriptures the hat yog and all that >> and we have advantage being Bharati. Our heritage and culture is millions of years old. All the books are there.
(55:34) Disadvantage is not with people who are not here. So if you have don't just go to temple to do gandi baja use the tools to activate that deity within you >> and bharat will be jabaradust bharat when my children are mentally strong >> and for that we have to give them the selfworth and give them tools to increase their selfesteem >> and not to shoot them with a guilt >> even jenzi when you are at teenage the hormones are fluctuating right your sexual energies are also at peak so there needs to be the right guidance and there should not be they should not be
(56:19) made to feel guilty about it even for adults or the women also are like massively made to feel guilty about their sexuality right so that's how they don't even choose to be expressive about their needs right so how do we normalize it that it is normal it is a creative force in you you just need to be mindful that where do you put your energy and how do you use it for your wellbeing right in your career also it is going to be very helpful so how guide us through that >> well see it is scientifically once again
(56:47) every 7 years >> you essentially develop a new body and every body like seven year from first to 7 years your bones are new your blood is new cells are new from 8th year you are essentially a new person okay when you reach 14 years your first seven years have taken care from the mooladhar food and and fear and all that.
(57:16) Second one, second 7 years the sexual chakras is appearing. Right? >> And the third seven years which is 15 to 21 >> that is where the self-worth in your the navl chakra the self worth the self-esteem is coming into play. And at that time if you're not speaking about sexuality and and if someone is >> shaming you for >> shaming you that you are then it is you are actually killing the self-esteem of that child.
(57:44) >> Even teenage up to 21 that is a time you have either broken the kid or have given the new birth to a kid. If you see that girls and boys who in get involved into sexual activities, it is because of that lack of selfworth that they have and they are not mindful >> at that time. In the first 20 years, the mind has to be very pure.
(58:09) That is why the first 20 years in our sanatum is called brahmachara ashram. >> Brahmachara means celibacy. They're not talking about celibacy of the body but also the celibacy of mind. the the the brain of a student where you are absorbing the information. But if you have a question and someone is shaming you for the question, if you want to talk about sexuality and your parents are shaming you for that, your friends are making fun of you, then this corrected dam this damages your brain >> because after 21 years, the next 7
(58:44) years, your awareness will reach into the heart center where you will be looking for the love of your life. But if you are carrying the self-esteem issues, self-worth issues, abuses from the first three lives means up to 21 years, what you are going to find out is absolutely opposite to the purpose of your life.
(59:02) You will not attract a peaceful person in your life. So all these zenzes if you are involved in body count culture and you're hiding the traumas um whoever will come in your life will be opposite to the purpose of your life. they will be actually triggering you even more because you are you have just become more smarter in hiding your traumas.
(59:24) So from 28 years to 35 most relations they lose the spark in their relationship. So 26 27 oh you are my soulmate you are my this and that. After 28 30 years the same person okay first of all when you call hey honey what's up what are you doing uh at 33 34 years you call say what is it what do you want I'm on my way all the spark is gone come 36 37 midlife crisis hits the sense of loss appears up to 40 42 done many people go through rebound own
(1:00:10) relationships at the time they're still searching for love but they have no guidance and they start the same cycle again so first 20 years celibacy of mind brahmacharayara second 20 years >> but if if some some uh if you say see in India or outside also >> it's a human tendency subja but advantage humans Indians have is we actually know about all this the stages of life outside they don't >> but you see that children today today They do have history of getting abused in their childhood be it girls or boys.
(1:00:45) >> Absolutely. >> So how do they heal themselves from that trauma? >> They don't >> because we see if you're talking about that they are damaged in their childhood. >> Everyone >> everyone is that but if you sit with people they do have a history. >> Oh my god. Ask me everyone carries trauma.
(1:01:06) If children are from Bharat or from US or from Canada, if they have been abused, they are not >> and it's mostly been done by your close family members. That's >> raising the child safely is a responsibility of parents because child it's a logical mind is not developed. So child doesn't have much of a vocabulary to express.
(1:01:27) The child only knows one thing how to be joyful and happy. But immediately if a bad touch happens or abuse happens the child heart gets closed and then the child slowly develops a trust issues. All these people about body culture these people about the body culture or people who have got traumas who couldn't express themselves especially the body culture people the first bad relationship they develop is with their father they start lying and they start manipulating the mothers.
(1:01:58) Kohibi anyone you take example all of you who are listening to that if you have score of body culture tell me how honest you are with your father and mother and that's how they are going to raise the liars because they themselves are liars and maybe their parents have done the same so when we talk about peace of mind love in in the life that's nonsense and because that will not manifest till you develop honesty in your heart you forget about the enlightened masters or meditation and samadhi. Forget about samadhi. First
(1:02:32) become the honest with yourself. Have honest conver conversation with your own self and your mirror will tell you how much you are storing and how much you are hiding inside. The other person have no access to what you are thinking. The other person can only see your face and your smiley face and big eyes and this and that.
(1:02:52) How but the real life is inside you which the other person have no access. How many skeletons you are hiding in your closet? Only you know or a person like me will tell you. It's not healthy what you're doing. >> I want to know that how does the such childhood affect your you being an adult in adulthood. Let me rephrase >> the whole thing.
(1:03:11) >> Whole thing if anyone is hiding a trauma then real you is not alive because what is alive in your body is the trauma. the real trauma in your life. The more traumas you hide in yourself, the more you will be deaf and blind to your reality and the real you is hidden somewhere. So then what you are acting out there, >> you are acting from like reacting from the trauma not the real actuality >> not at all.
(1:03:44) For example, if someone has somebody got sexually abused and then that lady has developed a real trust issues and trauma in the body. Next time even if the you know a friend will come and want to hug her, she will go like this. No, please don't touch me or please don't touch me or please or I don't have or start asking question mark or s start becoming suspicious in her relationship is triggered from the trauma.
(1:04:10) So people say why are you so suspicious? Why do you keep asking so many questions? And even some someday you will realize why do you ask so many questions? Because of that trust issues because of the trauma that abuse that you are hiding. It is still alive in you. So you are actually becoming overly protective for yourself.
(1:04:32) You want to defend your existence because the trauma was happening because you did not act that time. So people will you so that out of trauma how you act becomes your life. This is the new reality you have developed because you are not dealing with your past. What you are presenting now is a sum total of your traumas from the past.
(1:04:55) This is how the whole world is acting that way. Hardly any alive person is on the road. Everyone is driven by their traumas. You see out there people's eyes, you will not see happiness. People sitting in the fancy restaurants, they they are not enjoying the food. They are there because it's a lifestyle and they can afford it.
(1:05:15) But there is no happiness. There's no joyfulness. Sunday evening, everyone wants to go out for dinner without any purpose because it is Sunday. So you have to go out. My dear ones, if you have traumas, if you have concerns, please address it immediately because later on even your body is going to revolt against you. >> You're going to have so many issues.
(1:05:38) >> Absolutely. >> Medical issues. >> The the ladies develop menstrual issues, >> PCOS, SPCOD. >> Yep. All that. uh thyroid >> thyroid issues, kidney problems, anxiety, stress levels, dyslexia, dyslexia, dyslexicism and all of that is a result of hypertension, diabetes, all of that is what? Hidden anger, hidden the lies inside.
(1:06:06) I have seen so many examples around me with my own friends and community. >> Those people are never at peace. Will never be at peace. Forget about God. God will not exist for you. >> How if people if your family say that you should be grateful for that but how you how do you feel that you are grateful because you are so much under that ro you're living under that ro >> how can you love someone when your heart is bleeding from inside? >> Yes I remember I could not even I used to revolt at home now >> yeah ch kids become rebellious for
(1:06:38) >> they do become I used to get blamed for it but at heart I could not feel the warmth and love that I needed as a child. Right. So it used to kind of now I realizeful now I acknowledge it. So because maybe I have healed so many of my >> because you have taken time to ask questions about your own life >> that has given you some insights and so you are somewhere at peace with your past now.
(1:07:05) >> Yes. >> Many people don't want to talk about their past because it's so traumatic. So again if you are not in the talking terms with your past your present will be hell. Talking terms means you should be able to talk this is what happened to me and that is what happened to me and all that but not with complaining mode.
(1:07:26) >> Yes. >> If you are not talking terms with your past your present will be hell >> and you you have to you you've got to do it with empathy to the past that you had >> with gratitude. M >> but sometime I feel that did I deserve to go through that as a person even though I know that my soul chose that our souls chose to go through those traumas but question that did I deserve it did you for anyone >> well if you didn't deserve it it would not have happened to you you can only imagine how old are you 34 35 40 right
(1:08:02) how much do you remember yourself only these years what about the past you have no idea The account is not just one account. It's the whole statement of credit debit. The same children, same parent, parent parents, three children, everyone, one is one is acting different way, one is acting different way.
(1:08:24) But if the seed is same, how come they are acting different ways? So these are the past sanscaras that we carry. >> Is it true that the daughter um takes the father's lineage and uh the son has the mother's lineage in him? Is it true or we carry both of theirs? >> It's it could be in a different ways as well. It is said okay daughter takes father's intelligence and some says okay daughter takes father's features but essentially daughter and the son they both are the equal product of mother and father only know so what do we want to achieve out
(1:08:58) of this question the whole information is there the question is >> what the hell do I want out of my life that's more important to me father takes after son or son takes after mother how does it how does it matter right now if my heart is bleeding I don't care where it comes from somebody needs to give bal to heal my heart.
(1:09:17) Guruji I wanted to ask that why don't spiritual guru talk about sexuality and why should young people get into it because at the young age uh 19 16 year time period they are they have so many hormones fluctuating in them right so their focus is on something else they are operating from the moolad right the confusion and identity crisis that they have but spirituality and the spiritual guru do not talk about it but are they afraid to talk about it or uh what stops them from doing that? >> I don't know because uh I think I think every spiritual master must talk
(1:09:59) about sexuality openly. >> Okay. You cannot expect a younger generation to follow sanatan just by putting a guilt that why don't you read scriptures and this and that are Baba the 14 16 17 year he's sexually active he's focusing on his sexual organs in the early 20s he wants to focus on the career right so you feed him where The hunger is you must talk about sexuality.
(1:10:38) You must talk about what energy does at those levels. You cannot expect a person to follow a complete sanatan with the honest heart if there is no one to answer his questions. You cannot blame a teenager or a early 20s if someone says can I have a sexual partner and say don't talk about sexuality >> don't touch here don't touch there it's a sin the question is why can't I touch myself why can't I talk about sexuality whereas in our whole grantaas the sexuality is uh discussed you see ajenta
(1:11:25) Allora caves >> the the the the statues of the nude and sexuality even the kamautra is written in bharat right. So as you go into that caves outside you will see the nude erotic pictures but as soon as you go in slowly those nude pictures the erotic ones turns into the samadhi. That means when you are in the body consciousness you must acknowledge your body and what is happening in the body.
(1:11:54) And who's going to read the Bhagwat Gita by if the focus is completely on sexuality and the person is running for the answer. So he will search Google how many times masturbation is valid or Google can I do masturbation and somebody Baba G can I do? Hey doesn't work like that. Don't or this is why not >> hey don't argue with me every person a new spiritual guru whoever it is you must talk about sexuality give enough answers to the teenage questions what is sanatan what is sexuality
(1:12:42) what does sexuality do how can you explore sexuality in a safe way what is the purpose of energy in you Is money the energy? If you want to have the money yet you are not allowed to explore sexuality, can you attract money? Is money a physical money or it's a energy? All our deities bully baba have ma parvati and know and every male god has has it shy but this physical body is not alive without the shy and that shy when it is working is also working to make you ready for the future.
(1:13:23) It's called self-preservation. Even the nature will make the seeds before it goes into hibernation. When your body is growing, the sexual organs are growing >> and it start making energy. That energy is want is wanting to go out to be consumed. So the purpose of being men or being a woman is complete. But what is the right age of getting involved? What are the prerequisites for that? Every child has these questions.
(1:13:55) So if we are putting guilt in our children and if we are not allowing them to talk about sexuality asking the question and we say oh our parents did not talk about us about this we just learned with time well you learned with time now the Google is available if you don't answer if you don't make the home environment friendly >> they are going to search the same from someone else and you might not like at that time >> they going to do it anyway >> everyone must especially in Bharat talk openly about sexuality not to abuse the
(1:14:29) sexuality but to make it because it's already integral part of your being right but you must be happy and satisfied and be at peace with sexuality within yourself >> and sanatan has all the answers it has first of all people don't like to ask talk about it and even if they ask the questions then nobody Nobody wants to answer that.
(1:14:55) >> Even schools also sex education is uh involved but still it's not that much uh into awareness. The people are not that much aware if you want to make a changing ground level. >> Well, schools will not be be improving if the teachers remain unaware. you know somehow it's a taboo to talk about sexuality >> even the >> teachers don't want to talk openly sexuality because I don't know but in our ancient times we who would have written kamasutra otherwise if there was no explanation if people did not write it if people did not talk the tantras
(1:15:33) and yantras and mantras the all of that it has been explored in the past >> but as the in the bharat in the last 1400 years or 1500s when it's called when we went through this invasions and all which was a male dominating society >> they and one of the religions says no it's a uh the the female it's your crop you can harvest it whenever you want you tell me is female women are you the crop of someone sanatan doesn't talk we talk about davis shri mata shrim mati so those people in those religions they don't Let women talk about this male can
(1:16:14) do anything. The harams and the Arabian harams and all these the the ladies sold in the Arabian markets where is it all coming from that mental sickness. But Sanatan was not like that. These things have been in they have come here in Bhat from outside so-called convents >> the nuns and the fathers >> and all these Islams.
(1:16:39) Everyone needs to look inside their own religion to see what is it. The very basic says don't do it. The word don't do it. The mind doesn't register don't. You say don't do it. You will fall and you are visualizing the fall. The mind doesn't understand. No. If you tell children don't touch it, the mind is already imagining you being touching that part.
(1:17:00) If you say don't have sex, the child listens don't have sex. The child is imagining having sex with someone. And great example Mundas Karamchand Gandhi you know how stupidly and ignorantly there was three monkeys right >> don't don't see evil >> don't hear evil that the height of stupid ignorance don't see evil means first you have to understand what evil is then you see and they say no no no I don't want to see don't hear evil Or you hear something and then make a meaning in your mind that it is evil then don't hear it. What the hell? So
(1:17:43) you have already heard about it. >> You have already seen it. So don't see bad. First you want to see what is bad and why can't I see so I must see it. And stupidly ignorantly all Indian offices circar daftar or three monkeys are idiotically sitting there and forcing to forcing the society to do exactly the opposite.
(1:18:06) This is how we brainwash our society. >> Whereas we talk about righteous and unrighteous, right? The words don't have power. The meaning of that word connected with emotions have power. >> Like somebody's speaking Chinese to me, I I will not move anything. But he might be abusing very badly in his language. Similarly, a Punjabi Punjabi might be abusing very badly to someone.
(1:18:32) But a a person in the south India might be sipping a cup of tea. >> Anna brother what are you doing? Oh so words don't have power. The meaning you carry with emotions in yourself has the power. So if my children are asking questions and I'm saying it is bad, it is bad, it is bad, they are going to first understand why it is bad, what is bad and why can't I do it.
(1:19:05) So by denying someone the answer, you are pushing them further into that situation. So for for me I think we should talk about sexuality openly. How it is good, how it is bad, how is it safe, how it is not safe and there is nothing wrong with it. The whole creation is a result of sexuality. The nature is a result of sexuality.
(1:19:30) You, me, everything around here is a result of sexuality. >> Every energy that we go points towards the sexuality as well. If we go deeper, the money we want to earn subconsciously, it is going towards the sexuality. Money is energy. When you feel settled, you feel people feel powerful, erotic, your sexual chakra gets activated. >> Mean the people who have higher sexual energy, they are more creative or in terms of they can achieve better.
(1:19:56) Is is it somewhere? >> No, higher it is said that you see throughout the history there is no re realized master who was important. In fact, the people who have high sexual energy has lot of manifestation power. They are more creative. they can surrender even more >> important people can be helpless that sexual energy is the integral part of your kalini the chna shaki the awareness that rises above but if you are holding it or if you're not acknowledging it and you say I will not acknowledge it but oh Shiva where are you Shiva hello I'm with
(1:20:34) mata parvati g watching you from Himalayas Yes, >> we can talk spirituality in a fun language. Other spirituality doesn't mean you have to sit seriously. No, enjoy the life. 100% material life, 100% spiritual life. >> Live the life now. Don't spend the life. If you have question, ask. If you feel something, express what's wrong? H >> what's inside it's outside.
(1:21:11) The problem is when we have outside different inside is completely different. Now yogis don't do that. They are inside their outside same. If they feel hungry they say I'm hungry feed me. It's not you feeling hungry you want food. No no no I'm good. That's our society. The mannerism teaches us. >> If you go to someone's house and they offer biscuits or plate just say don't eat. Huh? Just say we are full.
(1:21:37) We were taught like this. No. >> Yes. If auntie offers you biscuit say I am full and me being ch child and everyone say auntie is offering biscuit and samosa baby you want and say no oh please listen to my heart I want it but I'm forced to say no auntie like this so many of us I don't want to do it but please let me do it type inside >> I don't want to do it but inside say yes please let me do it so why can't we talk openly about this.
(1:22:09) >> When we talk about spirituality, we we talk about sexuality as well. Kundalini, the very sexual energy is an integral part of kundalini. You want to raise your kundalini. Acknowledge your sexuality. Let your sexual energy be free. That's how she's going to rise. So, Zenzi is no different. And I love Zenzi because they are free souls.
(1:22:30) This is the one population who is actually asking about the life >> and they are not here to please anybody. No way >> they can attend the meeting. the I was just watching this with a face phone and I say okay because it's a meeting now boss doesn't mean 9 to5 and 9 to7 if I boss is still in the room if I go what will he think >> no I can work from home boss you gave me this KPI I have done that if you want me to work 2 hours more you got to pay me overtime I have life as well but my parents if boss is sitting 7:00 you
(1:23:08) cannot leave before that Well, boss might be divorced or single and you have a family waiting. You should go home. So, Zenzi has guts to express their anger and resentment. And my generations, they don't have balls to hear that honesty. >> So true. >> Yes. Say, "Boss, I don't like to work for you because you're an asshole.
(1:23:30) " >> They can say it. They do. If you want to take the society out of delusions, we must respect Zenzi. >> Empower them. empower them. They are my children. >> The the the future of the world bat >> is in Zenz's hand and I love my children >> and I want to empower them and I want to give all the tools that God has given all the gifts that they have given to me.
(1:23:57) I want to give it man come on live your life go out there kill it but don't forget to live in the same time. >> So true. I think Jenzie have got so much to learn from you from this episode. >> Absolutely. And I will invite everyone to please get involved, write comments and get involved in discussions. And if you have more questions, we'll come up with answers to your you know questions.
(1:24:19) Absolutely. Let's have a active discussion this platform. Let it be a place where the questions are there and the answer comes >> with no hesitation >> and I will give answers from from my scriptures. Wherever you are stuck, Sanatan has a solution. If no one is talking about sexuality, this Guru G is a little crazy one.
(1:24:41) We're going to explore more on that. >> So true. Thank you so much. It was such a casual but at the same time deep conversation that we had and Jenzi and entire generation have learned so much from this episode. Thank you so much for watching.