Rajitha Mynampally : ఉద్యోగాల పేరుతో హాస్టల్స్ లో అమ్మాయిలు చేసే పనులివే | Best Moral Video

Rajitha Mynampally : ఉద్యోగాల పేరుతో హాస్టల్స్ లో అమ్మాయిలు చేసే పనులివే | Best Moral Video

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(00:00) Did you graduate with a Degree or B.Tech in 2025 or 26? Are you waiting for a software job? Then join the Code Gyaan 100 Days course and land a job. Hello Rasta garu. Hello Usha. Whenever we send children to other states or abroad, some go for jobs and some go for studies. Parents have many hopes, but the atrocities children commit there—if parents find out by mistake—it’s so painful it feels like their hearts would just stop.
(00:35) Let’s talk from the children's side. Why are they forgetting their goals, and what can we tell them so they have clarity on the reason they came there? Oh my, this topic makes my blood boil. I mean, there is absolutely no reason to talk about it from their side, whether it's the situation or anything else.
(01:05) It’s a pity, but I will talk from both sides; we always discuss the pros and cons of any topic. It’s not just about boys or just about girls. In this case, however, I would say it is a one-sided story. With their egos inflated—take culture, sensitivity, responsibility toward parents, or their dignity—they have discarded everything and gone out of control! If we go back to the flashback of how parents raised them, if I tell you that now, you will just call it another lecture.
(01:49) Honestly, some parents deserve to be slapped for the way they’ve raised these kids, and that needs to be said. It applies to both girls and boys , but I am focusing on girls today, Usha, because boys are no less; they are both partners in crime, and there is no doubt we need a separate episode for boys.
(02:15) The hardships they faced to educate them, dressing them in little frocks and anklets, watching them take their first steps with such joy, holding their hands to take them to school, hugging them when they came back, feeding them—to explain this to you girls is not a story, it's an entire episode. When will you realize? Only after your life is ruined, and you have your own children, and you face the consequences of the wretched things you are doing now—that’s when you will remember this pain and understand this love. Parents who would spend
(03:02) sleepless nights, keeping cool compresses on your foreheads when you had a fever, and caring for you—no matter how much we say this, you just don't get it. It’s because you have become thick-skinned. You’ve gotten used to a style, to trending fads, and that is why you have become this wretched—I say this with a burning heart.
(03:25) Setting aside the reasons, the blaming, and all that...a person has their own self, a soul. Instead of experiencing the necessary transformation, they have buried their morals and stepped out acting like warriors. Before sending them away, a war goes on in every single house. Whenever children are sent away to hostels, or to another town for jobs or
(03:54) studies...people might talk shamelessly saying, "Madam, our own people sent them," but before sending them, there is a war going on inside. Where can you see that internal war? It is seen by a mother and a father. They severed the umbilical cord and let the child go out into the world, but when sending them away from here, there is a kind of churning in the gut that only mothers understand; that is an indescribable love, I am telling you.
(04:26) So, why do they send them, Madam? We are criticizing many people, asking why they have to put them in hostels. When criticized like that, it is an indescribable situation for some. One point is that children need exposure, they need to know good from bad, and tomorrow they have to stand on their own feet...hey, for how many days will we hold them back? You might ask, "Why send them to hostels? Couldn't they keep them at home?" some question.
(04:52) I say that is wrong; are those at home not doing things? Do those who stay at home and go out not do the same? Regardless of the story, the question of sending them to hostels—I am saying that question should be ruled out. Why? Because when there are girls right next to your home engaging in affairs and escapades, stop blaming parents by citing hostels.
(05:13) Guys , stop that blame game. Why are they sending them? So that you can stand on your own two feet and build your own life tomorrow. What are they building for themselves? Who is building anything, really? Studying in hostels, going here and there, going to America —whatever you do, you are the ones who will experience the good and the bad tomorrow.
(05:34) But the pain, the special side effect, is certainly given to the parents. This side effect will hit you in the future, there is no doubt about it; if I go on making videos about this , in the counseling sessions I conduct, at least six out of ten are about suspicions after marriage. Why? Because they were with someone, did foolish things here, posted them; the partner saw it, and they develop an opinion.
(06:02) Okay, once they see you like that, they view anyone else the same way. So, without your knowledge, the effect of what you did here hits you there. If you ask why it’s becoming so miserable without that awareness, it’s because I am very angry; I am really very angry right now. Girls, don't misunderstand me, I’m telling you that what you are doing is very lowly.
(06:28) Perhaps you are questioning me, "Madam, what are we doing?" Those who are guilty will naturally get defensive , just like those who touch their shoulders when someone mentions a thief —they do it to deflect focus. If parents send you away for your own good , and you join a hostel under the pretext of a job, wearing this and that —those who wore churidars at home wearing shorts is a style, I don't deny that at all.
(06:53) Where does it change to those things? I have never linked it to shorts or clothes. What is happening here is that a sense of abandon has set in; when they start showing the looseness they brought from their parents 'home, their behavior changes too, that is what I am saying. It is not wrong to wear them; I am not talking only about those clothes.
(07:12) They are changing their behavior as easily as they change their clothes; that is what I am trying to say here. That behavior is just a sudden twist. I have heard with my own ears—whether it is children around me or my children's friends—that they don't like how they live in their villages, and then, whenever they come to Hyderabad, there is a total mismatch between the clothes they wear and their surroundings.
(07:39) Because they get excited, because they want to show off that style immediately , they have to post it. Why, for what? Instead of that post, why not post about your education, your distinction, or wearing amazing, fully covered, modern clothes? Can't you look modern in trousers, shirts, or other outfits? Can't you look modern while being fully covered? Why can't you show that? What is modern? Modern should mean being modern in your thoughts.
(08:10) Who on earth gave you the idea that modern means wearing skimpy clothes? That is not it at all. Modernism is about presenting yourself with attitude, and those clothes in Western culture were meant for comfort. What comfort? If you wear a traditional saree or half-saree, you can't get on a bike, you can't ride one, or you can't get on a bus comfortably; there is discomfort.
(08:35) Even if you wear a lehenga or a saree, you might feel discomfort. That is why, why should you wear pants and shirts everywhere all the time? Where to? Not for jobs, and not when you are out socializing, but feel free to wear whatever you like at specific parties. Clothes are not the issue at all. The issue is why you change your character as easily as you change your clothes, talking to boys on the phone late into the night in hostels.
(09:08) If you ask, " Madam, can't we fall in love?" I am not saying don't fall in love. Even this cruel world is subservient to love. Even God has fallen for love. Wherever you look, without love, there is no human existence, right? Born with love, dying with love; everything starts and ends right there.
(09:30) I am not talking about love; I am talking about your lack of restraint here. What do I mean? From the moment you wake up, calling each other "baby" on phone calls—you don't even care if you are dressed or not during video calls. Whoever it is, you don't care where they are recording , what they are doing, what they are saying, or what they are looking at— it doesn't matter to you.
(09:50) What do they think of your character? The person you are with just wants pleasure at that moment, and you are giving it to them. They give you some gift...what do you call that? What do you call people who are shown things for money? You tell me , madam. If you say, "You are speaking so filthily," it is because you are doing such filthy things, girls.
(10:07) I am not speaking filthily. It comes from frustration because the problems you face eventually come to us, so to warn you—using strict language—we certainly don't want to lose your dignity, nor our own. But certainly, some things have to be said this harshly, which is why I am saying them. On the way to the office, someone becomes your friend near the hostel.
(10:36) Then another friend is made at the office, and when you meet that friend's friends, they become friends too. What is this? What is this chain system? If not this guy, then that guy, and if not that guy, another—if you fall so easily for physical pleasures, where will you stand in life? I won't hesitate to say that it's pathetic.
(11:01) The beauty you have, a soul, means your self-discipline and determination start from there. Control. Control—there have been many occasions where I've had to see people kissing in elevators without self-control. We watch videos, and some people even get to witness these things in person.
(11:26) That is why, when many people criticize me and abuse me all day long, it's not because I'm exaggerating, but because these are harsh realities, it burns inside. Why do I have to shout and say this so strongly now? Do you have any shame at all? What is the purpose? What is your actual goal? You came here leaving your parents, leaving your parents' home-cooked food, and now you complain there is no food in the hostel.
(11:53) But when you call them, you speak such sweet words, "Mom, there is no food here, I miss you, the food is bad, please send money." Do they have to send money so you can spend it on Pani Puri, snacks, hotels, pubs, and drinks on the streets? While they don't eat properly, thinking, "Oh, what did my child eat? My child likes these snacks, my child likes this," and the father works hard from dawn to dusk to send that money.
(12:24) Here you are, living a life of luxury, wearing skimpy clothes, and walking around on the streets with no sense of shame or dignity. On that matter, I am speaking with a very, very strong voice. How shameless your behavior is! Whether you are cheating on someone, cheating on a boyfriend, or talking to someone behind his back, you are stabbing your parents in the heart and deceiving yourself.
(12:52) There is nothing worse than that. If you think, "Oh, Ma'am just talks like this, we are stylish, we are posh," and continue to act like this, the consequences will be very severe, my dear darlings. I am very sorry to say, I am like a mother, a sister, and a friend to all of you, and because I am so close to your modern culture, I am giving you this warning in the same way .
(13:19) You alone are responsible for the consequences that follow, no one else. There is nothing to comment about your parents here. They are dreaming, watching their TV serials, hoping that their child will turn out well or that they should find a good match for their child. They don't know what you are doing behind their backs.
(13:37) The pathetic thing is, Usha! Some random guy—why don't you remember your parents when you are cheating on them? Who is he? Who belongs to whom? You don't even know his identity, you don't know who his parents are, what he does, what his background is—he has nothing. Without proper clothes or decency, you make video calls to him and talk about filthy things.
(14:00) Usha, how shameless! How shameless! What should I say? What came out of those video calls? Recording them and getting blackmailed—and then you cry about it. When you have no shame and do that deed yourself, speaking on a video call in the first place is absolutely wrong! Wrong! Making video calls with just anybody is wrong.
(14:22) Engaging in nude calls and letting that pleasure get instigated— oh my God! You lose control after that. They don’t realize this. They start with, "Baby, please talk to me, I want to see you, my dear, honey," and you just fall for it. You'll have all that only after marriage. What is it that you don’t understand? Even if you marry him, those "honey" and "darling" terms won't last.
(14:45) Once you start for pleasure and those boys start their hypnosis while talking, your hormones take over anyway. Just like when you consume alcohol, drugs, or vapes, you need to be conscious beforehand. Because once they take over, they control your senses. This is one of the same addictions. That person gives you small bits of appreciation, compliments you for being pretty, or gives you small things, but in return, they are taking away your most valuable asset.
(15:16) Your most valuable asset is your dignity, not your body. Once your self-respect is shattered, you won't be able to question anything he does afterward. Because you have demeaned yourself. You lost yourself; you have lost. What will he say? "Who asked you to do it?" Where will you hide your face? He is the one who made you do it; would you call the one who planned a murder the only culprit? Someone plans and says, "Hit them.
(15:47) " Will they only take the person who drove the truck? Even the one who planned it. Whoever causes the hit... Exactly! No matter how much he provoked you, where did your sense go? You don't remember this provocation, but you remember your studies—we struggle to get you an education, why don't you remember this provocation? Does that mean you don't want pressure, you only
(16:09) want pleasure? You want pleasure...you are also enjoying it, you are a part of that. He is treating you this way only because you got involved. So, once you go under that control, you are surely gone! So what I’m saying is—don't step into that quagmire in the first place, don't cross the line. When Mother Sita saw the golden deer and crossed the line drawn by Lakshmana, what happened? The Ramayana was created .
(16:39) You need ethics and rules within you ... "I won't speak to boys after eight or nine, no video calls to unknown people," do the boys understand? I won't go on tours with unknown people or boys. Why should you go on tours with boys, what will happen? If they talk like that, you should slap them! I am asking why you even need to go? I keep shouting that you shouldn't even let girls sleep next to their own uncles or cousins at home, and not to send them for sleepovers because you never know what might happen.
(17:14) Look at how many children in the past—and your favorite stars, heroines, and influencers today—are saying, "We faced physical abuse in our own homes; it happened at home, our paternal uncles did it, our maternal uncles did it." Don't you have any sense of shame? Once someone goes out and drinks, where will you have any control? So, you’ve abandoned all shame and decency, and without any limits, you just have to be with boys? A trip means a place, but can’t you go to a place with your girlfriends? Why do you need boys?
(17:44) What’s with these gatherings with boys? I find it disgusting. I’m saying, have self-control, you don’t need friends from other towns; meet them here, but draw a line! No physical touching! What would happen, Ma'am? What are you saying? What would happen? That’s a beautiful relationship. Actually, after getting married, when you perform the rituals, that first touch should be meaningful.
(18:13) You need to know—look, if there’s no touch left to experience after marriage because you’ve enjoyed everything beforehand, what’s left? He’ll get bored, and if he doesn’t start an affair, what else will he do? If you have an answer for me, tell me, or else tell me if I’m wrong. What you’re doing is right, Ma'am, but show me one person who doesn't do this.
(18:43) I’m speaking against those who do it; I never talk about the good girls who don’t. That category will always exist. Acting without limits, deceiving your parents, taking to the streets, sacrificing your goals for bodily pleasures, gambling away their hard work and love—only to go out, give yourself away, and then later act like a beggar saying, "Love me, I'm pregnant , take me in"—or if he blackmails you with photos after you're married, and you end up hanging yourself in shame while your parents are left in agony...
(19:20) why? Who asked you to do that? Because it’s just a lack of self-control, ethics, and culture. Without love, respect, or a bond with your parents, and with no control over yourself, you make your character loose. Whenever someone blames the other party, I get so angry; I always say, it’s your fault. You forget the very reason why you started the journey.
(19:50) And on that journey, you just let anyone and everyone on board. How much does that "letting them on board" actually cost you? Ma'am, the way you’re speaking, I’m hearing from so many people lately that boys are getting burned out. Girls have no value left, is that it? She goes with him, this one goes with that one; what else is there? Like I said, all these friends meet up, and they just keep on loving.
(20:15) And now, if a guy has a girlfriend, he starts another relationship with her friend too. Honestly, where are you all heading? Don't you have any shame left for yourselves? When you stand in front of a mirror and look yourself in the eye, what do you think of your situation? Why live a life like that? You’ve deprived yourselves of the chance to ever know actual pleasure or real happiness.
(20:38) There’s nothing left; what else could there be? You’ll get sick of it, too. Nothing makes sense anymore , but very big problems are happening. Usha, about what you said earlier, after marriage, they go on trips and roam around with whoever they please... are those people actually good? I’m not saying they are wrong; I’m not calling them bad, cheap, or evil.
(20:57) I’m not blaming anyone. I have only one question: I'm asking if it's necessary, give me an answer. Is it necessary for you to go on a tour with boys? And when you go, is it necessary to wear short clothes and drink alcohol with them? Um . If you ask if it's wrong, I don't even have an answer for you; is there any real answer to what is "wrong"? No, there is no answer to what is wrong.
(21:22) Third, if you post photos of yourself with boys on social media and they stay there for a lifetime, let's assume your husband is broad-minded later on. Your in-laws might not be, your relatives might not be. And yesterday, one such incident happened, and there is always some wicked person out there.
(21:39) He could try something, he could blackmail you. Anything could happen. If you are suddenly leading a good life overnight, the person who took those photos might get some twisted ideas. We have seen so many such cases in real life, and there are plenty in movies. From the moment we wake up, if we look at the newspapers or channels, we see an incident.
(22:00) Whether it's an incident where that guy asks for money later, or asks to resume physical intimacy, or threatens to tell your husband—how many harassers are out there? Only a few come out into the light, my dear. Think of how many girls are suffering through torture without it ever coming out! If this fear of your husband wasn't there, would you even have that fear? Aren't you responsible for the mistake you made? You are not a victim.
(22:29) You are responsible for that. You are solely responsible for that. No one else, not your parents. People talk all this nonsense: "How did their parents raise them," or "What kind of upbringing is this." Who says the parents raised them that way? In this day and age, there is no chance that parents raised them like this.
(22:50) Who is teaching them? In these matters, parents don't even know anything. They are smarter and more active on the internet than anyone else . They know everything, they have everything. They are the ones telling their parents, "You don't know anything ," right? These girls and boys who think they are so enlightened, once they have a problem tomorrow, what can their parents even solve? Tell me, where is there any control? Where is the control to solve anything? Where will you hide your face? If he brings this photo and says, "Parents!""
(23:16) Which boy is this?""Why did you hit my daughter?""Did you say you want a divorce?" If they ask, "What is this?" and show them that, where will you hide your face? Where will you hide it? They will hide their wounds and come home; what can they do? That is why you are ruining your own lives.
(23:35) That is a different matter. Even afterwards, you will be at an extreme level. The guilt will also haunt you. You might find a genuinely good husband. But, you are not as pure as he is. What will your situation be then? If you are in such a loop, what is your focus? I mean, if you are just caught up in these tantrums, this enjoyment, this entertainment, and this hormonal engagement, forgetting your focus and your goals—if you struggle financially or lack individuality tomorrow—who is the only person responsible for all of this? Answer
(24:11) that to yourself. So, even now, stop deceiving your parents, stop wasting money on useless things, and stop acting cheap—even high-class girls are doing these cheap things. Instead, focus on yourself, set your life straight, marry the person you want, and only then will your romance and physical happiness give you true satisfaction.
(24:41) What you're doing now is so cheap—like when leftover food is thrown out and dogs scramble for it; your situation tomorrow will be even more pathetic than that. So, protect your golden future, carry yourself with the attitude of a queen, because a woman is defined by her attitude and self-respect—just like someone like Rani Laxmibai.
(25:06) A girl should walk through life with such an attitude that when she passes by, people think, "Wow, a tigress has arrived." To ensure no one talks down to you or gossips, you must build your own character. And I would love to see that, because we are reaching the skies, going on rockets, and achieving great things.
(25:32) But don't get trapped by boys—or even better, don't fall for physical pleasures, gifts, or such traps; stay strong. Believe me, life will be superb, and no man will ever dare to look at you with disrespect. See for yourself, experience it. Thank you so much, Rachitha; many parents truly send their children away with so much fear and anxiety.
(26:00) From the day they leave, parents constantly worry about what they are eating, where they are staying, and how they are living. I hope this video brings awareness to many young women about their actions, even if it happens just once. I heard something just yesterday. A very wise speaker was saying something, do you know what? In the past, they would check seven generations on both sides before arranging a marriage.
(26:22) Now, it's not like that; is the girl a virgin? Is the boy a virgin? They are having to ask if both are "fresh" before marrying. It's like two thieves settling in a town, not asking each other anything, just to avoid any questions—that’s the kind of "tradition" we have reached. But remember, history repeats itself, and all those old-fashioned values are coming back.
(26:43) So, I have a strong belief that our culture and traditions will return to their original form; I sincerely hope that happens. Thank you, ma'am. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, Usha. For personal and business promotions on SumanTV, contact the number below.