Harish : మీ కాపురాన్ని పాడుచేస్తున్న ఆ వ్యక్తి ఎవరు? |Wife & Husband Issues |SumanTV Anchor Nagaraju

Harish : మీ కాపురాన్ని పాడుచేస్తున్న ఆ వ్యక్తి ఎవరు? |Wife & Husband Issues |SumanTV Anchor Nagaraju

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Transcript:
(00:00) Did you graduate or finish B.Tech in 2025 or 26? Are you looking for a software job? Then join the Code Gyaan 100 Days course and land your job. Hello, Dr. Harish. Hello. If we look at a husband and wife relationship. Their relationship seems fine, but due to outside negative energy, we see situations where their lives fall apart unknowingly.
(00:26) Yeah. Which negative energy causes them to split or have fights, or if there is a negative influence on their names, how do we identify it? What are the signs and symptoms? Yeah, the negative effect on a husband and wife, in that family, first starts with misunderstandings. I have seen it, even in those who come to me, that there is the right match at the right time, and there is love between them.
(00:55) Once he has a morning shift and she has a night shift, the distance between them grows slowly. So, the first major difference is that a gap develops between them. When negative energy affects a husband and wife, the first attempt is to separate them. They stay apart; there is love, they talk on the phone, but it feels like that's enough.
(01:16) First, they become distant, that's number one. Second, someone else's words start becoming more appealing. Those who should be a unit—a team—start falling under the influence of someone from the opposite team. That's negative energy. Number one, that's how negative energy takes hold. In the form of someone saying, " They are good, they are important to me , I have seen it," they enter your life as friends or office colleagues.
(01:47) If there is negative energy, someone enters your life as a character where they become more important than your wife; for her, someone else becomes more important than her husband; your friend's advice or your job becomes more important. They forget that a husband and wife should be together as one unit.
(02:08) Okay, that means negative energy has taken hold. Third, if there is negative energy and a husband and wife are separating, it means the fire in the house is not properly lit; by fire, we mean the 'Agneyam'. 'Agneyam' is our South-East corner. If the fire is not right in the South-East corner, it causes turmoil in the house.
(02:30) Leaving the place where the kitchen should be, and the flame should be lit correctly, they cause agitation in the house. Okay , if the fire in the house is not right , or if their internal fire—inside the body—is not balanced, it leads to fights. Okay, there are mental conflicts; or, since we are talking about energy formats, I will explain it in terms of energy: the day you try to sync with hyper-energetic people, you suffer, and it turns negative.
(03:02) Hyper-energetic people involve themselves in everything you do. I will give you an example: a husband and wife moved into an apartment. The lady next door was over-enthusiastic, saying "We will help, we will help," and she invaded their personal space; they couldn't say no, couldn't tell her to stop, and ended up ruining their married life.
(03:26) Very, very important; such hyper-exaggerated, hyper-energetic people unnecessarily intrude into your life. Identify such people; they fall under influence. Don’t get into conflicts between yourselves by thinking, "It's all fine, we are only saying what's good, so what is it to her?" This is very, very, very important.
(03:48) Hyper-exaggerated or hyper-energetic people, next, I will tell you the fourth very important point. Wherever ego becomes dominant in our body and "I" comes up unknowingly, a relationship—there is no place for "I" in a husband and wife relationship. There is no "me," there is no "mine." Thinking "My word must prevail, only what I think should happen, me, mine, mine, mine"—that relationship gets ruined by negative energy, that’s all .
(04:18) Even if you don’t break up and leave each other outwardly, you will certainly become separated mentally. Okay, that is why I often say in many places, mental divorce is common in many relationships. That is, people stay together, but their minds do not meet because of negative energy. Since you are seeing this negative energy in relationships, I am telling you, the Swadhisthana is weak.
(04:40) Swadhisthana chakra means the second chakra beyond the Muladhara; if there is an imbalance there, or if Venus is weak in our chart , or unknowingly if Mars is weak, these things keep happening. They happen in some combination or another. It’s not just this; there are many other combinations, but these can be seen as major ones.
(05:05) Where Venus is weak, the compatibility between the two—I say, the relationship between husband and wife is the sweetest of all. They spoil the relationship that should have created the trust to live together for 60 to 70 years. Just due to negative energies, negative thinking, negative thoughts, and various other ideas— these outer forces, as you mentioned, that are affecting you, we must always have a check to guard against them.
(05:35) That is, who is taking up too much space in my life? Whom am I allowing to take the space that my husband or my wife should be occupying? As soon as you ask that, you will find a check on the negative energy. You can check it; it becomes clear in signs and symptoms if I am spending the time I should be giving to my wife or husband elsewhere.
(05:59) And to avoid falling under that influence, I will tell you a few important points: one, eat together as much as possible, at least one meal, husband and wife should eat together, okay, that is very, very important. Next is, when talking, instead of insulting or demeaning them, think about what I can appreciate or what I can praise in them—this will reduce a lot of negative energy between you.
(06:28) Third, you both can do some pooja, spiritual process, or combined yoga together. That will protect your energy . And keep vibrating the Swadhisthana; make your Swadhisthana as strong as possible. And if there is something like that in the horoscope—Venus is here, Mars is there—the planets sitting somewhere up there won't do anything to us, they are right here, we need to set them right.
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